Imisebenzi emihle yeeNgqungquthela ezongezelelweyo kwiintwana ezineemfuno ezizodwa

Azikho zonke iiprogram zezikolo ezilandelayo emva kokudala ezilinganayo

Phakathi kweengxaki zesikolo, imithi, kunye nemingeni "yemihla yokudlala," kunokuba nzima ukucinga ngomntwana wakho ngeemfuno ezizodwa ethatha inxaxheba kwimisebenzi yesikolo emva kwexesha. Kodwa, inyaniso, kukuba iinkqubo ezifanelekileyo emva kwesikolweni zinokuba ngamathuba angcolileyo kumntwana wakho ukubonisa amandla akhe, ukwakha ukuzithemba, ukwenza abahlobo kunye nokufumana umdla omtsha.

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Ngokuphindaphindiweyo, abazali baxhomekeke kwimisebenzi emva kwesikolo kwiimfuno zabo ezizodwa. Basenokungagxininisa ngakumbi kwimfundo yabantwana okanye kwiimpawu zonyango okanye bazive ukuba akukho nje ixesha okanye imali yokuxhalabisa ngeenkcukacha zecandelo. Nangona le ngqiqo iyaqondakala, kunethuba elihle lokuba uya kubaphanga umntwana wakho wamathuba angenza umehluko omkhulu kumbomi wakhe. Nasi isizathu:

• Iimvana ezininzi ezineemfuno ezizodwa ziba neetalente ezithandekayo, kungakhathaliseki ukukhubazeka kokufunda, imiba yoluntu, okanye ukulibaziseka kokuthetha kwabo. Kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba akakwazi ukuhamba njengomoya, udwebe njengePicasso, okanye ube yimpumelelo yintombazana yeScout. Kubalulekile ukuqonda nokwakha ezi talente, ingakumbi xa iingxaki zomntwana wakho zihlala zijoliswe kwingxoxo.
• Imisebenzi yangexesha elongezelelweyo inokunyusa amathuba omntwana wakho wokwenza abahlobo kunye nokufumana indawo yomphakathi. Iimvana ezininzi ezineemfuno ezizodwa zineengxaki zokunxibelelana noluntu. Makhe sijamelane nayo: kunzima ukwenza abahlobo xa useklasini, kwibhasi, okanye uhamba ngokutya. Imisebenzi emva kwesikolo yithuba lokuxhuma namanye abantwana ngendlela ehluke ngokupheleleyo. Khetha umbutho ochanekileyo, kwaye umntwana wakho uya kuba negalelo lokuzibandakanya kwezentlalo ngokukhawuleza.

• Izakhono umntwana wakho afunda emva kwesikolo zingaba zibalulekileyo (okanye zibaluleke ngaphezu) kwezakhono afunda esikolweni. Esikolweni, umntwana wakho usebenza ngokubhala ngesandla, emele emgceni, izakhono zemfundo, ukuziphatha okufanelekileyo eklasini. Emva kwesikolo, umntwana wakho unokufunda ukuba yinxalenye yeqela, ukuxhasa nokukhuthaza abanye, okanye ukuzama izinto ezintsha. Kwakhona unokufunda imigaqo yemidlalo eyaziwayo, ukufumana inhlonipho, nokwakha ubuhlobo. Ezi zizakhono eziza kugcina ubomi.

• Ukuphumelela kwesikolo-emva kwexesha elizayo kwakha ukuzithemba nokuhlonipha. Xa umntwana wakho ehlawula ekhaya, udlala upiyano kwi-recital, okanye ufumana ibhanti ephakamileyo ekhwabaneni, kunye nawe kwaye ufumanisa ukuba unokuphumelela aze aphumelele.
• Eminye imisebenzi yesikolo emva kwesikolweni ingaba yiminqweno yempilo yonke. Ukuba umntwana wakho unomdla kumculo, ubugcisa, ezemidlalo, umdaniso, i-chess, okanye nayiphi na into enkcubeko ngelixa esikolweni, ukuba umdla unokwenza i-outlet ebomini bakhe.

