Imisebenzi yabantwana ngesirinji inokukunceda ukuphuhlisa umsebenzi
Njengokuba usana olusanda kuzalwa, umntwana wakho uya kuthandana nokukhangela ebusweni . Xa umntwana wakho uneminyaka engama- 9 ukuya kwe-12 ubudala , unokubambisa loo nto inqwenelekayo ukuphuhlisa izakhono eziliqela: ukulungelelanisa isandla ngesandla, ukuthetha ngolwimi nokuphulaphula, nokuxelisa.
Emva kokuba umbono womntwana uqala ukuhlakulela, bathanda ukujonga ubuso, nokuba nabo. Imidlalo ye-Mirror inokukunceda ekuthuthukiseni kwabo ngokweenkcazo nangokwenyama .
Mhlawumbi usuvele usalusile umntwana wakho kwizibuko, kodwa itekisi yokuzibuyisa yinto ayayiyihlola yona. Ukongezelela ekuphuhliseni izakhono zokuqonda, izibuko zinceda iintsana zifunde ukuziqonda.
Nantsi imisebenzi elula yokudlala eyenza umntwana wakho amthande.
Ukudlala umntwana kunye nezibuko
- Qala ngokufumana isibuko esingenakuqhekeka okanye isibuko esikhuselekile nangokukhuselekile.
- Beka umntwana wakho phambi kwesibuko ukuze abone kokubili ukucamngca kunye nokucinga kwakho.
- Buza umntwana wakho ukuba akhombe impumlo, iinwele, amehlo, njl. Ukuba ufuna uncedo, unokwazi ukubhekisela ekhaleni lakho okanye ubhekise ekhaleni lakhe aze aqoke ingcamango. Lo msebenzi unceda umntwana ukuba afunde amagama omzimba wakhe omzimba angenakukwazi ukubona ngawo.
- Sebenza kwizakhono zokulingisa, ngokwenza ubuso obuhle emehlweni esibukweni uze ucele ukuba enze okufanayo (impumlo ebomvu, unamathele ulwimi, ukhulise amehlo, njl). Kukho izinto ezincinci kunomntwana ozama ukukulinganisa, kwaye kukho into enokuqinisekiswa ukuba yinto eninzi ngexesha lo msebenzi.
- Sebenzisa amathoyizi ozithandayo ukwenza uhlobo lwe "puppet show" phambi kwesibuko. Mema ukuba angenelele kumdlalo, ukuba abone ukuba uyaqonda ubuhlobo phakathi kwakhe kunye nesibuko.
Ukuphuhliswa koLwazi lokuZenza
Yikholwa okanye akunjalo, umntwana wakho akayi kuqaphela ukuba ukhangele yena ngokwakhe ukuya kwimeko ethile malunga neenyanga ezili-9 ubudala.
"Ukuvavanya" ukubona ukuba unayo ingqiqo, engaziwayo ukuba abeka isitika esincinci okanye i-spottick ebusweni bakhe. Xa ehleli phambi kwesibuko, ukuba uzama ukuwuhlutha ebusweni bakhe kwaye kungekhona ubuso bomntwana kwisibuko ngoko uke wakubona konke. Le nto ibaluleke kakhulu kwiintsana kwaye iya kuba yinto enomdla ukujonga ukukhanya kwelanga ekugqibeleni xa ekugqibeleni yenza udibaniso.
Enye indlela yokuvavanya ukuba umntwana uyayazi umboniso wakhe: ngelixa ekhangele kwisibuko, abeka ityhuyisi okanye isilwanyana esinyene emva kwayo. Ukuba uzama ukufikelela kwindawo yokucinga ngaphandle kokufikelela emva kwakhe ukuba athabathe itekisi, akakwazi ukuba yena kunye nokucinga kwakhe bafana kunye.