Imiba yabazali
Iifowuni zefowuni zithandwa ngabantu, ikakhulukazi abafana nabaselula .
Kwintsapho yethu, kukho imibono ehlukileyo kakhulu kule ngxaki. Umntu oneminyaka ezisibhozo ubudala ufuna ifowuni isele ikhona, engekho embi kuba iyimphazamisa ekubeni ifuna umvundla, kodwa andicinga ukuba uyayifuna enye.
Kuliphi ixesha ubudala abantwana abakulungele ukusetyenziswa kwefowuni yabo?
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Iifowuni kunye neefowuni zeeSeli
Ngokungafani nezinye iingxaki zomzali, ininzi yethu ayinakucinga kwakhona ebuntwaneni bethu ukuba sibone indlela abazali bethu abaphatha ngayo le ngxaki. Emva koko, iifowuni zazingekho xa abaninzi bethu bebantwana.
Kubazali abaninzi, ifowuni ibonakala ngathi yinto enye abantwana babo abaya kubaphatha ngayo, njenge-iPad, i-Xbox, i-Wii, okanye i-laptop entsha.
Abaselula kunye nama-13 mhlawumbi babona umbane wefowuni ngokungafaniyo, becinga ukuba ukufumana ifowuni yinyathelo ekuzimela ngokuzimela kunye nesimboli esimo phakathi kwabahlobo babo.
Nangona ezinye izikolo zivinjelwe iifowuni, ngoko umntwana wakho akanako ukukwazi ukusebenzisa okanye ukusebenzisa ifowuni ngethuba xa enokuthi wayengabikho ekhaya, abanye bayeke abantwana bawasebenzise kwaye bawasebenzise phakathi kweeklasi.
Ukuhlala Uthintelo - Izingane zidinga i-Cell Phone
Esinye isizathu esihle kakhulu sokufumana abantwana bakho ifowuni kukuba kukuvumela ukuba uhlale unxibelelana nabo phantse onke amaxesha.
Ukongeza ekusebenzeni, njengokuba xa isifundo se-gymnastics okanye isenzo se-baseball siphumela kusasa, ukuba ifowuni inokukunceda ukuba ufikelele ekuthintaneni nabantwana bakho nakwiimeko ezinxamisekileyo. Le ngongoma eyongezelelweyo yokhuseleko kunye nokhuseleko ababonelela ngefowuni mhlawumbi sisizathu esibalulekileyo sokuba abazali bafanele baqikelele ukufumana abantwana babo abancinci ifowuni.
Kwaye kwimeko yentlekele yangempela, njengesikolo sokudubula okanye ukuhlaselwa koogqirha, ifowuni ingaba yindlela yakho yokuphila kuphela kubantwana bakho.
Ifowuni nayo inokuba yindlela ebalulekileyo yokugcina umnxeba kunye nomntwana wakho osemdala, ngakumbi xa beqhuba. Yaye ukuba ufumana ifowuni nge-GPS, ifowuni inokukunceda ukuba ufunde apho umntwana wakho ehlala khona ngamaxesha onke.
Iifowuni zibiza kakhulu - Abantwana abayidingi i-Cell Phone
Iifowuni zefowuni zingabiza. Xa usuka kwisicwangciso sesiseko, unokubetha ngeentlawulo ezongezelelweyo zokuhamba kwimimitha yakho, ukuthumela imiyalezo yombhalo, ukuthenga ukuncenceza nokusebenzisa intanethi. Ngaphandle kwemirhumo yemilayezo yesicatshulwa esingaphantsi kweekenti ezili-10 nganye, ezinokuzongeza ngokukhawuleza ukuba unomntwana oqhelekileyo othumela imiyalezo yeshumi ukuya kwe-20 ngosuku. Kwaye oko akubandakanyi indleko yefowuni yokutshintsha xa abantwana bakho belahlekelwa ifowuni yabo.
Ezinye iindleko zingabandakanya:
- ukuya kwii-45 cents ngomzuzu ukwenzela imizuzu eyongezelelweyo kwisicwangciso sakho sesantya
- malunga ne-$ .99 ukuya kwi-2.50 ye-ringtone
- imidlalo yokulandwa malunga needola .99 ukuya kwi-3.99 nganye
- 1 i cent nge kilobyte yokusebenzisa intanethi kwifowuni yakho
Ukuhlala Uthintelo - Izingane zidinga i-Cell Phone
Nangona ukhuseleko olongezelelweyo i-cell phone inikezela kakuhle, cinga ukuba ininzi yezingane ezincinci ukuba iinkampani zeefowuni zijolise kuyo, ingakumbi phakathi kweminyaka eyi-8 no-11 okanye ye-12, akufanele ukuba yedwa.
Kwiimeko ezininzi, umntwana wakho uya kukwazi ukusebenzisa iifowuni rhoqo okanye ifowuni yomntu omdala olawulayo.
Ezinye izizathu ezilungileyo zokulibaziseka ukufumana ifowuni de ukuba abantwana bakho bancinci, beshiya ingxoxo yezinto ezinokuthi zenzekile kunye neengxabano zezempilo eziphuma emisebeni, zingaquka:
Ukuzimela Kakhulu - Abantwana Abayidingi Ifowuni
Nangona ukuzimela kokuzimela ukuba ifowuni inokunika umntwana inokuba yinto enhle, ingaba yinto engafanelekanga. Cinga ukuba ngefowuni, umntwana wakho uya kuba yindlela enye yokuthetha kunye nehlabathi langaphandle ukuba uya kuba nolawulo olungaphantsi.