Iingcebiso zokukhetha imisebenzi eyenziwa emva kweSikole kunye Nezidingo zakho eziZodwa

Abazali abaninzi bavame ukunyanzelisa abantwana babo ukuba benze into abayithandayo xa babengabantwana okanye oko abantwana babo abahlobo abakwenzayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ngokuqhelekileyo ukukhulisa abantwana, oku kusebenza kakuhle. Kodwa kubantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa, kubalulekile ke ukuba ukhethe ngokucophelela ngezinto ezininzi engqondweni:

• Yiba ngqiqo. Inyaniso yokuba umntwana wakho unokukhaba ibhola ayithethi ukuba ulungele iqela lebhola lebhola. Noko ke, unokulungele into ethile ingxaki encinane. Cinga ngenyameko malunga noko umntwana wakho angayiqonda ngokwenene, yenza kakuhle, kwaye ugxininise ixesha elide. Bobabini kunye nomntwana wakho uya kuhlupheka xa uqala into ayinako ukuyigqiba.
• Gcina ukukhathazeka kwengqondo engqondweni. Uninzi lwabantwana abaneemfuno ezikhethekileyo zibuhlungu ngokungaqhelekanga kwingxolo enkulu, ukushisa, ukuvumba okunamandla kunye nezibane ezikhanyayo. Ukuba oko kuchaza umntwana wakho, cima imisebenzi ebandakanya "ukuhlaselwa".

• Cinga ngeemfuno ezizodwa emva kwezikolo . Abanye abantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa baqhubela phambili kwiiprogram "ezizodwa" ezifana neProgram ye-Challenger Club, ngelixa abanye befumana iinkqubo ezinjalo okanye ziphazamisekile. Ukuba awuqinisekanga, jonga zombini izinto eziqhelekileyo kunye neenguqu "ezikhethekileyo" zemisebenzi yakho umntwana unokufumana umdla onomdla.
• Khetha umsebenzi apho umntwana wakho sele esenomdla . Abantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa sele benokujamelana neengxaki ezingathandekiyo, ezilindelekileyo kwizikolo zesikolo, ukuxhatshazwa kwezikolo, nokubi kakhulu. Imisebenzi kamva-yesikolo kufuneka ibe yinto ayithandayo.
• Khetha umntwanakho owenza kakuhle. Xa umntwana wakho eshiya isikolo, unelungelo lokukhanya. Ngaba ukhululekile ekubhapheni? Ngaba uloyiko lokudweba? Fumana umntwana wakho ithuba lokubonisa oko angakwenza kakuhle.

• Faka umntwana wakho kwisigqibo, kodwa ube ngqiqo . Intombi yakho ingafuna ukuthatha iklasi yokudanisa, kodwa ingenakho izakhono okanye ukuqeqeshwa kwiprogram ye-ballet epheleleyo eyazi ngayo. Cinga ukufumana ikona engezantsi, ukwamkela inkqubo yokudanisa apho unokukwazi ukudibanisa ngokupheleleyo nangona i- jete yakhe enkulu idinga umsebenzi.
• Cinga ngeenkqubo ezicwangcisiweyo ngokuchasene neenkqubo ezivulekileyo . Abantwana abaninzi abaneemfuno ezizodwa benza ngcono kakhulu kwiinkqubo ezicwangcisiweyo ezinjenge-Boy or Girl Scouts kuneziganeko "zokuhlola" ezivulekileyo. Nangona ukungabikho kwesakhiwo kubonakala ukwamkeleka ngakumbi, kunokuba ngumngeni omkhulu kunoma yimuphi umntwana ongenayo isakhono esisemgangathweni, somzimba kunye nesentlangano.
• Khetha iinkqubo ezinemithetho elula kunye nokuncintisana okuncinci . Iqela lezemidlalo le-Complex (umzekelo) lifuna amanqanaba aphezulu emzimbeni, ezentlalo, ukucwangciswa kwemoto kunye nezakhono zokuqonda. Kwakunjalo nemisebenzi emininzi yokukhuphisana, ukusuka kwiingingqi zomculo (uvavanyo olufunekayo) kumdlalo wokudansa.
• Qondisisa oko umntwana wakho angena khona . Yintoni ekulindelwe kumntwana ojoyina i-Boy Scouts okanye iqela lokuzonwabisa lebhola lebhola? Ukuba umntwana wakho ufuna ukuxhaswa, ngaba ziyafumaneka? Ukuba umntwana wakho ugijima kwiingxaki, umfundisi okanye umqeqeshi uya kuphendula njani? Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho unako ukwenza oko kulindelekileyo (okanye unenkxaso efunekayo xa kuyimfuneko).
• Thetha kumntu okanye abantu abaqhuba le program . Chaza amandla kunye nemingeni yomntwana wakho. Umqeqeshi okanye umqeqeshi wayeyayiphatha njani ukuba umntwana wakho unenkathazo okanye wayenokonakala? Mhlawumbi uhambahamba uyazi ukuba ungumdlalo ohle.
• Cinga ukuba ngumthunzi womntwana wakho okanye umsizi kwithuba elithile . Kwiimeko ezininzi, abantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa badinga uncedo njengoko baqalisa umsebenzi, kodwa xa beyazi ukuba iindophi zilungile. Ukuba unayo ixesha kunye nekhono, cinga umnikelo wokuba ube kwindawo yakho kumntwana wakho kwiiveki ezimbalwa zokuqala. Ngaphandle koko, qhayisa "isithunzi" esinokusixhasa umntwana wakho kwaye unyathelo xa kuvela ingxaki. Oku kuya kunciphisa ukukhathazeka komntu wonke kwaye kunokukwenza ukuba umntwana wakho abe yinxalenye epheleleyo yombutho.
• Musa ukungayeki ukuguqulwa kwesini okanye ukhetho olungenayo isini . Ngokuqinisekileyo, "amaninzi" amakhwenkwe kufuneka afane nemidlalo kwaye "amaninzi" amantombazana ayonwabela umdaniso. Kodwa abantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa abanokungazi, bazinyamekele okanye bahlangabezane nalezo zizathu. Ukuba unyana wakho uyathanda ukudansa okanye intombi yakho ithanda i-baseball, qwalasela ezo zinto.
• Khumbula ukuba "emva kwesikolweni" kunokuthetha "esikolweni" okanye "kusekelwe kuluntu." Ngamanye amaxesha ukhetho olukhoyo kuluntu (imidlalo yezemidlalo ngokubhekiselele kwimidlalo yesikolo, umzekelo) ngumdlalo ongcono wezingane ezineemfuno ezizodwa.

