Ngethuba leenyanga ezizayo zomntwana wakho wokuqala kunyaka, uya kukhwankqiswa yimpembelelo kunye nemida eyenzayo ekuphuculeni kwakhe umzimba. Akukona nje ukuba ukhule ukusuka kule ntsana encinci eyayifanele ifanele kwi-crook yengalo yakho, kodwa yenza isinyathelo esicwangcisekileyo kunye nesiganeko sokunyuka kokuhamba kunye nobuchule. Nazi ezinye iintuthuko oza kuzibona ekubeni wadlula ixesha elidlulileyo lophuhliso .
Ukukhula
Abazali bahlala bezibuza ukuba ukukhula komntwana wabo kuqhathaniswa nezinye iintsana. Nangona kunjalo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuvavanya ukukhula komntwana kusekelwe kwirekhodi yakhe yomkhondo. Ukubonelela ngomntwana wakho ulandela umzekelo ongenamathele kwintanga yakhe yokukhula , mhlawumbi wenza kakuhle.
Oko kuthiwa:
- Iintsana zale minyaka ziya kukhula malunga neekhilomitha ezili-10 ubude ukusuka ekuzalweni.
- Ukukhula kwentloko kunokuba ngu-0.25 ukuya ku-0.5 intshi nganye ngenyanga.
- Ukufumana ubunzima bomntwana kuya kuncipha kule minyaka. Uninzi lwaba bantwana luya kuba kathathu isisindo sokuzalwa malunga nokuzalwa kwabo kokuqala.
Imbonakalo yomzimba
Usana lwakho luya kutyhafa intliziyo yakho kunye naloo "usana lukhangele" - intloko enkulu, iingalo ezimfutshane nemilenze, kunye nepotti epheleleyo. Nangona kunjalo, unokwazi ukuba ukunyuka kwakhe ukunyuka kwaye uyakha imisipha emininzi apho ehamba khona. Kule minyaka, unokudlala umdlalo wamazinyo okanye kusekho zonke iigums.
KwiZakhono zoPhuhliso
Ngokukhawuleza, umntwana wakho uyamangalisa (kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba uyakuchukumisa) kunye nokuba unako ukuhamba njani.
Iingcamango zakhe ezisandul 'ukuzalwa ziye zinciphisa, kwaye ubonisa ukunyuka kokulawula kwiimoto ezihamba phambili . Ukongezelela, unokukuncoma nge:
- Ukuhamba ukusuka esiswini ukuya kwindawo ehleli
- Ukukhupha
- Izilwanyana okanye zihamba
- Ifenitshala yokurhweba
- Ukuma phezulu
- Ukuhamba
Izakhono zoBuchule beZakhono
Ngokufanayo, wakho omncinci ubonisa ukunyuka koxinzelelo njengoko izakhono zakhe ezintle zithuthukisa.
Ukukwazi kwakhe ukuthatha izinto ezincinci phakathi kwesithupha kunye nomnwe kubangelwa ukuba uqaphele kakhulu izinto ezinokubangela ukuba ziingozi. Ukongezelela, unokukwazi ukusebenzisa ubuchule obufanayo ukuzondla ukutya komunwe .
Amandla akhe amashishini afanelekileyo akwandisa amandla akhe okuzibhokoxa. Ngomgudu omncinci, unokusebenza ukuze afinyelele kwaye athathe into. Ukuze izinto zingapheli, kufuneka akwazi ukukwazisa oko akufunayo ngokukhomba okanye ukukhangela.
Ukutya kunye nokuNuka
Ubunono bakhe bokubona - ukuva, ukuva, ukuva, ukuvumba, kunye nokuthintela - kukubambisana kokuphuhliswa komzimba kunye nokuqonda. Iimvakalelo ezazisendaweni ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwakhe zihlaziywe kwaye ziphuculwe kwiinyanga ezidlulileyo.
Umqondo wakhe ococekileyo ucoceka ngokuqhelekileyo usetyenziswa ngokubambisana nesimo sakhe sengqondo. Unokubonisa ukukhetha okunamandla kwiifrayilisi ezithile kunye nezivumba. Uphando lubonisa ukuba iintsana ezibonakaliswe kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zokutya kunye neentlanzi kule minyaka ziboniswa ukuba zinezinga elincinci lokukhuluphala kwaye zamukele iifrikansi ezahlukahlukeneyo kamva ebomini.
UkuChukumisa nokuThetha
Ingqondo yakhe yokuthintela, enye yezona zinto ziphuhlise kakhulu ukusukela ekuzalweni, iyaqhubeka nokuqhubeka. Uyakwazi ukuva intlungu kunye nokungahambi kakuhle, utshintsho lobushushu, kunye nokukhetha okuthandayo.
Ukususela kumbono wokwenza intuthuko yentliziyo, kufuneka akwazi ukuva igama labo aze asabele kwizicelo ezilula. Kufanele ujabule isandi sezwi lakhe elibizayo kwaye lihlasele ngokuvakala kwamanye amazwi. Ukufikelela ekupheleni koluhlu lobudala, kufuneka aqale ukuphinda izandi kunye namazwi awava.
Ukujonga
Ukubona kwakhe, eyona nto ibuthathaka kakhulu ekuzalweni, ngoku iyanqinela njengomntu omdala kwimimandla yokucaca nokuqonda okujulile. Nangona ekhetha ukujonga izinto ezikufuphi, unokubona izinto ngaphakathi kwegumbi. Njengokuba umbala, umbala ngoku udlala imidlalo uhlala ufana neenguqu ezifihlekileyo.