Kuphakathi kweenyanga ezi-6 ukuya kwezi-9 uya kukhwankqiswa kukukhula komzimba wakho. Nangona eqhubeka nokuqonda izakhono azifundileyo kwiinyanga ezidlulileyo , ngoku uya kumbona ehamba (ngokwenene ngokoqobo) kumanqanaba amitsha kwiindawo ezininzi zophuhliso.
Ukukhula
Ngeli xesha, ubunzima bomntwana bakho kunye nokufumana ukuphakama kwemali kuya kuphuculwa, kwaye akayi kuphinda atyelele ngeyure ngosuku.
Ngelixa nje ezimbalwa iinyanga ezimbalwa ezedlule ubuninzi bakhe bunokubakho ekudaleni iivenkile ezithengayo, ngoku ke ubunzima bakhe bunzima kubangelwa ukuba uzuza isisipha. Ngenxa yoko, isifo sakho sezingane siya kukhangela ngakumbi ukukhula okulinganayo kunye nokunyameka kwintsikelelo yakhe yokukhula kunokuba uzuza kangakanani ubunzima nokuphakama ukusuka kwelinye ilyelelo ukuya kwelinye elilandelayo.
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Ukhulile waba ngumntwana onetalente. Ngenxa yobungqina bakhe kunye nokulinganisela, ngoku unokukwazi ukuzimela ngokuzimela. Ngethuba leenyanga, uya kuhamba phambili ekuhlaleni ngokuzixhasa ngeyodwa okanye zombini izixhobo zokuhlala ngokungaxhaswanga ngokupheleleyo. Kuye kwiinyanga ezili-9, uya kuba nako ukuhlala kunye nokuxhomekeka phambili ekubambeni itekisi.
Ukongezelela, ukuhamba kwakhe ngokutsha kuya kufuna ukuba uqaphele ngokubhekiselele kubantwana. Unako ukungena kwigumbi okanye ngokugubungela indlela yakhe (ukubuyela ngaphambili, phambili ukuya ngasemva), ngokukhawulela kuzo zonke iine, okanye ngezinye iindlela zokudala njenge-butt-scootching.
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Okwangoku, umntwana wakho uthatha nantoni na ukuba afumane izandla zakhe ezincinane, kwaye uya kufumana ukuqonda ngokuqinileyo xa ebambelela ubuncwane bakhe. Ukuxhamla kwakhe ekusebenziseni izinto kuya kuqhubeka ngokusebenzisa i-raking grasp (ukutshitshisa izinto kunye neminwe evulekile) kwi-pincer grasp (usebenzisa isicatshulwa somunwe kunye nesithupha kwizinto zokucoca izinto).
Ukuqonda oku kwenza ukondla kube lula kakhulu, kwaye kufuneka akwazi ukubamba indebe yakhe okanye ibhotile.
Uphuhliso olusisiseko - Ukutya kunye nokuNuka
Kule minyaka, mhlawumbi uqalise ukutya okuqinileyo kwaye unokukwenza ukuba akhethandwa. Ezi zimbini zengqondo zaphuhliswa kakuhle kwi-utero nakwixesha lokuzalwa, kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba ukutya komama kwakunokuba nefuthe kwiintando zakhe zangoku. Nangona kunjalo, ungavumeli ezo zikhetho zichaze oko uzinikela umntwana wakho. Uphando lubonisa ukuba unokufuna ukufunyaniswa kokutya okufanayo kaninzi ngaphambi kokuba ekugqibeleni ufumane intle. Ngokunyamezela, unokuyeka ukunxiba iifatate zakhe ezidibeneyo kwaye uzonwabele.
Uphuhliso olusisiseko - Ukuthintela nokuva
Ingqiqo yakhe yokuthintela, inamandla ngakumbi kwiingqondo zakhe ekuzalweni, isala enye yezona ndlela eziphambili zokufumana ulwazi kwimeko yakhe. Kwakhona unokufumana induduzo ekubunjweni kwezinto eziqhelekileyo kunye nokukhuselwa kwethenda yentengiso kunye nokugcina.
Uya kufumana ingcamango yokuba uyayiva njani njengoko ephendula ngeemvalo kwimo engqongileyo, njengefowuni yokukhala okanye iingxoxo zabantu. Unako ukuqonda amagama aqhelekileyo ("ibhola"), iincwadana ("hlala-ke") kunye nabantu kwihlabathi lakhe, kodwa mhlawumbi akayi kubalalisa loo mazwi ngokucacileyo.
Uphuhliso olusisiseko - Ukujonga
Okwangoku ububona bakhe buya kuba buqine njengomntu omdala. Ubona izinto eziseduze kakhulu kuye kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo angenza izinto kwikamelo ngaphandle kobunzima.