Imisebenzi emihle yeeNgqungquthela ezongezelelweyo kwiintwana ezineemfuno ezizodwa

Ukukhumbuza iingcebiso ezilapha ngasentla, qwalasela izinto ezinokuthi zihlangabezane neemfuno zomntwana wakho. Le mi sebenzi yiyo yonkqonkqo ekhethiweyo eyenza ukubhiyozela amandla abo ngabanye ngelixa iyanciphisa imfuno yezakhono zonxibelelwano ezentlalo. Njengoko uza kubona, ezinye zezinto ezinokuzibandakanya zifuna ukubandakanywa kwabazali ekuqaleni okanye kulo lonke:

1. Umdlalo ngamnye: Ukuba umntwana wakho ujabulela imidlalo, khawuqwalasele amaqela apho umntwana wakho owenzayo kwaye ekhuphisana neziphumo zakhe ezilungileyo. Okukhethwa kukho kubandakanya ukubhukuda , ubugcisa be-karate, isithsaba, umkhondo kunye nentsimi, igalofu, i-archery, kunye nezinye ezininzi.
2. Iikholeji neeNkqubo ezikhokelwa ngabantu abadala: Abantwana abaninzi abaneemfuno ezizodwa bazama kwiinkqubo ezinjenge-Boy Scouts kunye ne-Girl Scouts kunye ne-4H. Kungenxa yokuba iiprogram zihleleke kakhulu, abantwana baqhubela phambili kwizinga labo, imisebenzi i-izandla, kunye nemibutho ngokwayo izinikele ekubandakanyikeni abantwana ngaphandle kokukwazi okanye imvelaphi.
3. Iingoma kunye neeNkqubo zoChuculo: Endaweni okanye okanye ngaphezu kweyonyango yomculo, cinga ukubhalisa umntwana wakho kwinkqubo yokucula okanye yintsimbi efundisa ngokwenene kwaye ibhiyozele izakhono. Ukuba umntwana wakho unokufunda ukucula, uya kuhlala emkelekile kwi-chorus. Ukuba uyakwazi ukudlala isixhobo, unako ukujoyina ibhendi. Oku akukhona nje ukungenelela kwiiprogram ezisekelwe ezikolweni, kodwa kunye nezinto zokuzilibazisa ukuzonwabisa kuzo zonke zobomi.
4. Imisebenzi yokuzithandela: Ininzi yoluntu ilayishwa ngamathuba abantwana (ngamanye amaxesha nabazali) ukuzinikela ixesha labo. Abantwana banokukunceda ukucoca udoti epakini, ukuncedisa ama-kittens, ukutyelela amakhaya angamahlengikazi, okanye ukuncedisa imali kwiziganeko zesikolo ngokuhlamba iimoto okanye ukuthengisa. Ngokubandakanyeka kwabazali, bangaba ngamalungu axabisekileyo emiphakathini yoluntu okanye yesikolo.
5. Itheyibhile: Abantwana abaninzi abanexesha elinzima lokuthabatha amagama kunye nezenzo ezifanelekileyo benza kakuhle xa besenza kwiskripthi. Ukwenza amaqela kunye neenkampu akudingi ukuba uphicotho kwaye kungaba yindlela enhle yokuqalisa. Abanye abantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa bafumanisa ukuba banetalente yangempela yokwenza.
6. UbuGcisa bobuGcisa: Abantwana abaninzi abaneemfuno ezizodwa banamakhono enkcukacha zobugcisa. Izikolo kunye namaziko olwazi loluntu zihlala zibonelela ngeenkqubo ezilandelayo emva kokufunda, ukudweba, udongwe, kunye nezobugcisa beendaba ezininzi.
