Isiseko Sokuphepha kwabantwana
Abaselula abanamhlanje, abafana, kunye nabantwana besikolo abafunda isikolo bafumana ngokubanzi nangaphezulu kwezobuchwephesha, ngokugqithiseleyo badlulisa oko abazali babo abazi malunga nalezi zobuchwepheshe zobuchwepheshe.
Ngexa abantwana abathile bathetha ukuba bafunda iilwimi zekhompyutheni, ukudala iiwebhsayithi, kunye nokwakha iirobhothi, abaninzi abantu basebenzise iteknoloji yanamhlanje ukubukela iividiyo kwi-YouTube kunye nokudlala i-MMORPGs kwiifowuni zabo nokuthumela imiyalezo.
Ngelishwa, ezininzi zezinto zakho abantwana abakwazi ukuzenza kwi-intanethi kunye kunye neefowuni zabo kunokukhokelela kwingxaki eninzi xa bengagqalwa. Ukubukela i-porn kunye nezinye iividiyo ezingalunganga kunye newebhsayithi ekuthumelelweni nge- SMS (ukuthumela imiyalezo engafanelekanga okanye iifoto) kunye nokuxubusha nabaxhamli, iteknoloji entsha ingakhokelela kwiingxaki ezintsha. Iifowuni ze-intanethi kunye ne-intanethi zikhokelela kwiindlela ezintsha zokuba abantwana baxhatshazwe - i-cyberbullying.
Oko akuthethi ukuba ithetha ukuba abantwana bakho abanakho ikhompyutha okanye ifowuni , kodwa kufuneka ufunde ngokulawulwa kwabazali onokukunceda ekukhuseleni njengoko basebenzisa iijjethi zobuchwepheshe zakutshanje.
Ulawulo lwabazali
Ulawulo lwabazali lungabandakanya isofthiwe yokulawula yabazali, isofthiwe yokubeka iliso, isofthiwe yokucoca i-intanethi kunye ne-internet blockers. Ezi ziqhele ukusekwa ukuvimba ukufikelela kwiikhompyutha okanye kwiwebhusayithi ethile.
Enye ingxaki enkulu ngabalawuli bomzali kukuba abazali abaninzi bacinga nje ngokuzibeka kwiikhomputha zabo zasekhaya, apho bayazi ukuba abantwana babo baya kufumaneka kwi-intanethi, kodwa bayalibala ngazo zonke ezinye iigadgets kunye nakwiikhaya zabo ukufikelela kwi-intanethi.
Ngexesha esingahle siphila kwiminyaka apho ifriji yomntu wonke inokufikelela kwi-intanethi (ezinye sele zenza njalo), ezinye iigadgets zingenza umntwana wakho axhumeke kwi-intanethi, njengabo:
- I-iPad (nge-WiFi)
- I-iPhone kunye namanye ama-smartphone
- INintendo DS kunye neNintendo 3DS (nge-WiFi)
- I-Nintendo Wii ne-Wii U
- Sony Playstation 4
- I-Sony PSP (nge-WiFi)
- XBox
Oku kunokuba mnandi, ukunika abantwana ithuba lokufikelela kwimidlalo ye-intanethi kunye nokudlala imidlalo ye-intanethi, kodwa kubenza baxoxe nabantu kwaye baninzi baquka umkhangeli wewebhu. Nangona ulawulo lwabazali lufumaneka kwiinkoliso zezi zixhobo, umzali oqhelekileyo ongasebenzisi i sixhobo ngokwakhe akakwazi ukucinga ngokuguqula loo migaqo.
Ngaphambi kokufumana enye yalezi zixhobo ezilungiselelwe i-Intanethi okanye ukulungelelanisa inkqubo yokudlala i-intanethi kwi-intanethi yakho yasekhaya, qiniseka ukuba uyazi ukuvula nayiphi na imigaqo yolawulo lwabazali.
I-Intanethi yoLawulo lwabazali
Iprogram yolawulo lwabazali lwakhiwe kwinguqu yakamuva ye-Mac OS X kunye neWindows, kodwa ingathengwa njengeenkqubo ezihlukeneyo, ezidla ngokunika iinkcukacha ezininzi kunye nokuguquguquka. Ezi ziquka iinkqubo ezifana ne-Bsafe Online, Net Nanny, kunye ne-Eye Eye.
