Indlela Yokuthetha Ngeengxaki Zezesondo Nezokhuseleko Zomzimba Ngoko-ke abantwana bakho bayayiphulaphula
Ndisoloko ndicinga ukuba ndivulekile kunye nabantwana bam malunga nemiba yokuziphatha ngokwesini kunye nesondo elikhuselekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, xa unyana wam wandibuza ukuba ndimthabathe kwi-Planned Parenthood kwiikondom zamahhala emva kokuzalwa kwakhe kwe-18, konke ukuvuleka kwam kwaphuma kwindia. Ndacelwa uDuane Westhoff, i-HIV kunye ne-STD yeNgcaciso yeNgcaciso kwizeMpilo kunye neMfundo kuLutsha / abatsha abadala (HEY), iProgram ye-ARK Programme, ngenxa yeengcebiso zakhe.
Ukuthetha Ngeentlobano Ngomntwana Wakho
UWesthoff wandixelela ukuba umntwana wam uncike kum njengomzali wakhe ngolwazi olubalulekileyo malunga neempawu, uthando kunye nobudlelwane, kungekhona nje ngelizwi kodwa ngezenzo. Nazi iziphakamiso ezimbalwa ezithe zahamba kunye ezinokukunceda wena kunye nabanye abazali abazabalazela ukuthetha ngesondo kunye nentsha yabo.
"Ukuba Awukwazi Ukuthetha Ngawo, Akufanele Uyenze"
Lo myalelo omhle wesitya kubaselula abasanda kuba besondo. Ikhuthaza uxanduva lwezesondo kunye noqhagamshelwano. Le ngcebiso ibonakala isebenza kubazali abanomdla wokunikezela iikhondom kubantwana babo. Thetha nomntwana wakho malunga neengxaki zakho. Ukunyaniseka malunga neengxaki zakho. Hlola kwaye wabelane ngeemvakalelo zakho kunye nentombazana yakho. Xoxa nonyana wakho okanye intombi enemiphumo emihle kunye nemiphumo emibi yokuba isondo sinokubakho ebomini bethu.
Yazisa ukuba Ukuthetha Kunzima kodwa Kubalulekile
Kungaba nzima ukuchazela iinkxalabo zakho.
Unokuziva uhlazekile. Kodwa eli lihle ithuba lokuba ngumzekelo kumntwana wakho kumntwana ngokubhekiselele ekunxibelelaneni okunempilo. Xelela umntwana wakho ukuba usekhona ukuphendula nayiphi na imibuzo abanayo. Xa benemibuzo, phendule ngaphandle kokugweba, ugxile kwii nyaniso. Ukuba umntwana wakho uziva ekhuselekileyo ngokuvulela kuwe, bayazama ukufumana ulwazi abayidingayo kwenye indawo ...
kwaye kungenakho ukuchaneka.
Bonisa ukuba Unomdla ngaphandle kokufuna iinkcukacha ezithandanayo
Gcina ukhumbule ukuba umntwana wakho okhulayo akanakukhululeka ukuthetha nawe ngesondo. Bangaba khusela ubumfihlo babo, kwaye banokuvakalelwa kukuba sele benamava amaninzi abayifunayo ngocansi nokukhulelwa. Kodwa bafuna ukuba abazali babo babandakanyeke ebomini babo. Zisebenzise ngamathuba emvelo okuthetha. Ngexesha elizayo xa udlula kwikliniki, velisa isihloko kwakhona.
Phinda ubhale ukubaluleka koSondo olukhuselekileyo
Ukuxoxisana nomntwana wakho okanye nokuba ngumntwana ngexesha elifanelekileyo lokulala ngesondo kubalulekile. Iintswelo kufuneka zikwazi ukuba isondo asiyi kuphilisa ulwalamano oluxhalabisayo. Ubundlobongela abukho ubungqina bokudala. Ukwabelana ngesondo kuthwala uxanduva olukhulu. Ingaba umntwana wakho uzilungiselele?
Ukuba ezi zinto zixhalabisa, wabelane ngazo nentsha yakho. Dlulisa loo nto, ngelixa ufuna ukuba ukhuseleke, unethemba lokuba ulala ngesini ngenxa yezizathu ezilungileyo.
Kumele ugxininise ukuba, ngaphandle kokuziyeka, iikhondom yindlela yokuphela kokukhulelwa komzimba ezinika ukhuselo oluthembekileyo kwizifo ezithathelwana ngesondo.
Futhi ungakulibali ukuba unokukwazi ukuthenga iikhondom zakhe. Sifanele sinike amandla abantwana kwaye sibakhumbuze ukuba isondo sithwala uxanduva.
Ukuba unamahloni ukuthenga iikhondom okanye ukufumana iikhondom zamahhala, kusenokuba ngumqondiso wokuba akakulungele ukuxanduva lwezesondo.
Mkhumbuza wakho umntwana welo lugget of first advice: "Ukuba awukwazi ukuthetha ngalo, akufanele uyenze."