Iindawo zokuHlala eziHlazileyo zeMpilo zabantwana

Kutheni imicimbi yezindlu ekhuselweni

IiNkundla ziya kubakho ukugcina izigqibo zokugcinwa kwabantwana kunye nokuvakatyelelwa ngokusekelwe kwindawo yokuhlala yabazali. Umgangatho weendawo zokuhlala ezamkelekileyo zisekelwe kwiimeko zomntwana kunye nomzali ngamnye. Ukuqwalasela kuya kuhluka kwintendelezo, ngurhulumente, kwanokuba yijaji. Nazi izinto ezimbalwa abagwebi abaza kuziqwalasela xa bejamelene nomngeni wokuhlala kwindawo yokuhlala kunye neenjongo zokutyelela.

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Umntwana kunye nobulili

Ukuba umzali ongeyena umgcini wobulili obuhlukile bomntwana, inkundla inokulindela ikhaya lomzali ukuba linikele umntwana ngendlela eyimfihlo njengokuba kunokwenzeka. Oku kunokuthetha ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana unekamelo lakhe lokulala, indawo yokuhlambela, okanye indawo yangasese ukuze agqoke.

Ukongezelela, umntwana omdala angadinga indawo engaphezulu kunomntwana omncinci. Oku kuthetha ukuba inkundla ingabonakali kakuhle kwintombazana ekwabelana ngegumbi lokulala kunye nomntakwabo kwisikolo saseprayimari.

Ungakhathazeki ukuba awunayo imali eninzi kunye nekhaya eliphambili lokunika umntwana wakho. Uninzi lwabazali beemeko ezifanayo, kwaye izindlu ezinokuhlawulekayo kunzima ukuza kwizixeko ezininzi ezinkulu, kungabi yindlu ekhuphekileyo kunye neendawo ezinokuhlala.

Ijaji iya kuba yinkqubela kwaye ithathe ingqalelo imeko ekhethekileyo yomzali ngamnye.

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Inani labantwana

Ijaji iya kuqwalasela inani labantwana abachaphazelekayo xa bekhetha indawo yokuhlala yokuhlala. Ukuba umzali unabantwana abaninzi, ijaji lingalindela ukuba umzali abe neendawo ezingaphezulu zokubamba abantwana ngexesha lokuvakatyezwa ebusuku.

Ngelishwa, oku kusenokuthi ijaji inokubamba nxamnye nawe ukuba ufuna abantwana bakho abathathu ukuba babelane ngekamelo lokulala okanye umntwana omnye ukuba alele embhedeni kunye nelinye kwigumbi lokulala nawe.

Ukuba unabantwana abahlukeneyo ubudlelwane obuhlukeneyo kwaye abahlali kunye nani rhoqo, oku kungathatyathwa ingqalelo yijaji.

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Iimeko Zomzali Eziyingqayizivele

Ijaji iya kuqwalasela iminyaka yobudala kunye neemeko zemali ekhethekileyo xa kugqiba ukugcinwa kwabantwana kunye neendawo zokuhlala ezifanelekileyo. Ngokomzekelo, ootatomkhulu kunye namalungelo okunyanzela angaba nemali encinci yokubonelela indlu enkulu kubazukulwana bakhe. Ukongezelela, umzali ohlawula inkxaso yabantwana akanako ukukwazi ukufumana indlu enkulu ukuze avumele ukuba abantwana bakhe babe namagumbi abo.

Yenza okusemandleni akho (kwisisombululo) ukubonelela umntwana wakho kunye nethemba lokuba ijaji ithatha ingqalelo kwiimeko zakho xa wenza isigqibo.

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Amandla omntwana okulungisa

Umntwana oqhelekileyo kwisiko esikhulu angenokuba nengxaki yokuguqula indawo encinci kwikhaya lomzali. Ijaji iya kuqwalasela ukuba umntwana uya kuthinteka ngokwengqondo ngenguqu enkulu kwindawo yakhe.

Nangona kunjalo, inkxalabo ephambili yejaji iya kuba ngumdla omkhulu kumntwana. Ngaloo ndlela, ijaji yayicinga ukuba umntwana uya kuvuyiswa, nangona indawo encinane, nje ngokuba umntwana unethuba lokuchitha ixesha nomzali wakhe. Ngoko, ungakhathazeki ukuba awukwazi ukukhuphisana nomzali ocebileyo womntwana ngokwezindlu.

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Khu seleko lwa bantwana

Ijaji iya kubuza malunga nokhuseleko lomzi kunye nomakhelwane. Ukuba kukho ithuba lokulimaza umntwana kumakhaya okanye kwindawo yokuhlala, ijaji inganciphisa ukuvakatyelelwa ngokukhawuleza kwikhaya lomzali ongekho phantsi.

Phando kwindawo ohlala kuyo. Zingaphi izigulane ezenzekayo apho? Bangaphi abantu abaphulaphuli ngokwesondo abahlala kufuphi? Zonke ezi zinto zingasetyenziswa ngokumelene nawe.