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Isikhathi sokubuyela esikolweni lixesha elifanelekileyo lokutshintshwa kweentsapho ezininzi. Ukuba ulungelelanise ukubuyela kwimihla yokusa , ukulala kwasekuqaleni, kunye nomsebenzi wesikolo kuthetha ukuba abazali kunye nezingane kufuneka zenze utshintsho kwiintsuku ezikhululekileyo zasehlotyeni ukuya kwixesha elikhawulezayo. Ubuqhetseba bokusinda kwiimeko eziqhelekileyo zokubuyela emva kwesikolo kukulungele: Abanye ukucwangcisa kunye nentlangano ngobusuku obuphambili baya kulondoloza ukusa kwintambama kwaye benze yonke into ihambe ngokukhawuleza.
Nazi ezinye izicwangciso zokuzama-kunye-zinyaniso kwiingxaki eziphezulu emva kokuya ezikolweni iintsapho ezijongene nokuwa.
Umntwana wakho unenkinga yokuvuka
Ngaphandle kokuba uzame ukutshintsha umntwana wakho kwixesha lokulala kwasekuseni kunye neveki zokusa kwintsasa ngaphambi kokuba isikolo siqalise, umntwana wakho unokukhathazeka ukutshintshwa kwishedyuli sasehlotyeni yexesha lokulala kunye nokusa.
Isixazululo: Yenza umntwana wakho abuyele kwishedyuli yesikolo ngokumisela ixesha elihle lokulala kunye nokuqala ekuqaleni nangaphambili ukuqinisekisa ukuba ulala ngokwaneleyo . ( Abantwana abaneminyaka emi-3 ukuya kwi-5 badinga naphakathi kweeyure eziyi-10 ukuya kwe-13 zokulala kunye nabantwana abaneminyaka engama-6 ukuya kwe-12 badinga malunga neeyure eziyi-9 ukuya kwe-12.) Qaphela izinto ezinokuphazamisa ubuthongo bezingane, ezifana nokusebenzisa i-electronic devices okanye ukutya i-tsokolate kufuphi nexesha lokulala, kwaye uqinisekise ukuba igumbi lakhe lipholile, likhululekile, kwaye liluhlaza ukuze akwazi ukuphumla nokulala ngexesha lokulala.
Umntwana wakho akafuni ukuya esikolweni
Kuyaqondakala ukuba kutheni umntwana wakho angafuni ukubuyela esikolweni.
Ihlobo lithetha inkululeko, ichitha ixesha elingakumbi ekhaya kunye nomama nobaba, ndilenga kunye nabahlobo, ndidlala ngaphandle, ndize ndihambe. Ukuyeka ukubuyela kwimithetho kunye nokulindela kunye nomsebenzi wesikolo yinguqu enkulu, kwaye enye ininzi abantwana ifuna ixesha lokutshintshela.
Isixazululo: Nangona ungeke ukwazi ukwenza umntwana wakho akholelwe ukuba isikolo esikolweni sineempawu ezifanayo njengehlobo, ungenza isiqalo esikolweni silinge ngokumkhumbuza zonke izinto ezinikezela ixesha lokubuya esikolweni, ezifana ukubona abahlobo bakhe kwakhona, ukwenza imisebenzi yokuzonwabisa esikolweni, ukuhamba ukuya ezikolweni, nokwenza izinto ezithandayo ukuzenza esikolweni (imidlalo yokuzonwabisa kwindawo yokuzivocavoca okanye ikhefu, ukwenza ubugcisa kunye neengcweti, ukucula okanye ukudansa okanye ukudlala izixhobo zomculo, kunye nokuninzi).
Ungakwazi kwakhona ukumisela imihla yokudlala emva kwesikolo ukwenzela ukuba umntwana wakho enze umsebenzi wesikolo kunye nabahlobo bakhe aze adlale nabo emva kokuba umsebenzi usuphelile.
Umntwana wakho uxhalabile okanye uxhalale ngokubuyela esikolweni
Ukuxhalabisa ngokubuyela esikolweni kufana kakhulu phakathi kwabantwana abaneminyaka esikolweni. Emva kweenyanga ekhaya, kulula ukubona isizathu sokuba abantwana banganeliseki okanye baxakeke ngokusuka esikolweni kwisikolo, apho banokuba nabo bafunda nabo kunye nabafundisi abangabaziyo kwaye kufuneka bahlangabezane nezilindele. Kwaye ukuba umntwana wakho uqala isifundo somntwana okanye uqala ukuya kwibanga lokuqala, mhlawumbi uyaxhalabisa xa ejongene nento entsha kunye engaziwayo.
Isixazululo: Beka imihla yokudlala kunye nabafundi ofunda nabo ukuba umntwana wakho uya kubona esikolweni, ingakumbi xa umntwana wakho engazazi kakuhle abantwana; Oku kuya kumnceda enze abahlobo abatsha baze bazi ukuba bangaphandle kwendawo yokufundela. Yaye qiniseka ukuba umntwana wakho ulala ngobuninzi kwaye udla ukutya okunempilo-zombini anokunceda ukuphelisa uxinzelelo kunye nokuxhalabisa . Ukuncedisa umntwana wakho ukubetha i- back-to-school blues , qhubeka uqhuba imisebenzi enonwabisa ehlobo (njengokuya epakini ngeveki okanye ukutya isidlo ngaphandle kwesikhonkwane) kunye nemigangatho yokuhleka komsebenzi umntwana wakho angakhangeleka phambili , njengokuhamba kwe-apple okanye ukuhamba.