Ifowuni inika kwakhona ihlabathi elingaphandle enye indlela yokuthetha nomntwana wakho. Umntu ophethe isondo, njengokuba benza emagumbini okuxoxa, angafihla emva kokungaziwa ngokuthumela imiyalezo kunye nokuthetha 'nomntwana wakho.'
Yaye ukhumbule ukuba ezininzi zeesefowuni zanamuhla zinikezela ngokufikeleleka kokufikelela kwi-Intanethi, ngokukhangela i-intanethi, i-imeyile, ingxoxo kunye nokuthumela imiyalezo ngokukhawuleza, okunzima kakhulu ukucoca kunye nokulawula xa kuthelekiswa nekhompyutheni yakho yasekhaya.
Iifowuni zeefowuni zinokuphazamisa abantwana. Sonke siyazi ukuba ziphazamisa abaqhubi, kodwa olunye uphando luye lwabonisa ukuba iifowuni zingabangela ukuphazamiseka okukhulu kwabantwana abawela isitalato kwaye bangakhokelela kwiingozi ezininzi kunye nokulimala.
Iifowuni zefowuni zibeka umntwana wakho engozini yokungena kwiingxaki:
- ukuthunyelwa nge-imeyile - ukuthumela okanye ukufumana imifanekiso engabonwayo okanye afunda nabo
- i-prank ikhwelo-into eyenza umntwana wakho enkingeni xa umntu eqala ukukhwela abanye abantu kwifowuni yengane yakho
Ezinye iinzuzo - Izingane zidinga i-Cell Phone
Nangona ukhuseleko, ukhuseleko kunye nokulungelelana ngokuqhelekileyo izizathu ezibalulekileyo zokuqwalasela ukufumana umntwana wakho umnxeba, ezinye iingxabano ezibuthathaka zingabandakanya ukuba ifowuni inakho:
- bancede abantwana bakho bahlale kunye nabahlobo abanamafowuni, nangona ukunyanzeliswa koontanga akuyona into enhle
- fundisa abantwana bakho ukuba banembopheleleko njengoko bafunda ukunyamekela ifowuni yabo, ukuphelelwa ukulahlekelwa, kwaye bahlale ngaphakathi kweefowuni yesicwangciso sefowuni, idatha kunye nemizuzu yokuthumela imiyalezo
Ngaba Ngaba Abantwana Bakho Banomakhalekhukhwini?
Ngokuxhomekeke kubani owucelayo, ifowuni yomntwana wakho ingacingelwa:
- mfuneko
- i-luxury
- fad
- ukuhlasela
Ingaba umntwana wakho ulungele okanye ufuna i-cell phone yinto ethile umzali kuya kufuneka azenzele isigqibo. Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho unokukwazi ukujongana noxanduva lwefowuni, nangona, ngaphambi kokuba uthenge.
Ezinye izinto oza kuziqwalasela xa ufumana umntwana wakho omncinci ifowuni, ndakanya:
- iplani ehlawulwe ngaphambili kunye nenani elincinci lemizuzu ukwenzela ukuba awuyi kubhekana neentlawulo ezininzi ezongezelelweyo
- ukukwazi ukubeka imida engqongqo kwifowuni enokuyenza, kuquka ukukwazi ukuvala ukufikelela kwewebhu kunye nokuthumela imiyalezo. Enye ifowuni ikuvumela ukuba unciphise ngubani ongabiza umnxeba nokuba ngubani umntwana wakho angabiza usebenzisa umnxeba.
- kuphela ukunika umnxeba wakho umnxeba xa efuna oko, njengokuba ngethuba lokuya e-mall okanye elinye ixesha xa engasondeli kwifowuni rhoqo
- fumana enye nge-GPS tracker ukuze ukwazi ukufumana lula umntwana wakho xa ufuna (mhlawumbi sizathu esithile sokuba ndiyakuqwalasela ukufumana ifowuni kwintsapho yam kwangoku)
- ncokola ngezinye zeengxaki zefowuni ezinzulu , njengengozi yokuqhuba xa uthetha kwiselfowuni, i-cyberbullying, i-etiquette yefowuni, kunye nokulandela imithetho yokusetyenziswa kwefowuni esikolweni
Okwangoku, ifowuni efanelekileyo kubantwana abancinci abandakanya ezininzi zezi khokelo zivela kwi-FiLIP 2. Umlindo (ifowuni egqabileyo), unokufowunela kwaye ufumane iimibhalo ezimfutshane ukusuka kumanani amahlanu athembekileyo owenzayo kwaye uquka iinkonzo zendawo. Kuye kunenkqonkqo yecingo yexakeka kunye ne-SafeZones, ngoko uyazi apho umntwana wakho. Kwaye ngenxa yokuba umntwana wakho uyigqoke, abanako ukulahlekelwa.
Imithombo:
Impembelelo yeeFowuni ukuphazamiseka kwiNtsholongwane yezoPhulo. Despina Stavrinos, uKatherine W. Byington, kunye noDavid C. Schwebel Pediatrics 2009; 123: e179-e185.