Yintoni ongayenza, yithetha, kwaye uyiqonde xa umzukulwana wakho engumzekelo
Ndiyakuvuyela ngokuzalwa komzukulu wakho omnandi. Ingaba yinkwenkwe okanye intombazana, owokuqala okanye wakho umzukulwana we-10, kuyisiganeko esivuyisayo sokwamkela umntwana omtsha kwihlabathi.
Kodwa ukuba umzukulwana wakho useNICU, mhlawumbi uziva udibaniso lweemvakalelo.
Kuyo yonke le minyaka, ndibambe ngezandla kunye noomkhulu-ntombi abanoyika ukuba umzukulwana wabo akayi kuphila, kwaye ndiphulaphule i-NICU umama kunye noodade bachaza izinto ezintle kwaye eziyingozi abazali babo abazenzayo ngeli xesha.
Ndingathanda ukwabelana nento endikufundileyo, ngoko unako ukufumana ngaphakathi ngaphakathi kwizinto ezenziweyo kunye nezinto ezingenziwanga xa unyana wakho okanye intombi yakho ihamba namava okwethusa ukuba nomntwana kwiNICU.
Amanyathelo okuQala
Bhiyozela! Nangona kukhwankqisayo, kulungile ukuxelela umdla wakho ngomzukulwana wakho omtsha. Ngamanye amaxesha, wonke umntu kwintsapho yonke uyamoyika kakhulu ukuba abalibale ukwabelana ngemvakalelo yabo.
Okwesibini, ukuqonda ubunzima obubuhlungu obu bangela ukuba unyana wakho okanye intombi yakho, kwaye uzame kunzima ukubeka iimfuno zakho kwi-burner. Uninzi nootatomkhulu bafuna ukubandakanyeka nomzukulu wabo omtsha, kodwa i-NICU yinto ehluke ngokupheleleyo. Hlonipha unyana wakho okanye intombi yakho, njengoko kunzima ukwenza.
Okwesithathu, sifunde malunga neNICU kunye nobunzima bokuqala. Ukuba ukwenza oku ngexesha lakho, uya kulondoloza umntwana wakho ubunzima bokuchazela izinto ngokuphindaphindiweyo, owona mthwalo kubazali abaninzi be-NICU.
Amanqaku ambalwa amnandi okuqala ngawo:
- Yintoni i-NICU
- Inyaniso ye-NICU (Umbono we-NICU Umongikazi)
- Kutheni iintshaba zihlukileyo kunezithuba ezipheleleyo zeeNtsana
- I-NICU Equipment [kunye nezithombe]
Kodwa nceda uqaphele malunga nezinto ozifunayo kwi-Intanethi - amaninzi amaninzi eendaba ekhona kwi-intanethi, kwaye uya kwenza wena kunye nonyana wakho okanye intombi yakho ayikho imfesane ngokubanjwa kwamabali abantu.
Gcinana namabali afanelekileyo kunye namanqaku emfundo.
Kwenziwe ntoni
Kukho izinto ezininzi ezinokuyenza ukuba ube ngumzali okhumbuzayo noxhasayo. Abazali be-NICU badla ngokugqithiseka kangangokuthi kaninzi abakwazi ukuthetha ukuba yintoni abayidingayo, okanye bakhathele kakhulu ukucela uncedo. Ngoko xa unikezela ngoncedo lwakho, xela. Banike umhla ochanekileyo okhoyo, ubanike izinto ezimbalwa ongathanda ukuzenza ukuze uncede, njengale:
- Ukunikela ukuba ubukele abanye oogogo ukuze abazali bavakashele umntwana omtsha kwiNICU
- Ukunikezela ukuqhubela umama omtsha kwiNICU (ukuba ukuthutha kuyinselele)
- Ukunikela ukupheka ukutya
- Ukunikela ukuhlambulula indlu / yenza iimpahla zokuhlamba
- Ukuba unayo i-intanethi ye-intanethi, misela ukuqala ibhuloho elinyamekelayo kubo
- Gcina unxibelelana neefowuni, ii-imeyile okanye amanqaku abhaliweyo xa uhlala kude.
- Gcina iso kwi-Post-Partum Depress okanye kwi-Post-Traumatic Depress Disorder, enokuchaphazela umzali. Bancede bazi ukuba lixesha lokufumana uncedo kumgqirha okanye ngophilisi.
Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - Qhubeka wenze ezi zinto ZONKE kulo lonke i-NICU. Abazali abaninzi baziva beshiywa emva kokuvuyela okokuqala. I-NICU ihlala ikwazi ukuchitha iiveki kunye neenyanga, kwaye abazali abatsha baya kuxabisa uncedo lonke ixesha.
Oko Akufanele Uyenze
Kucelwa uthathe umzuzu ukuba ufunde eli nqaku malunga nendlela yokunceda umntu onzima. Mhlawumbi awucingi nge-NICU njengengxaki, kodwa abaninzi abazali baziva beziva kakhulu, kwaye mhlawumbi baziva nje ngeengxaki. Ngaba u wufunde?
Into ebalulekileyo ukugcina engqondweni kukuba kufuneka ubeke iimfuno zonyana wakho okanye intombi yakho ngaphezu kwakho.
Nceda musa:
- Xhaphaza ukuba awukwazi ukutyelela umntwana (ezinye ze-NICU azivumeli, kwaye abazali abaninzi abafuni ukuba bani na ngaphandle kwabo kodwa kuyinto evamile.
- Mxhaphaza ukuba awukwazi ukubamba umntwana (i-Ditto ngasentla.) Amaninzi amaninzi e-NICU, ngokukodwa, athukuthele ukuba nabani na umntu ubambe umntwana wabo, kwaye kufuneka babone oongikazi kunye noogqirha benza yonke into abayifunayo. Into enye abangayilawula ngubani na oya kubamba umntwana, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha afune ukuba banike umntu. Kuqhelekileyo, ngoko uya kuwuhlonela.)
- Buza itani lemibuzo malunga nesimo somntwana okanye ukuxela. (Ngokuqinisekileyo ufuna ukubonisa inkxalabo yakho, kodwa khumbula ukuba abazali be-NICU bakhathazeke kakhulu. Ukukhathazeka kwakho malunga nosana kufuneka kufike okwesibili ukukunceda abazali bakhawuleze bathuthuzele.)
Yintoni ongayithethayo
Kubaluleke ngaphezu kokuthetha nto nantoni na ukuphulaphula. Ukubuza nje "Uhlala njani? Ngokwenene? "Kwaye ukuphulaphula kuya kuba yinkxaso enhle.
Kwakhona, ezi zinto zikhulu:
- "Ndiyakuvuyela!"
- "Khangela ukuba mnandi!"
- "Ubonakala enamandla!"
- "Ujonge njengomama / utata / umkhulu / ugogo ..."
- "Ubambene njani? Ngokwenene?"
- "Ndiza kugcina ingcinga yam / imithandazo"
Yintoni ongayithethi
Abantu abaninzi banokuthi bangathethi izinto ezibuhlungu kubazali abatsha. Ukuba uzama ukukhathazeka kwaye ucingisise, ungakhathazeki kakhulu malunga nento oyithethayo. Kodwa nantsi iikhompyutheni zakudala ezithandwa ngabazali abangazithandiyo:
"Uncinci kakhulu." Abazali bayazi kakuhle indlela umntwana wabo omncinci ngayo, kwaye ngumthombo wokukhathazeka okukhulu. Ngoko zama ukugxila kwiimandla kunye neziphumo.
"Ngaba uya kulungile?" Abazali bayazibuza into efanayo, kwaye abanakho impendulo. Ngoko ukubenza bakhumbule ukukhathazeka kunye nokungaqiniseki nto enkulu. Ixesha liza kuxela. Gxininisa ngoku kunye nakwimiphumo.
"Yintoni oyenzileyo? / Yintoni eyabangela le ntsholongwane?" Bayazibuza into efanayo kwaye mhlawumbi bazive bebuhlungu (bengazikhohlisi). Akukho nto amayeza enamhlanje angayenza ngokwenene ukukhusela ukubola, kwaye kaninzi kunokwenzeka nangona unina enza konke "ngokufanelekileyo." Ngoko ungongezeli kwintyala yakhe ngokubonisa ukuba kukho into ayenokwenza ukuze ayikhusele . Nangona ucinga ukuba unina wayenomsebenzi "olungcono" xa ekhulelwe, ngoku akusona ixesha lokunyusa loo mthwalo kwiintsapho ezixhalabileyo.
