Isizukulwana ngasinye sabazali sihlakulela isimboli somzali. Nangona akukho nkcazo inokubamba wonke umzali, ngokuqinisekileyo, iindlela ezidlulileyo zeendlela zokubeletha ziquka:
- Ngama-1950 : Isakhiwo sentsapho esineentloko zabantu abadala, apho abantwana beyingxenye yentsapho, kodwa ingengqalelo kwintsapho. Abantu abadala kunye nabantwana baphila ubomi obufanayo, kunye nabazali bebambisana nabantwana ekufundiseni nasekufundeni ubomi. Abantwana bathunyelwa ukuba badlale bebodwa.
- Ema-1960 : Ukuqhubeka kwee-1950s, ngokuhambela ekuvunyelwene ngakumbi kunye nobuchule. Njengoko ihlabathi laqala ukukhula ngakumbi, bebafana nabazali.
- Ngama-1970-1980 : Njengoko isahlukaniso sasiqheleke ngakumbi kwaye abafazi bangena emsebenzini, abantwana baqala ukuthatha uxanduva oluthe xaxa malunga nokuphila kwabo kunye nempilo yemihla ngemihla. Izingane zaseLatchkey zaba yindawo eqhelekileyo, kwaye umama wendabuko, ngobisi kunye nekiki elinde emva kwesikolo, waba ngaphantsi.
- Ngama-1990s- 2000 : I- helicoptering , i- over-programming , ukwesaba malunga nokukhuseleko - abazali baqala ukubandakanyeka kubomi babo abantwana, ukususela ekuseni ukuya kulala kunanini ngaphambili.
Abazali bale minyaka elishumi benza ntoni ngokwahlukileyo kwile minyaka edlulileyo?
Iwaka leeMillennials zilindele ixesha elide ukuqala iiNtsapho
Ngezizathu ezininzi, kubandakanywa izibambiso zezemali, izigqibo zomsebenzi, ukuhamba phambili kunye nokunye, abantu abadala abasalinde ixesha elide ukuba babe nabantwana ngaphezu kwesizukulwana ngaphambi kwabo.
Ukufikeleleka kolawulo oluthembekileyo lokulawulwa kokuzalwa, kunye nokukhetha okuziwayo malunga nokuqalisa intsapho kuncedise ukukhulisa iminyaka yobudala boomama. Ngo-2015, umyinge weminyaka ibhinqa lalinomntwana wokuqala oneminyaka engama-28, ngokwe-CDC. Thelekisa ukuba ngo-1990, xa ubudala beminyaka yobudala be-mama beneminyaka engama-25, kwaye kuyacaca ukuba iminyaka xa abazali beqala ukunyuka.
Abazali Yabelana Ngombolo KwizoLuntu
Iindaba zoluntu ziyinxalenye yobomi bomntu wonke, kodwa mhlawumbi akukho nabantwana abaninzi abantwana. Ukususela kwi-sonogram yokuqala ukuya kwizikolo eziphakamileyo, abaninzi abazali ngo-2010 abanamahloni-okanye baphikisana-malunga nokwabelana ngempilo yabantwana kwi-intanethi. Iipesenti ezisibhozo ze-Millennial abazali baye babelane ngemifanekiso yabantwana babo kwimidiya yoluntu, xa kuthelekiswa ne-47% yabazali be-Baby Boomers. Iiblogi zabazali, ezaqala ekuqaleni kwee-2000s, zikhona yonke indawo, zibandakanya izihloko ezivela kwi-co-sleep to travel families. Abazali basebenzisa amajelo asekuhlaleni njengendlela yokuthetha kunye namalungu entsapho, apho izizukulwana zangaphambili zabazali ziza kufowunela neefowuni kwiifati ezide.
Ulwakhiwo loNtsapho luvulelwe ukutolika
Abazali abangabodwa kunye nabazali be-LGBTQ batshintshela ingcamango yentsapho yendabuko ibonakala kwi-millennium entsha.
Umzekelo:
Izibini ezitshatileyo ziquka i-68% yabazali ngekhulu lama-21, xa kuthelekiswa nama-93% ngawo-1950.
Ngokwe-Census.gov , phakathi kwezigidi ezi-2 ne-3.7 yezigidi ezingaphantsi kwe-18 ubudala abanomzali we-LGBTQ, kwaye malunga nama-200,000 abo bakhuliswa ngumlingani wesini nesini. Uninzi lwaba bantwana bakhuliswa ngumzali omnye we-LGBTQ okanye ngesibini esinikwa ngesini ezahlukeneyo apho umzali omnye ulwabelana ngesondo.