Umntwana wakho uthatha ixesha elide ukuba agqoke
Ukuba umntwana wakho ekhwela ekuseni xa ekulungele ukusebenza okanye echitha imizuzu engama-20 ekhangela isambatho esinqwenela ukugqoka, ixesha lokuba wenze utshintsho kwindlela yakho yokusa.
Isixazululo: Misa i-timer kwaye wenze umdlalo wokugqoka ukuba unomngeni wakho umntwana ukuba alungiselele ngexesha. Yiba nomncintiswano ukubona ilungu lentsapho elungelelani usuku kwaye lihlala kwisidlo sakusasa kuqala, kwaye lunomvuzo wengubo yokuqala yeveki. (Umvuzo ungaba yinto efana nokukhetha apho okanye / nento oyidla ngayo isidlo ngobusuku ngoLwesihlanu okanye yiphi i-movie yakho intsapho iya kuwubukela ngeveki.) Ukuphepha ukuthintela ukuba "Ndiyaphi na into endiyithandayo [iesibini / isketi / i jeans] ?? !! " umdlalo, yenza umntwana wakho akhethe aze abeke zonke iingubo zakhe zobusuku ngobusuku.
Ukwenza isidlo sasemini kunye nesidlo sasesikolweni kukuhlaselwa
Ukuba uziva uziva ukhululekile kusasa nje ngokuba ukhawuleza ukwenza isidlo sasemini kunye nesidlo sasemini yonke intsapho ngaphambi kokuba uqhube umnyango, ukucwangciswa okuncinane nokucwangcisa ubusuku busenokukwenza ukuba umehluko wehlabathi.
Isixazululo: Enye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu ongayenza ukuze ulondoloze ixesha (kunye nococeko lwakho) kwisikhathi sokubuya esikolweni kukulungiselela iidloki kunye nesidlo sasekuseni ebusuku. Ukupakisha isidlo sasemphilo esikolweni kwibhokisi lesidlo sakho somntwana uze usibeke efrijini. Lungiselela ngokukhawuleza kwaye kulula ukukhupha ubuchopho-ubusika ebusuku-ngaphambili njenge-veggie kunye ne-egg burrito-ukuze ukwazi ukuwukhupha ekuseni kwaye uthabathe kunye nawe ukuba uhambe. Unokwazi ukuseta itafile ngesidlo sasekuseni ebusuku ngaphambi kokuba ungenayo iikomityi, izitya kunye nempahla, ukugcina loo mizuzu eyigugu ekuseni.
Umntwana wakho uyamzonda-uyamzonda! -kuya emsebenzini wesikolo
Esi sikhalazo esiqhelekileyo phakathi kwabantwana ngexesha lokubuyela esikolweni kunye nonyaka. Ngokuqinisekileyo, uphando lubonisa ukuba abantwana abaseblasini aphantsi bafumana umsebenzi omkhulu wesikolo ekhaya.
Isixazululo: Ukuba umntwana wethu ubonakala egxininiswe ngomsebenzi wesikolo kwaye uchitha iiyure kwinqanaba lokuqala okanye lesibini ekwenzeni izabelo zakhe, thetha notitshala womntwana wakho malunga nento onokuyenza ukuze uncede. Yiba ngummeli kumntwana wakho: Ukuba unenkathazo kwaye usebenza kakhulu ubusuku bonke, amathuba ayenzekayo kunye nabantwana afunda nabo. Thetha nabanye abazali kwaye usebenze notitshala womntwana wakho ukufumana isisombululo. Ukwenza umsebenzi wesikolo ube mnandi, sebenzisana nomntwana wakho ukusekela indawo yokusebenzela yasekhaya eyenzileyo kwaye ukhululekile, wenze umsebenzi wakho okanye ufunde kufuphi nomntwana wakho ukugcina inkampani.
Wonke umntu ugxininiswe
Isikhathi sokubuyela esikolweni sinokubangela uxinzelelo kubazali nakwizingane ngokufanayo. Ukuqwalasela ukuba wena kunye nezingane zakho zitshintsha ukusuka kwixesha eliqhelekileyo lokukhululeka kwehlobo ukuya kwenyuka-kunye-ukuya kunye nokwenza njalo-umhla-ozayo-shedyuli yexesha lokubuyela esikolweni, Kuyaqondakala ukuba kuya kuba noxinzelelo olungakumbi.
Isixazululo: Khumbula ukuba umntwana wakho uphatha utshintsho olukhulu kunye nokulindela ngeli xesha lonyaka. Enye yezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu abazali abangayenza ngexesha lokubuyela esikolweni lenza izinto zibe mnandi, ziqonde xa zenza iphutha , kwaye zixhase ngakumbi.