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UkuLawula Ukuziphatha Kukunceda Ukunciphisa Iingxaki Zomntwana Wakho

Ukuba ukuziphatha komntwana wakho yingxaki ekhaya kwaye / okanye esikolweni, awuyedwa. Utitshala okanye umcebisi unokunceda ngeengxaki zokuziphatha komntwana wakho. Abanye abafundi abaneziphene zokufunda okanye ukungabikho kwengqondo / ukungabikho kwengxaki (hydactivity disorder) (i-ADHD) badinga isicwangciso sokuguqulwa kokuziphatha kwimfundo yabo ngabanye (IEPs), kodwa ukuziphatha ezininzi kunokuncitshiswa ngokulawula impendulo yakho kubo. Ngale macebiso, unokunciphisa iingxaki zokuziphatha usebenzisa ukulungiswa kwakhona. Injongo yokulungiswa kwakhona kukufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba alandele kwaye alungise ukuziphatha kwakhe.

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Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho uyaqonda ukuba kutheni ukuziphatha kwakhe kuyinkinga

Nangona kubonakala ngathi umntwana wakho "kufuneka azi kakuhle," ukuthetha ngokuziphatha kubaluleke kakhulu kwisinyathelo sokuqala ekulawuleni ukuziphatha . Abanye abantwana abakucingi ngokuziphatha kwabo okanye balindele imiphumo xa baneengxaki zokulawula umgudu kunye nobunzima bokuthabatha uluntu. Chaza ukuziphatha kweengxaki kwiphimbo eliqinileyo kodwa elingenanto. Abanye abantwana baphendule bhetele kwisikhumbuzo esisongelayo ngaphezu kwezwi elikhulu. Cacisa indlela yokuziphatha kwimigqaliselo ethile umntwana wakho uya kuqonda kwaye achaze ukuba kutheni ingxaki.

• Yithi: Ukuphosa i-baseball endlwini kungalimaza umntu.
• Musa ukuthi: Yeka ukonakala-izindlu.

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Chaza ukuba Kutheni ukuziphatha kuyingxaki kwaye Kuya kwenziwa ntoni Ngawo

Chaza ngokucacileyo iingxaki ezibangelwa ngumntwana wakho. Kungenzeka ukuba ufikelele kwiimbilini zakho zokugqibela, kodwa ugweme ukumgxeka ngendlela yakhe. Qaphela ukuba usenokufuna ukuphinda le siqili ngokuhamba kwexesha umntwana wakho ayeke ukuziphatha kwengxaki.

• Yithi: Iingubo zakho zihlambulukile kuba ziphantsi kombhede wakho kwaye zingekho kwibhasiki yokuhlamba. Ndiza kukubonisa indlela yokuhlamba.
• Musa ukuthi: Ukuba unesilumko ukubeka iingubo zakho kwibhaksi, andiyikuhlamba.

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Umzekelo Wokuziphatha Okufanelekileyo Kubantwana Bakho

Ngaphambi kokuba uphendule ngokuziphatha komntwana wakho, kunokunceda ukuthatha ukuphefumula kathathu ukuphumla nokucinga malunga nokuba yintoni impendulo engcono. Ukuthobeka kodwa ngokunyanisekileyo, uchaze indlela oziphatha ngayo ofuna umntwana wakho enze ngayo. Sebenzisa ulwimi oluthile ukuchaza oko akufanele okanye akufanele akwenze. Zama ukugcina ithoni eqinile kodwa engavumelaniyo engenakho ukukrakra.

• Yithi: Nceda sebenzisa ilizwi elithulileyo ngaphakathi kwitora yokudlela.
• Ungathi: Yenza ngokufanelekileyo.

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Bonisa ngeZenzo zakho kunye nesimo sengqondo sokuba ukholelwa kumntwana wakho

Khuthaza kwaye ugxininise ukuziphatha komntwana wakho xa kunokwenzeka. Nangona unokukhungatheka ngumsebenzi wakhe, uthetha kakuhle kumntwana wakho kwaye umenze azi ukuba uyamthemba.

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Qaphela ukuba Utshintsho lwendlela yokuziphatha luya kuthatha ixesha

Nika indumiso enyanisekileyo, ngokukhethekileyo nayiphi na inkqubela eyenziwa ngumntwana wakho ekujonganeni neenjongo zokuziphatha, nangona akazukufeza injongo yayo yonke.

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Cwangcisa phambili kwiindawo ezikhuselekileyo nezifanelekileyo Xa ukuziphatha kuyingxaki

Yazi ukuba zeziphi iingxaki ezibangela iingxaki kumntwana wakho, kwaye uzilungiselele ezinye iindlela zokuphepha. Abantwana abancinci banokuyithandana nokudlala indima ngaphambi kokuba bafunde imigaqo kunye nokulindela kwimeko oza kuba kuyo. Qalisa nabo oko bangakwenzayo xa bevutha ngumsindo okanye bafuna ukukhulula amandla. Izindlela zokuphefumula, ukuthatha ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza nomzali, ukudlala imidlalo yemidlalo, ukwenza izibalo zamatriki, kunye nokudlala umdlalo kunokuba luncedo kubantwana babo bonke ubudala.