Imibuzo ebalulekileyo yokubuza ngaphambi komhla wokudlala

Abantwana abaneminyaka esikolweni bayenza abahlobo abatsha , benze iindidi zentlalo ngokwabo, kwaye bachithe ixesha elidityanisiweyo kwimidlalo yokudlala. Kwaye ngenxa yokuba bengabantwana abancinci okanye abafundela esikolweni, baya kuhamba ezindlwini zabahlobo ukuba badlale kaninzi ngaphandle komama, utata okanye umgcini-makhathayo.

Ukuba umntwana wakho ufuna ukuya endlwini yomngane ukuba adlale, qi niseka ukuba ufumana ulwazi olubalulekileyo kwabanye abazali ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho uya kukhuseleka xa ezonwabisa.

Nazi ezinye zezinto ezibalulekileyo ukuzibuza, nendlela yokuzibuza.

Kutheni Ufanele Ubuze Imibuzo Ngaphambi Komhla Wokudlala (kunye Nokwenza Kanjani)

Abazali abaninzi bayanqikaza ukufumana ulwazi oluyimfuneko kubazali abadlalayo kuba bafuni ukubonwa njengalo mzali. Uyazi, umzali, u-helicoptering umzali ozama ukulawula yonke into emalunga nomntwana.

Kodwa inyaniso kukuba ukwazi ezinye iinkcukacha ezibalulekileyo malunga nomkhaya womngane wakho ngaphambi komdlalo wokudlala kuyindawo ebalulekileyo yokugcina umntwana wakho ephephile. Nazi ezinye iingcebiso eziphambili zokugcina engqondweni xa uthetha nabazali bomngane wakho umntwana ngaphambi kokuba umntwana ahambe yakhe endlwini yakhe yokudlala:

• Ungesabi ukubuza. Unika umntwana wakho kwaye ubeka ithemba lakho kwintsapho. Cinga ngako ngale ndlela: Awuyi kumgxotha umntwana wakho kwisiko lokunakekela abantwana okanye esikolweni ngaphandle kokuyihlola ngokugqibeleleyo; Umgaqo ofanayo usebenza apha.

• Yimise njengengxoxo, kungekhona ukuphenywa . Nika imibuzo yakho ngendlela enobubele nehloniphekileyo, kwaye qi nikela ukuba abanye abazali bazi ukuba uya kulindela ukuba bazi zonke iinkcukacha malunga nekhaya lakho ngaphambi kokuba umntwana eze ekhaya lakho.
• Musa ukugxotha nayiphi na ingxaki onokuyenza; uthembele emzimbeni wakho. Ukuba ungaziva uqiniseke ngokupheleleyo emva kokuba uthetha nabazali abahlala kuyo, themba iimvakalelo zakho. Ukunikezela ukusingatha umhla wokudlala endlwini yakho okanye ucebise ukuba wena okanye umnakekeli wakho uthathe abantwana epakini ukuze badlale.

Imibuzo yokubuza Umntwana wakho Umhla wokudlala

Eminye yemibuzo omele uyibuze ngaphambi kokuba ulahle umntanakho kumhla wokudlala uquka:

1. Ngubani oya kuhlala ekhaya kunye nendlela abantwana abaza kulawulwa ngayo ngokufutshane? Ngaba omnye wabazali uza kuba ekhaya, okanye ngaba kuya kuba nomnakekeli omdala okhoyo? Baya kudlala phi abantwana, kwaye ngaba umzali okanye umnakekeli uza kuba kufuphi xa abantwana befuna into okanye ingxabano okanye enye ingxaki eyenzekayo?
2. Ngaba kukho izibhamu endlwini? E-US, enye yezindlu ezintathu kunye nabantwana inompu, ngokwe-American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP). Kwaye abantwana abangaba zigidi ezili-1.7 bahlala kwikhaya elinompu ophetheyo ongagcinwanga ngokukhuselekileyo. I-AAP kunye ne-ASK / Brady Campaign yokuVimba ukuTlobongela kweGunduku ikhuthaza abazali ukuba bacele malunga nezibhamu phambi komntwana ukuya kumhlobo, isihlobo okanye ummelwane ukuba adlale. Khumbula ukuba nje ukuthetha nabantwana malunga neengozi zemipu ayanele ngokwaneleyo, ngokutsho kwe-AAP, uphando lubonisa ukuba abantwana basenokuba nolwazi kwaye bahendwe ukuphatha izibhamu. Awufihleli nje izibhamu ngokwaneleyo ekubeni usenokuzijonga. Indlela efanelekileyo yokunciphisa ukufa kunye nokulimala okuchaphazelekayo ngumlilo kukugcina izibhamu ekhaya, kwaye ukuba abanako ukususwa, ukuqinisekisa ukuba bavalelwe ngokukhuselekileyo kubantwana nakwishumi, kusho i-AAP.

