Iingcebiso Zokukunceda Unqobe Umntwana
Ukubonakala kweNkundla kunokwesabisa, ngakumbi xa kugcinwe ukugcinwa komntwana wakho. Abazali bafanele bahambe kuzo zonke iinkqubo zokugcinwa kwabantwana njengoko zilungiswe ngokunokwenzeka. Nazi ezinye iinkcukacha malunga noko ukulindela ngexesha lwenkundla yeentsapho kunye nendlela yokulungiselela iziphumo ezingcono kakhulu.
Iingcebiso zokulungiselela
Xa ungena enkundleni ukuphikisana nokugcinwa kwabantwana, kubalulekile ukuba ulungele ngokusemandleni.
Ukulungiselela kuthetha ukuba iziphakamiso zakho zihlanganisiwe, kodwa kuthetha ukuzisa abantu abalungileyo nokugqoka ngokufanelekileyo.
- Lungisa iingxoxo zakho. Ukuba unommeli, baya kukunceda ngale nto; ukuba akunjalo, wena ngokwakho unokucinga ngemibandela ebalulekileyo enjengokuthi "ngaba ndinelungiselelo lokuphila lomntwana wam?" kwaye "ngaba ndingayinika inkxaso yemoya yam umntwana?"
- Lungisa iimpendulo zemibuzo enokwenzeka. Ukuba unomsebenzi wexesha elipheleleyo kunye nomntwana omncinane, umzekelo, mhlawumbi ijaji iya kubuza "umntwana wakho uya kuhamba phi emva kwesikolo?" Ukuba uhlala kwigumbi elilodwa lokulala, ijaji iya kufuna ukwazi apho umntwana wakho alala khona. Nika iimpendulo kwimibuzo enjalo ekulungele ukuhamba.
- Hlanganisa nabantu abanjengabysitters okanye ootitshala abangakwazi ukuxhasa ngokuchanekileyo nangempumelelo ngempembelelo yakho yokuba ngumzali ophezulu.
- Gqoka iingubo ezisemthethweni, ezigcobayo, i-hairstyle, kunye ne-makeup ethumela umyalezo othi "Ndingumntu omdala onoxanduva."
Lindela Ukubeka Amancinci
Ngokungafani nomcimbi wezobugebengu, umcimbi wentsapho awunzima. Umcimbi ngokubanzi uhanjiswa kwindawo encinci kunokuba umntu unokucinga. Igumbi eliqhelekileyo elisetyenziselwa ukugcinwa kwabantwana elincinci lincinci kwaye lusetshatsheni ngakumbi kuneenkundla eziboniswe kumabonwakude, kwaye bambalwa abantu baya kuba segumbini.
Lindela ikhefu lexesha elincinane
Abagwebi, abalamlamli, kunye nabagcini bamagqwetha abaphulaphuli bava inani lamatyala imihla ngemihla. Ngoko ke, kukho ithuba elinamandla lokuba ibhokisi lokugcinwa kwengane aliyi kuhlala ixesha elide kuba kukho iiseshoni eziqhutywayo. Abazali abathatha inxaxheba kwinkqubo yokugcinwa kwabantwana kufuneka basebenze kunye nabameli babo ukuba baqulunqe yonke ingcaciso kwaye bazimisele ukubeka unyawo lwabo olufanelekileyo ngexesha elifutshane.
Isicwangciso seeMpawu ezininzi
Ngexesha lokugcinwa komntwana ekuqhubekeni, amaqela alandelayo aya kuthetha:
- Abazali
- Umntwana (ukuba umntwana uneminyaka yobudala ukwenza isigqibo esicacisiweyo)
- AmaNgqina (kuquka nabasebenzi, izikhulu zesikolweni, njl.)
Amaqela aya kufakazela ngamava abo kumntwana kunye nabazali. Amacandelo angenza uluvo lokuba umzali angafaneleka kangcono ukuba abe ngumzali oyintloko kumntwana.
Ukulindela isinqumo esinqambileyo
Emva kokuba bobabini imibambano ibonise ihlangothi labo ekukhuseleni ilungiselelo elithile lokugcinwa, ijaji iya kunika isigqibo sakhe. Xa ufikelela kwisigqibo sokugcinwa kwabantwana, ijaji iya kwenza isigqibo esekelwe kwiminqweno yomntwana. Isigqibo sejaji siya kubandakanya:
- Ngumuphi umzali oza kuthathwa njengomzali okhuselekileyo
- Ishedyuli yokutyelela, kuquka iholide kunye neveki, xa umzali ongeyena okhuselweyo unelungelo lokutyelela
Umzali onokuthanda ulwazi oluthe xaxa malunga nokulindela ngexesha lokuvalelwa kwengane kufuneka athethe nommeli wakhe okanye atyelele ukuvalelwa kwengane yomntu ukuba azilungiselele ityala lokugcina umntwana. Into engcono kakhulu kubazali ukuba bayenze ukulungiselela kwangaphambili. Xa ulungiselela, umzali uya kuba yindawo efanelekileyo yokuphumelela ityala lokugcina umntwana.