Kwimeko yokugcina umntwana, ijaji iya kubuza imibuzo emininzi ukufumanisa ilungiselelo lokugcinwa kwabantwana, ukugcinwa kwedwa okanye lokubambisana, kuya kusebenza kakuhle kubantwana abandakanyekayo. Ngokuyinhloko, ixanduva eliyinqobo lijaji yinto enomdla kumntwana. Ijaji iya kucela umzali imibuzo emininzi ngexesha lokuvalelwa kwengane ukufumana ukuba ilungiselelo lokugcina ilungiselelo lomntwana.
Nayi eminye imibuzo ijaji inokuyenza ngexesha lokuvalelwa kwengane:
Isimo Sakho Semali?
Ijaji iya kubuza kumgangatho wezezimali zomzali kunye nezibonelelo zemali kuba inkundla kufuneka iqinisekise ukuba umzali unako ukunyamekela iimfuno zezemfuno ezibalulekileyo zomntwana ezifana nokutya nokukhusela. Ukongezelela, inkxaso yenkxaso yabantwana inokumiselwa kwindlebe efanayo okanye ukuvalelwa kwenkxaso yabantwana kunokuxhomekeka kwiinkcukacha ezisetyenziselwa ukuvalelwa kwabantwana. Ukuze kuqinisekiswe ukuxhaswa kwabantwana, ijaji iya kufuna ukufumana ingeniso yomzali. Kufuneka ulungele ukunikela ubungqina bentlawulo yakho kwinkundla. Umgwebi uya kuthatha nezinye izibophelelo zemali, njengetyala okanye abanye abantwana, ukuba unokwenza ingqalelo xa wenza isigqibo.
Uluphi uhlobo loMlungelelwano lweMpahla ofunayo kwaye Kutheni?
Ngexesha lokuvalelwa kwengane, ijaji iya kubuza malunga nohlobo lokugcina umzali ofuna.
Kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokugcina amalungiselelo okubandakanya ukugcinwa kwedwa okanye ngokubambisana. Inkundla ngokuqhelekileyo ikhetha ilungiselelo lokugcinwa ngokubambisana, njengoko lilungiselela umdla womntwana. Ivumela umntwana ukuba alondoloze ukudibana kunye nabazali bobabini. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umzali ufuna ukugcinwa kuphela, kufuneka / ukulungele ukunikela ubungqina bokuba kutheni umzali womntwana akufanele abe negunya lomntwana.
Unxibelelana Kanjani Nabanye Umzali?
Ngexesha lokuvalelwa kwengane, ininzi ijaji inokukhetha ukunika abazali bobabini, njengokuba inkundla ithatha ukuba ukuchitha ixesha kunye nabazali bobabini inika into enomdla kumntwana. Ukuze unikezele abazali ababini ukugcinwa komntwana, ijaji mhlawumbi iya kubuza malunga nenqanaba labazali bezonxibelelwano. Kwilungiselelo lokugcinwa kwamanyathelo, abazali baya kufuneka baxubushe ngezigqibo ezichaphazela usuku lomntwana kwimpilo yomhla. Inkundla zifuna ukukunceda ukuqinisekisa ukuba umzali ngamnye unokudlala indima ebalulekileyo ebomini babo.
Ngaba Unayo iMalungiselelo yokuHlalwa kweNtlawulo yaseMntwaneni okanye eNgavumelekanga?
Ijaji inokubuza malunga nelungiselelo lakho lokugcina kunye nokubuza ukuba yiziphi iindawo ezikhoyo ezikhoyo. Ngexesha lokuvalelwa kwengane, kubalulekile ukuba ijaji liqonde ilungiselelo labazali kuba inkundla ayifuni ukuphazamisa ilungiselelo lokugcina elibonakala lisebenza.
Ukufumana ulwazi oluthe xaxa malunga neenkqubo zokugcina abantwana, thetha kunye negqwetha elifanelekileyo kwiimeko zakho okanye ubhekisele kwimithetho yokugcinwa kwabantwana kwimeko yakho.