1. Ngaba abantwana baya kufikelela kwi- intanethi ? Ngaba abantwana baya kufumana ikhomputha, kwaye ukuba kunjalo, ngaba umntu omdala uyongamela kwaye abe kwigumbi nabantwana?
2. Yimaphi ama-movie , imiboniso yeTV, imidlalo yevidiyo, njl njl. Evunyelwe endlwini yakho? Ukuba awufuni ukuba umntwana wakho abukele nayiphi na into ephakanyisiwe ephezulu kunePG okanye PG-13 okanye ukudlala umdlalo wevidiyo olinganiswe phezulu kune "E", cacisa ukhetho lwakho. Ungacingi ukuba bonke abazali baya kukhetho lwakho lokukhetha. Abanye abazali bangaba kuhle ngokuvumela umntu oneminyaka eli-8 ukuba adlale i- Call of Duty okanye abukele i-F-fated flick. Ukuba awuvumelani, tshekani nje ukuba awuvumelanga ezi zinto kumntwana wakho (nangona ungabona ukuba abanye abazali abaninzi bayayenza, kwaye yintoni eyoyikisayo inkunzi enye inokuba yinto enye), kwaye uchaze ukuba Musa ukucinga ukuba umntwana wakho ulungele umxholo okhulileyo okanti.

1. Ziziphi izinto abantwana abaya kwenzayo? Ngaba baya kuphuma ngaphandle ukuze badlale, kwaye ukuba kunjalo, ngaba umntu omdala uya kuhamba naye? Ngaba aba bantwana baya kukhwela iibhasi kwaye ukuba kunjalo, ngaba baya kufuneka babeke ii-helmets? Ngaba bayadlala naphi na esitrato?
2. Ngaba kukho ikhefu, i-trampoline, okanye indlu eneenqwelo, okanye ezinye izingozi eziqhelekileyo eziye zaziwa ngenxa yokulimala? (Kufuneka ufunde kwakhona malunga neengcebiso zokukhusela abantwana kwihlobo kunye nonyaka wonke.)
3. Ingaba iinqanawa ziza kulawulwa ngelixa zisidla? (Oku kubaluleke ngakumbi ukuba umntwana wakho unokutya okanye ukunyamezela; ukuba kunjalo, uya kufuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba umzali okanye umnakekeli uyazi ukuba yintoni omele akwenze xa kwenzeka ukuphendula, njengokuthi, ukulawula i-Epi- I-Pen.) Ngaba umntu omdala ophantsiyo uyazi ukuba yintoni na omele ayenze xa ecaleni?
4. Ziziphi iimfuyo onayo ekhaya lakho? Ngaba isilwanyana sakho sinobubele kunye nezingane? Ukuba umntwana wakho unayo nayiphi na indlela yokunyuka kwezilwanyana, le nto iya kuba ngumbuzo obalulekileyo. Kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba ucacise ukuba umntwana wakho uyamoyike okanye akhathazeke malunga nezilwanyana ezithile (njengezinja okanye i-hamsters, umzekelo).
5. Ngaba uya kushiya abantwana bodwa kwantoni na? Abanye abazali bacinga ukuba kulungile ukushiya, bathi, abaneminyaka engama-7 ubudala bodwa xa beya kwivenkile. Abanye (kuquka nawe) abanokuvuma. Fumana ngaphambi kokuba umntanakho anqunywe ukuba okanye umntwana wakho angashiywa engagqithwanga, nangona mizuzu embalwa.
6. Ngaba uya kuqhuba apho uhamba nezingane? Ukuba kunjalo, ungafuna ukushiya isihlalo sakho semoto okanye isihlalo sokhuseleko.
7. Ingaba kukho imigaqo endlwini yakho umntwana kufuneka azi malunga nayo? Ngokomzekelo, ukuba abantwana bekulindeleke ukuba bathathe izicathulo zabo ngaphakathi endlwini okanye bahlale phantsi kwengxolo ngelixa bedlala, kunokunceda ukwazi ukuba ngaphambili.
8. Yintoni esinokuyizisa? Lo ngumbuzo abazali abaninzi bayakulibala ukubuza xa intsapho ibamba umntwana wabo ngomdlalo wokudlala. Ukuthumela ngokutya okunye okunye okanye iitys ingaba yinto efanelekileyo ukuba uyamkelwa yintsapho yolondolozo.

Ekugqibeleni, qiniseka ukuhamba nemithetho ethile yokhuseleko kunye nomntwana wakho, njengokubaluleka kokungavumi ukuba umntu ahlasele indawo yakhe, enze ukuba azive enganeliseki, okanye umcele ukuba azigcine iimfihlo ezivela kubazali bakhe. Khumbula: Ukhuseleko lwabantwana aluhlali luyingozi ngomntu; Kwakhona kubhekisela kubantu ababaziyo.