Ukongeza kwolu hlobo lwesofthiwe yolawulo lwabazali, ezinye izinto onokuzenza ukugcina abantwana bakho bekhuselekileyo kwi-intanethi ziquka:
- ukubeka ukukhuselwa kwephasiwedi kwikhompyutheni, ukuze ubhalise abantwana bakho xa befuna ukusebenzisa i-intanethi
- usebenzisa isofthiwe yolawulo lwabazali ukukhawulela ukufikelela kwikhompyutha kunye ne-intanethi kumaxesha apho umzali ahlala ekhaya kwaye ujikeleze oko abantwana bakho abakwenzayo
- ukuba usebenzisa i-router ukwabelana nge-intanethi ngokuya kwindlu, ke uyibeke ekunqandeni ukufikelela kumaxesha xa umzali ekhaya ukuba ahlole okanye asebenzise i-router yakho ukuseta isicelo esithile se-intanethi kunye nokufikelela kumdlalo kwiikhomputha ezahlukeneyo okanye kwi-intanethi ekulungele ukudlala iinkqubo
- Ukuseta izicwangciso zobungasese eziqinileyo xa umntwana wakho esebenzisa isayithi yokunxibelelana nabantu, njenge-Facebook, kwaye unciphise uluhlu lwabahlobo babo kubantu ababaziyo
- ukubeka ikhompyutha kunye nezinye izixhobo ezinokufikelela kwi-intanethi kwindawo efanelekileyo yendlu, ukuze ukwazi ukulawula ngqo oko abantwana bakho abakwenzayo
- ukucela umniki-nkonzo wakho we-intanethi (ISP) malunga nesofthiwe yokucoca eyongezelelweyo enokufumaneka kuwe
- ukuba uyazi ukuba ngaphandle kolawulo lwabazali, abantwana banokufihla iingoma zabo ngokucima idatha eyimfihlo kwi-intanethi kwi-intanethi abayisebenzisayo, kubandakanywa imbali yokukhangela, i-cache kunye neekhukhi
- ukuphonononga uhlobo luni lokufikelela kwi-intanethi abantwana bakho abaya kubakho xa batyelela abahlobo namalungu entsapho
Ukongeza kwizilumkiso eziqhelekileyo malunga nokukhusela abantwana "kwi-intanethi," abazali kufuneka baqaphele izinto ezithile eziza kubangela ingxaki, kubandakanywa:
- Iiprogram zokwabelana ngeFayile engekho mthethweni - ngeenkqubo ezithile kunye neendawo, ezifana neGnutella, Bit Torrent, neKazaa, njl., Abantwana balayishe ngokungemthetho umculo, iifilimu kunye nezinye izinto.
- Iindawo zeNtlalo Zentlalo - abaninzi abantwana basebenzisa ezi ndawo, ezifana ne-Twitter, i-Facebook, kunye ne-MySpace, ukuthumela ulwazi lomntu siqu kunye neefoto, ezithatha izidumbu ukuba zidibanise nomntwana wakho.
- IM kunye neNgxoxo - ngaphezu kokuthumela iifowuni kwiifowuni zabo, abantwana abaninzi basebenzisa imiyalezo ye-Instant Messaging (Kik kunye nezinye ii-apps) kunye neeKlayenti zeNgxoxo (iChat, AOL, Yahoo Messenger, njl.) Ukuthetha nabahlobo babo, kwaye ngelanga, ngamanye amaxesha babe njengabantwana. Ingxoxo engafanelekanga ingaba yingxaki enkulu kakhulu kwi-MMORPGs, apho abadlali abaninzi baneminyaka engamashumi amabini anesithathu.
- Ingxoxo yeVidiyo - abantwana baye baqalisa ukusebenzisa amacandelo eengxoxo zevidiyo ngokubanzi, kuquka i- Chatroulette ethandwayo, efana nabasebenzisi abangabaziyo ukuba baxoxe kunye kwaye baxelelwe ukuba baquke abantu abaninzi abaziphatha ngendlela engafanelekanga ngelixa bebhubhsayithi yabo.
- IiVideos zeWebhu - abantwana kwi-intanethi badla ngokukhawuleza bafumane i-YouTube. Ngelishwa, kukho ezininzi zevidiyo kwi-YouTube nakwezinye iiwebhsayithi ezingafanelekanga abantwana.
