Abazali abanqatshelwe ukugcinwa kwabantwana enkundleni bavame ukunikezelwa ngamalungelo okuvakasha. Kwiimeko ezininzi, iinkundla zixhasa kwaye zikhuthaze ukubandakanyeka kwabazali bobabini, nangona baqikelela ukuba ukuhlala kwindawo enye iya kuba yinto enomdla kumntwana. Ngoko ke, ukuba usandula ukulahlekelwa ibhidi yokugcina inkundla enkundleni, kufuneka usebenzise amalungelo akho okutyelela kwaye ulondoloze ubuhlobo obusondeleyo nomntwana wakho.
Njengesinyathelo sokuqala, kuya kufuneka uqikelele ukuba kutheni ungazange unikwe imvume kunye neliphi ilungelo lakho lokutyelela.
Izizathu Zabazali Ziye Zingenelwe Impahla Yabantwana
Inkxalabo ephambili yekhotho yokhuseleko lomntwana kunye nentlalo-ntle. Nangona kunjalo, ukuphika ukugcinwa kwegunya akuthethi ukuba ijaji inqume ukuba ikhaya lakho alifanelekanga. Kwiimeko ezininzi, iinkundla ziyakunikela ukunikezelwa komzimba kumzali oye waba ngumncedisi oyintloko kumntwana, okanye bagqiba ekubeni ukuhamba phakathi naphaya kwamakhaya asemibini kungekuhle kumntwana. Ukuze ufumane ngakumbi malunga nokuba kungani ijaji kwimeko yakho ilawula isigwebo sakho ngesicelo sakho sokugcinwa, kufuneka udwelise isigwebo esibhaliweyo somgwebi. Kwakhona kunokukunceda ukufunda kwimithetho yokugcinwa komntwana ekulawuleni kwakho, eyahluka ukusuka kummandla ukuya kwimeko.
Amalungelo okuTyelela
Nangona unqatshelwe ukugcinwa, unganikwa amalungelo okuvakasha kunye nomntwana wakho.
Oku kuya kwenzeka ngexesha lokuvalelwa kwengane. Kwiinkalo ezininzi, iinkundla ziza kukhupha ishedyuli yokutyelela esemthethweni ebandakanya i-akhawunti eneenkcukacha ngokubhekiselele kumalungelo okuvakashela abazali abangabikho. Kwakhona kuthiwa ngumhla wokuba ngumzali, ixesha lokutyelela lingakunika amalungelo okutyelela:
- Ngeveki okanye ngeveki
- Inye okanye ezimbini iiveki (ngeveki okanye kwiiveki ezongezelelweyo)
- Ieholide
- Zeholide
Iinkundla ngokubanzi zikhetha ukubona abazali bebambisana kwiziko. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba wena kunye nomntu wakho wokuqala ningenalo ubudlelwane obuhle okanye ningakwazi ukufikelela kwisivumelwano, ijaji inokungena kwaye iqinisekise ishedyuli efanelekileyo yokutyelela.
Uncedo lwabazali abavakalisi ukutyelela
Kwezinye iimeko, abazali banokuphikiswa amalungelo okutyelela ngaphezu kokugcinwa kwabantwana. Ezinye zezizathu zokubangela ukuba amalungelo okuvakasha komzali anganqatshwa yinkundla zibandakanya:
- Umzali akazange asebenzise amalungelo akhe okutyelela ngaphambili
- Umzali akasasaqhagamshelani nomntwana
- Ngenxa yokuba inkundla ithola ubungqina bodlova lwasekhaya obubhekiselele kumntwana, umzali womntwana, okanye umntakwabo
- Umzali unembali yokusetyenziswa kakubi kotywala okanye iziyobisi
- Amalungelo omzali womzali apheliswe
Abazali abaye banqatshelwe ukuhanjelwa banokufumana ithuba lokubuyela emva kwamalungelo abo okuvakasha. Kwezinye iimeko, inkundla iya kupela iplani yesenzo equka ukuthatha iklasi yabazali okanye amanye amanyathelo okubuyisela. Ukuba unqatshelwe ukuhanjelwa yinkundla, buza malunga nokusebenza ngokubhekiselele ekubuyiselweni kwala ma lungelo ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Iintlobo zeeNdawo zokuTyelela eziNye
Nangona ukhenketho oluqhelekileyo, olungathinteliyo lunokukhethwa, kukho ezinye iindlela eziza kubazali abaye banqatshelwa ukutyelelwa. Ezi ziquka:
- Amalungelo okuhanjelwa okuhanjelwayo : Inkundla inokulaya amalungelo okuhanjelwa okunyanyisiweyo, okuquka ukudibaniswa kwenkundla phakathi komzali kunye nomntwana ojongene nomnye umntu. Inkundla iya kudala ilungiselele amalungelo okuhanjelwa okonganyelweyo kwiimeko apho iinkundla zikholelwa ukuba umzali unokufaka ingozi engozini kumntwana.
- Amalungelo okutyelela ngokufanelekileyo : Inkundla inokukuvumela ukuba uthathe inxaxheba ekutyeleleni okwenene nomntwana okanye abantwana. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, umzali okhuselekileyo uya kufuneka ukuba enze ukutyelela ngokutyelela nge-Skype, FaceTime, okanye enye inkonzo yevidiyo.
Ukuguqula amalungelo okuTyelela
Ukuba ishedyuli yakho yokutyelela yangoku ayifuni, okanye ufuna ukuba inkundla ihlole kwakhona ityala lakho, unokucela ukuguqulwa kwamalungelo okutyelela. Ezinye izigunyazo zinciphisa ukuba ungayifaka njani isicelo esinjalo rhoqo, ngoko uya kufuna ukukhangela inobhala wenkundla okanye igqwetha lakho ngolwazi olungakumbi malunga nendlela yokucela ngokusemthethweni ukuguqulwa.