Abanye besetyhini bakhetha ukuba ngabazali abangabodwa ngamnye ngonyaka. Kanye ngokuqhelekileyo kwabasetyhini abahluphekileyo nabancinci, lo mkhangeli awubonakali ukuphuculwa phantsi, njengoko inkohlakalo yokuba ngumama ongenamzali ithatyathelwe yinto ekhethwa ngabafazi ukuba babe nabantwana.
Amagama ayingqayizivele yiNorm
I-Baby Boomers yayivame ukubiza abantwana babo ukuze bahlale kunye namanye abantwana, oku kuphumela eklasini egcwele iiKarens, iLisas, iMichaels ne-Stevens. Amagama ayingqayizivele ayengabonakali kude kube kutshanje. Iwaka leeMillennials, njengokuba umthetho ufana nokwenza izinto ngendlela yabo, bafumana amagama angabonakaliyo, ahlukeneyo kunye ahlukeneyo kubantwana babo, ekhokela kubazali nootata abafunde ukugcina izimvo zabo kunye nabafundisi beklasini abangacinga ukuba bayabelana ngesini phambi komhla wokuqala weklasi.
Iseluleko sabazali
Ii-Millennials zinomlinganiselo omkhulu wemithombo yokufumana iingcebiso kumzali, ngenxa ye-intanethi, iindaba zoluntu kunye nokuqhagamshelana ngokukhawuleza kokuthumela imiyalezo. Ngokungafani nabazali babo, abo bathembela kwiingcali ezifana noDkt. Spock noT. Berry Brazelton ukuba bacebise iingcebiso ngaphezu koomama nabantwana babo, ii-Millennials zinokuthi zenze i-Millennials-zenze iingcali kwiindawo zonke zokubazali, ziqokelele ulwazi oluvela kubini boqhagamshelwano kunye nabo boqobo. Akukho siphelo kwinqanaba leengcebiso ezikhoyo, kodwa i-Savvy Millennials iyakwazi ukukhulisa oko kusebenza kubantwana babo nokuba yintoni engayiyo, kwaye iyakwazi ukunika iingcebiso kubazali abatsha xa kufika ixesha. Ngabantu abanzi ababandakanya amaqela e-Facebook, ii-Instagram hashtag kunye nokunye, i-Millennials zinendlela ezininzi zokufunda ngendlela engcono yokukhulisa abantwana babo.
Uninzi lwexesha leentsapho
Akunakho ukuqonda, kuba u-46% wabazali be-Millennial ngo-2010 bobabini emsebenzini, ngokumalunga ne-31% ngo-1970, kodwa iMillennials ichithe ixesha elingaphezulu kunaliphi na isizukulwana esidlulileyo kunye nabantwana babo. Oobawo, ngokukodwa, bachitha ixesha elininzi - imizuzu engama-59 ngosuku - kunye nabantwana babo kunokuba oobawo bachitha kunye nabantwana babo kuma-1960, xa beba nemizuzu engama-16 kuphela ngosuku lokuchitha abantwana.
Ukuzibophezela kwishedyuli esakhiweyo ukuba iMinyaka eyi-Millennial iyenze imisebenzi yabantwana ithetha ukuba abazali bahlala behlala nezingane zabo, ukusuka kumama kunye nam ukuya kwimizuzu yabantwana ukuba bafike kwiqela lezemidlalo elilandelelanayo apho abantwana kunye nabazali bavolontiya njengabaqeqeshi. Imisebenzi emininzi ayikho nje malunga nabantwana kodwa ngabazali, ngokunjalo. Nangona iidlo zeentsapho ezijikeleza itafile yokudlela ayifani njengokuba kwakunjalo, abazali bachitha ixesha elininzi kunye nezingane zabo ngezinye iindlela. Kukho umsebenzi wesikolo oza kulawulwa, i-carpools ukuqhuba, kunye nezinye iindlela ezininzi abazali abaye batye ngexesha kunye neentsapho zabo.
Ngabantu abaninzi basebenza ekhaya, abazali bafumaneka ngokulula kwimisebenzi yemizuzu yokugqibela, izibophelelo kunye nemisebenzi yesikolo. Abazali be-Millennials banomdla kakhulu kunabantwana kwiminyaka emininzi edluleyo, kwaye yindlela abayithandayo ngayo.