"Ubuncinane umntwana unabo" babatitters "abakhulu. Ngokuqinisekileyo, abahlengikazi be-NICU kunye noogqirha baqeqeshwe kakhulu, kodwa akukho mntu ufuna ukuba umntwana wakhe anakekelwe ngumnye umntu - abazali bafuna ukunyamekela umntwana wabo ngokwabo. Kwaye abanako.
"Andiyazi ukuba wenza ntoni! / Andiyi kuba namandla ngokwaneleyo ukusingatha oku." Akunjalo! Bafisa ukuba bengabikho, kwaye kubangelwa ukuba bazive bebodwa kuba bonke abantu bacinga ukuba babambe kakuhle xa eqinisweni bavakalelwa ngathi bahlukana.
"Ubuncinane akufuneki ukuba ufumane ubunzima bonke." Kubonakala ngathi yinto engenatyala ukuthetha, kodwa phantse bonke oomama bafuna ukufumana konke u bunzima kunye nokunye - amaninzi amanina aya kunika ingalo yabo yekhohlo! - kunokuba ubukele umzabalazo wabo omncinci wokuphila.
Kwaye yimbi kunazo zonke ... "Uya kufika nini ekhaya?" Kwakhona, kubonakala kungenasici, kwaye yinto enomdla ngayo. Lo ngumzukulwana wakho! Kodwa abazali banamaxesha angama-100 bengazi ukuba unobani, kwaye oogqirha kunye nabongikazi abakwazi ukubaxelela xa umntwana wabo uya kulungela ukuya ekhaya. Abazali be-Preemie phantse bahlale beyithiyile lo mbuzo, ngoko vele ugweme ukuba unako.
Kwaye ngaphandle kokuba uxoxe rhoqo ngoThixo nonyana wakho okanye intombi, ngoku akusiyo ixesha lokuzisa loo nto. Abazali be-Preemie bahlala benzima ngokholo lwabo kunye nomsindo wabo, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo bafune ukuba nabani na othetha "ngesicwangciso sikaThixo" okanye "Kutheni uThixo wenza oku." (Cinga malunga nayo - ivakalelwa kakhulu ukuba ixelelwe ukuba uThixo ucebise into enzima kwaye ibuhlungu kubo okanye ngomntwana wabo. Ngoko mhlawumbi kungcono ukuphepha le nto ngaphandle kokuba unyana wakho okanye intombi yakho inqwenela ukuthetha ngoThixo nawe.)
Uzisa Isipho?
Akunjalo!
Oogogo nomkhulu bahlonishwa ngokubonisa izipho kwiintsana zabo ezincinci, kwaye i-preemie ifanelwe nabo! Kodwa kwi-NICU, abaninzi ootatomkhulu bayaxhalaba baya kufumana "into engafanelekanga". Nazi ezinye izipho eziphantse zizisa uvuyo olufunekayo:
- Izambatho ze-Preemie (khangela ezinye i-ADORABLE kunye nezolonwabo apha)
- I-NICU Posters kunye neNICU Work Art
- Izilwanyana ezixhambileyo (KUPHELA ukuba i-NICU iya kubavumela)
- Amakhadi eZiko esibhedlele esibhedlele, ukupaka isibhedlele
- Amakhadi eZipho zeGesi, ukutya, iivenkile
- Iincwadi zokufunda ngokuvakalayo iintsana
- Iiphakheji zokunyamekela, zizaliswe ngokutya okutyiwayo, iphephabhuku, i-lotion ngesandla kunye nezinye izinto
- Ukuxilisa okanye imini kwi-spa, okanye nayiphina into oyaziyo ukuba umntwana uyayithanda
- Ibhondi yokunakekelwa ngezandla ezingenasandla kunoma yimuphi umama onompompo
Izinto ezingathengiyo
Ezi zinto zingabacaphukisa kubazali abathile, ngoko kuya kuba ngcono ukunqumla kwezi zinto izipho:
- Iintyatyambo (Zikhumbuza abazali abaninzi abatsha ngemingcwabo)
- Izambatho zentsana elipheleleyo okanye elidala (abazali bayakhathazeka ngomntwana babo abanako ukuhlala ixesha elide.
- Iincwadi zeBantwana ezijoliswe kwiintsana ezizeleyo
Ewe, apho unayo. Ukuba ufunde lonke olu lwazi - Siyakuhalalisela! Ngoku uqala ukuya kwisiqalo esihle njenge-preemie-tomkhulu! Qhubeleka nomsebenzi omhle!