Kuye kucingelwa ukuba oomama bahlala begcinwa umntwana xa abazali behlukana, kodwa oko akunjalo. Ngokusemthethweni, obawo banamathuba amaninzi okufumana umntwana njengolomama. Nazi ezinye iinkalo zoobawo abanethemba lokunqoba umntwana.
Izinto eziqwalaselwe kwiNkxaso yabantwana kubaBawo
Ubaba ofuna ukugcinwa kwengane kufuneka acinge ngezinto ezilandelayo ezingasetyenziselwa ukucacisa ityala lokugcina umntwana:
- Uxwebhu olwaneleyo - Ubaba onomdla wokugcina umntwana kufuneka alungise onke amaxwebhu afanelekileyo malunga nokuhambela iishedyuli kunye neentlawulo zokuxhasa abantwana ngaphambi kwenkundla yenkundla.
- I-Courtroom Etiquette - Ubaba onomdla wokugcina umntwana kufuneka aphephe kuzo zonke izikhukhula zenkundla kunye nemiboniso yengqumbo. Ukugqithiswa kweeNkundla kungathintela umphumo wecala lokugcinwa kwabantwana.
- Ugqoke kwiNkundla - Ubaba onomdla wokugcina umntwana kufuneka agqoke isambatho esimnyama aze agqoke izicathulo enkundleni. Utata kufuneka aphephe isambatho esingaqhelekanga kuzo zonke iintlanganiso zeenkundla.
- Intshisekelo Enhle Yomntwana - Ngokunikezela ukugcinwa kweso siba, inkundla iya kuqwalasela into ebalulekileyo yomntwana. Ubaba, efuna ukugcinwa komntwana, kufuneka alungiselele ukucacisa enkundleni ukuba kutheni ukugcinwa kunye nomama wengane, akuyikukukhathalela umntanakho.
Iziphazamiso kubaBawo Ukufumana umntwana
Kukho iingxaki ezithile ezibandakanya ootata ekugcinweni kwabantwana kuquka:
- Ukunqunywa kwabazali - Ukuba abazali abangatshatanga, inkundla inokufuna ubaba ukuba anikezele ubungqina bentandane ngaphambi kokuyalela ukugcinwa.
- Ubulumko Bomzali Bomnye - Unina womntwana unokucela isicelo sokugcina kunye nenkundla yomthetho inqabile ukuba anganikeli ngokubambisana ngaphandle kokuba iimeko ezinxilisayo zikhona njengobundlobongela basekhaya.
- Iingqondi Zomntwana - Inkundla inokuphinda iqwalasele iimfuno zomntwana ngaphambi kokunikezelwa kweso-ntloko yomntwana. kuxhomekeke kwiminyaka yomntwana kunye nemithetho yokugcinwa kwabantwana baloo ndawo.
Ukufumana ulwazi oluthe xaxa malunga nendlela ootata abanokugcina ngayo abantwana, bathethe negqwetha elifanelekileyo kwilizwe lakho okanye ubhekisele kwiinkcukacha ezininzi malunga neendlela zokuncedisa oobawo ekuphumeleleni abantwana.