Iifowuni zeeNkqubo zoLawulo lwabazali
Nangona ubuninzi beengqalelo kwiingozi ze-intanethi bekho kwiikhompyutheni, abazali abambalwa babonakala beqonda ukuba ezininzi zeefowuni zanamhlanje ziyi-computer ezincinci xa zifika kuhlobo lokufikelela olubonelela kwi-intanethi. Thatha, umzekelo, i-iPhone, equka isicelo se-e-Mail, isiphequluli sewebhu, kunye nesicelo sokubukela iividiyo kwi-YouTube. Izingane zingayisebenzisa kwakhona ukuthumela imiyalezo yombhalo, thatha uze uthumele ezinye iifoto, kwaye kunjalo, uthetha.
Ungayiphatha njani kwaye uyikhusele abantwana bakho xa usebenzisa 'i-smartphone,' ingakumbi xa inokufikelela kwi-intanethi?
Into yokuqala omele uyenze ukufunda indlela yokujika kwaye usebenzise naluphi na ulawulo lwabazali olufakwe neselfowuni, nangona kunjalo, banokuthi bangabikho. Oku kungabandakanya isofthiwe yolawulo lwabazali okwenene inxalenye yeselfowuni kunye nabanye abangenakongezwa njengempawu zesithinteli sefowuni yakho.
I-AT & T, umzekelo, unikezela 'iMic Limits ye-Wireless Parental Control' feature for additional costs ngenyanga leyo ikuvumela ukuba ukhawuleze xa ifowuni isetyenziselwa, vimba okanye uvumele amanani athile angayithumela umntwana / afumane iifowuni kunye nemiyalezo yombhalo ukuya kwaye, nokukhawulela umxholo ongafanelekanga, njl. Le nkonzo ayisebenzi kunye ne-iPhone nangona kunjalo, equka isofthiwe yolawulo lwabazali.
I-Verizon (i-Verizon Management Controls kunye ne-Filters Content), T-Mobile (Izibonelelo Zentsapho kunye neWeb Guard Guard), kunye nezinye iifowuni zithwele iinkonzo ezifanayo.
Uninzi lweefowuni zeefowuni nazo zinenkonzo zokuvumela ukuba ufumane umntwana wakho naliphi na ixesha ukuba unayo ifowuni exhaswayo. Umzekelo, inkonzo ye-Verizon Family Locator (eyayibizwa ngokuba yiChaperone) iya kukuvumela ukuba ujonge indawo yomntwana wakho kwaye unokukuthumela umyalezo wombhalo xa ufika okanye ushiye indawo ethile, njengesikolo okanye indlu yomngane. I-AT & T (I-AT & T Imephu Yentsapho) kunye ne-Sprint (i-Sprint Family Locator) inikezela ngeenkonzo ezifanayo.
Ngaba wayesazi ukuba unokubeka iliso umyalezo wakho weetekisi?
Nangona kukho ipropythi yechungechunge yeselula ongayifaka ngasese kwi-iPhone yakho okanye i-Windows Mobile esekelwe kwi-smartphones esekelwe imiyalezo yombhalo kunye neefowuni zeefowuni, abathwali beefowuni abanikezeli le nkonzo ngokwabo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngabaphi abanye abazali abangabika. Inkqubo yoLawulo lwabazali olunye uhlobo olunokubeka iliso into eyenziwa ngumntwana wakho kunye nefowuni yakhe, kuquka ukuvumela ukuba ukhangele imifanekiso yakho yeselula, imiyalezo yombhalo, i-imeyili kunye nendawo, njl.
Ukuhlolisisa abantwana bakho akunqabile kakhulu ingcamango enhle, nokuba kunjalo, kwaye xa usebenzisa lolu hlobo lwesofthiwe, kufuneka uvumele umntwana wakho ukuba afunde ezinye zeetekisi zakhe okanye i-imeyile njengemeko yokuba nefowuni. Ukuba awuzithembi umntwana wakho ukuba asebenzise ifowuni yakhe, mhlawumbi akufanele abe nefowuni, kufuneka uchithe ukufikelela kwe-intanethi yefowuni okanye ukukwazi ukuthumela imiyalezo yombhalo, okanye ukumfumana ifowuni eyisiseko engenawo ezi ntlobo zeempawu uze ufumane ithemba lakho.
Ulawulo oluphezulu lwabazali
Ngelishwa, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ukhuselekile kangakanani kwikompyutha yakho yasekhaya, iifowuni kunye nezinye iigridi ezikwazi ukufikelela kwi-intanethi, ungeke ukwazi ukuba yintoni abantwana bakho abakwaziyo ukufikelela xa bengekho ekhaya. Andiyi kuvumela abantwana bam ukuba bafumane 'I-Call of Duty: Iimfazwe zanamhlanje 2,' umdlalo wevidiyo kunye nokulinganiswa kokukhula, kuba, ngaphezu kobundlobongela, bangayiva ingxoxo yomdlalo kunye nolwimi olubi kunye namazwana angcolileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ngokukhawuleza ndafumanisa ukuba malunga nabo bonke abahlobo babo babenalo, ngoko kwakunzima ukubenza bangakwazi ukufikelela kuwo.
