Iimfazwe zokuzimela ngokuqhelekileyo ziba ngumngeni kubo bonke abachaphazelekayo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ungoko uzama ukunqoba umntwana, unokuzibuza ukuba ubulili bakho buyakuchukumisa njani imeko yakho, ngokukodwa ukunikezelwa koomama okudlulileyo kubonakala kunenzuzo enokulinganiswa kwiinkantolo zentsapho kulo lonke uhlanga. Ingaba ungumzali ongatshatanga ukuya enkundleni okokuqala, okanye unomtsalane nomyalelo wokugcina umntwana, uya kufuna ukugcina okulandelayo engqondweni.
Zifundise Ngeentlobo zeMpahla Yomntwana
Naliphi na ubaba ofuna ukugcina ukugcinwa kwengane yakhe kufuneka aqale ngokuqonda ukungafani phakathi kokugcinwa kokugcinwa kunye nokugcinwa ngokubambisana. Le migaqo ingaba yinto ekhohlakeleyo kuba kukho ngokubanzi iintlobo ezimbini zokugcinwa kweemfuno ezifunekayo: ukugcinwa kwenyama kunye nokugcinwa komthetho. Ukugcinwa okupheleleyo kuvumela umzali omnye ukuba abe nokugcinwa komntwana ngokomthetho nangokomzimba, ngelixa ukugcinwa ngokubambisana kuvumela ukuba bobabini amaqela abelane ngolondolozo lomzimba kunye / okanye olusemthethweni lomntwana. Ngokuqhelekileyo, iinkundla zikhetha ukuba abazali bobabini babelane ngolondolozo lomzimba kunye nomthetho, ukuba kunokwenzeka. Nangona kunjalo, kunokwenzeka ukuba abazali babelane ngokugcinwa komthetho kodwa kungabikho ukugcinwa ngokomzimba. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, kuqhelekileyo ukuba umzali ongekho phantsi ukuba ahambele ngokukhululekile nomntwana.
Yiyiphi i-Fathers efuna ukuyiqonda malunga neMntwana kunye nokuNyulwa
Nangona le ngxaki ihlala iphikisana, ininzi inkundla ayiyi kucalucalukisa ubaba ngexesha lokuphikisana kwengane.
Ukongezelela, iinkundla zentsapho aziyi kucalulo ngenxa yobuhlanga, ngokwesini, okanye ngesondo. Ngoko ke, kwinqaba, ubaba ophilayo kufuneka abe nethuba elilinganayo kunye nonina xa kuziwa ekugcinweni kwabantwana, becinga ukuba usungule umzali wengane. Ngaba ungaqinisekanga ukuba ngaba ufuna ukucacisa ngokusemthethweni?
Hlola imithetho kwilizwe lakho. Kwimimandla emininzi, inzala ifumaneka ukuba ngaba abazali batshatile ngexesha lokuzalwa komntwana okanye ukuzala. Ukuba ufuna ukuseka umzali, ngaba umzali angaqalisa le nkqubo ngokuqhagamshelana ne-Ofisi yakho yoLondolozo lweNkxaso yoMntwana. Gcina engqondweni ukuba urhulumente uya kuqalisa kwakhona umyalelo wokuncedisa umntwana ukuba awunayo enye indawo.
Izinto ezicatshangelwe
Njengoko uhamba kule nkqubo, uya kufuna ukuqonda iingcamango ezilinganwe yinkantolo ngaphambi kokuya kwiinkqubo zokugcinwa kwenkundla yokugcina umntwana. Nangona kukho ezinye iinguqu ezivela kwimoya ukuya kwimeko, iinkundla zentsapho ziqwalasela ezi zinto zilandelayo:
- Ubuhlobo bomzali ngamnye nomntwana
- Iminqweno yomntwana (kuxhomekeke kwiminyaka yakhe)
- Iminqweno engcono yomntwana
- Amandla omzali ngamnye wokuxhasa umntwana
- Uhlobo
- Imali ngamnye yomzali
Ukufumana Uncedo kwiNkonzo ye-Federal Parent Locator Service (FPLS)
Ukuba awuyazi apho umntwana wakho ehlala khona, unokufuna uncedo kwiNkonzo ye-Federal Parent Locator Service (FPLS). I-FPLS inokukhangela ulwazi lwazo oluyimfihlo malunga nokuhlala komntwana kunye nonina wengane.
Ulwazi oluyimfihlo lubandakanya idilesi yokugqibela yamama kunye negama kunye nedilesi yomqeshi okhoyo okanye ogqitywayo wokugqibela.
Iingcebiso ezongezelelweyo zoBawo abafuna ukugcina abantwana
Akukaze kube yinto efanelekileyo ukuba abazali baxabane, ngakumbi phambi koonyana babo. Endaweni yoko, kufuneka wenze yonke imizamo yokunxibelelana nayo yakho nayiphi na imithintelo ekuthintela ukuba ufikelele kwisivumelwano sokugcinwa kwengane engafanelekanga. Ukongezelela, kuya kuba yinzuzo yakho ukuba uhlale ucinga iminqweno yomntwana wakho. Ukufumana ulwazi oluthe xaxa malunga nokugcinwa kootata, funda iikhompyutheni zokugcinwa kwabantwana bakho okanye uthethe negqwetha elifanelekileyo kwindawo yakho.