7. IVidiyo kunye ne-A / V: Ininzi inani elinama-13 kunye nentsha eneemfuno ezizodwa inomdla omkhulu kunye nezakhono kwividiyo kunye / v. Uninzi lwezikolo eziphakathi kunye neziphakamileyo zinamavidiyo kunye nee-clubs ze-A / V, kwaye iidolophu ezininzi zinezikhululo zeTV apho abantwana bangabandakanyeka khona. Nangona umntwana wakho engabonayo i-videographer, unokufumana ithuba lokuba nethemba kwaye axabiseke emva kwekhamera okanye ukulawula ii-microphone.
8. Imidlalo yeCosplay kunye neFantasy: I- Cosplay inokufutshane "yokudlala iingubo," ibe iyaziwa kakhulu. Bobabini abantwana kunye nabantu abadala benza kwaye banxibe iingubo eziphambili ngokusekelwe kwincwadi yemifanekiso okanye abalinganiswa befantasy abavela kwiTV okanye iifilimu baze baye kwi-"cons" (iindibano) apho babonisa khona izinto abaye bazenza, bafumana iimpawu ezisuka kubadlali abazithandayo, bancintisana kwiindawo zokugqoka, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo ujabulise ukuba yi-geeks kunye. Imidlalo engummangaliso njengeDungeons kunye neDragons nazo ziindlela ezilungileyo zokuthi abantwana be "geeky" bafumane abahlobo abanomdla onqwenela ukwakha nokuzibandakanya kwizakhiwo zomhlaba.
9. IiKlabhu eziKhethekileyo: Abantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa badla ngokukhawulelwa ngummandla othile nomdla kwaye kunzima ukuba banomdla kunoma yini enye. Ukuba oku kuchaza umntwanakho, cinga ukumnceda ukuba athathe inxaxheba kwiiklabhu zemfuno ezikhethekileyo kwiindawo ezivela kwiimathematika kunye nokudlala kwevidiyo kwi-welfare welfare, Quidditch, okanye chess.
10. Ukugibela amaHhashi: Ukugibela amahhashi kunokuba kubiza, kodwa kudibanisa iqela lezinto ezintle ezinokuba zilungele umntwana wakho. Abalinganayo bafunda ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza, ukwakha amandla kunye nokulinganisela, kwaye bafumane izakhono kwimidlalo enomdla enokuthi ibe ngabanye, iqela-based, ukhuphiswano okanye lingabikho kukhuphiswano. Buza malunga neengxowa-mali okanye iinkqubo ezizodwa zezingane ezineemfuno ezizodwa.

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Ukuba ungumzali womntwana onemfuno ezizodwa unokuvakalelwa kukuba "kunzima ngokwaneleyo ukufumana umntwana wam kwisitolo sokutya; kutheni ndifuna ukongeza olunye uluhlu lobunzima kubomi bethu?" Ukuba oku kuchaza wena, khumbula ukuba iimfuno zangaphandle zingatshintsha ikhondo lobomi bomntwana wakho (kwaye, ngokuzelelwa, ubomi bakho kanye). Umntwana onamandla okwenene, iqela labahlobo kunye nomntu onokwenene unokukwenza izinto ezinkulu. Ngoku lakho ithuba lokuba umntwana wakho aqalise umdla onokuhlala ixesha lokuphila.