Ngenye ixesha ndafumanisa ukuba nangona umhlobo wam unyana endala wayevakatyele ukulawula kakuhle kwabazali kwikhompyutheni yabo yasekhaya, omnye wabahlobo bamantombazana awakwenzi, kwaye ukungathinteli ukufikelela kwi-intanethi kuye kwavumela umhlobo wakhe ukuba abone kwaye ave izinto sasingaze siphuphe ukuvumela abantwana bethu babone.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ulawulo olungcono lomzali ngumzali osebenzayo ofundisa abantwana babo ngeengozi zobuchwepheshe obutsha kwaye ngubani owaziyo abakwenzayo. Kwiimeko zombini zikhankanywe apha ngentla, kuba sathetha ngokungavunyelwa ukudlala imidlalo ebalinganiselwe 'M' kunye newebhusayithi engafanelekiyo, bajika kwenye into kwaye ndixelele oko kwenzeka.
Ngaphambi kokufumana abantwana bakho i-smartphone evumela ukuba bathumele kwaye bafumane i-imeyile, ukuthumela imiyalezo, okanye banikeze ukufikelela kwi-intanethi, qi niseka ukuba:
- ukuthetha nabo ngendlela efanelekileyo ngokuphathelele izinto ezinokubangela ingxaki, kubandakanywa ingxoxo yokuthumela imiyalezo ye- imeyile , ukubukela iiwebhusayithi ezingafanelekiyo, iifoto kunye namavidiyo, kunye nokuba kungenzeka ukuba abantu baxoxa nge-intanethi bangabikho ababonakalayo, kwaye ke qhubeka uqhuba iingxoxo malunga nalezi zihloko uze ubuze imibuzo yakho yezingane malunga noko benzayo kwi-intanethi ngezikhathi ezithile
- ukusetha ulawulo lwabazali bakho, kodwa ke qhubeka uhlolisisa abantwana bakho, ngakumbi abantwana abaselula, njengoko basebenzisa iselula yabo kunye nekhompyutha
- ukhumbuze abantwana bakho ukuba izinto ezininzi abazibonayo kwi-intanethi ayinyani
- njengokuba phakathi kwakho okanye umntwana okhulayo ekhupha ngakumbi, mkhumbuze ukuba akhulume nawe xa ebona into kwi-intanethi edibana naye okanye nje ingabonakali
- fundisa abantwana bakho ukuba bangafaki ulwazi oluthe xaxa malunga nabo okanye imisebenzi yabo kwi-intanethi, kuquka neendawo ezifana ne-Facebook, kuba le ngcaciso ayiyi kuhlala ibucala
- Basebenzise amagama omnxeba angafaki igama lawo, idilesi ye-imeyile, iminyaka, okanye enye inkcazelo yokuchonga
- uxwayise abanye nge-intanethi, ukuxhaphaza abanye kwi-intanethi, ukusabalalisa amahemuhemu okanye ukuzenza abanye abantwana ukuba bathumele imiyalezo ebhaliweyo okanye i-imeyile
- vumela abantwana bakho ukuba basebenzise iiwebhsayithi ezifanelekileyo kunye nemidlalo, umzekelo, i-Facebook idinga ukuba abantwana babeneminyaka engama-13 ubudala ukuba babhalise, kunye nemidlalo emininzi ethandwa ngabafana abancinane abafana nokudlala okuvumela ukufikelela kwe-intanethi kufakwe 'T' for Teen okanye 'M' for Mature kwaye kufuneka idlalwe ngabantu abadala kuphela
- khuthaza imisebenzi ye-RL (impilo yangempela) kunye nokunciphisa ixesha leskrini (kufuneka libandakanye ixesha lokubukela iTV, ukusebenzisa ikhomputha, ukudlala imidlalo yevidiyo okanye ukusebenzisa i-iPod, ifowuni okanye enye idivaysi yecala) ngaphandle kweeyure enye okanye ezimbini ngosuku , njengoko imisebenzi ye-intanethi ingaba ngumlutha
Yazi nokuba benza ntoni kwi-intanethi.