Ukufumana i-Babysitter yomntwana onemfuno ezizodwa

U busuku ngaphandle. Ngeveki kude. Isihlandlo esikhethekileyo kunye nabanye abantwana bakho. Kukho amaxesha enene ngokwenene, ngokwenene udinga umntwana onobubele kubantwana bakho abaneemfuno ezizodwa . Kodwa kufuneka ukuba ngumntwana obengamphatha. Ngubani owaziyo ngeengxaki zezempilo okanye ukuziphatha kwakhe. Ngubani oza kubonisa isigwebo esifanelekileyo xa umntwana wakho engakwazi. Ngubani oza kugcina umntwana wakho ukhuselekile kwixesha elide? Lo msebenzi awusona mntwana osemva. Ngubani ozakubiza? Yilapho uqala khona uphando lwakho.

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Usapho

Kukho uninzi lwamalungu entsapho ongeke usathembela ngeemfuno zomntwana wakho kunokuba ungasemzini kwisitalato. Kodwa ukuba kukho isihlobo senceba esinobudlelwane nomntwana wakho, leyo yinto enokuthi ibheke iinkonzo zokuhlala kwabantwana. Musa ukuyisebenzisa ngokungafanelekanga, kodwa ungesabi ukubuza.

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Abahlobo abasondeleyo nabathembekileyo

Asinakuthetha ngabantu abangaqhelekanga apha. Umhlobo osondeleyo kwintsapho yakho kwaye umntwana wakho angamkela ithuba lokuchitha ixesha elithile lomgangatho. Ngaphandle kokunyamekela ingxaki yokukhathazeka kwengane yakho, le yindlela efanelekileyo yokudala ubudlelwane obunzulu phakathi komntwana wakho kunye nalabo "bafana" kunye "nootata".

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Isikolo sabantwana

Ootitshala abancinci bangabakho kwimarike yomsebenzi omncinane kwicala, kwaye ukuba kukho omnye othanda ngokukhethekileyo, kunokubaluleka ukubuza, ngasese kwaye akukho ndlela engaphazamisa umsebenzi wabani na, nokuba kukho nawuphi na ukufumaneka kwabantwana. Ngokufanayo, i-classroom aides ingamkela ithuba lokufumana enye ingeniso.

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Umboneleli weNtloko

Abasebenzi abasebenzisayo iimfuno zomntwanakho kwiinkonzo zokunakekelwa kweso, esikolweni, okanye emva kwesikolweni baya kukwazi ukwenza njalo ekhaya. Ukuba kukho umqeshwa okanye umntwana wakho othanda kakhulu, fumana indlela eyingqiqo yokubuza ukuba mhlawumbi ingafumaneka kwixesha lokufumana abantwana.

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Therapists

Inkulumo ezininzi zesikolo, ezemisebenzi, kunye nezobuchwephesha zonyango zibancinci, zihamba zivela esikolweni, kwaye zihlawula imali yokubolekisa abafundi. Nangona kunokuphinda kubekho ukungqubana komdla ekuboneni umntwana esikolweni, akukhathazi ukujonga ukuba ngaba banomdla kwimisebenzi yokubukela abantwana ngaphezu kwehlobo xa kungenjalo ngexesha lonyaka wesikolo.

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Indlu yoNqulo

Ukubuza phakathi kwamalungu oluntu unqulo luyakunceda ufumane ngabazali abanamava abafuna umsebenzi owongezelelweyo ukuze bancede abantwana babo bahlawule iikholeji okanye bafumane inkxaso yentsapho. Ukubeka isikhangiso kwicawa-mali okanye iphephandaba linokuba yindlela efanelekileyo. Yiba phambili malunga neemfuno zakho ezizodwa.

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Ikholeji e kufuphi

Ukuba ikholeji kufuphi nawe ineprogram ekhethekileyo yemfundo, okanye enye yokuthetha, umzimba, okanye unyango osebenzayo - nantoni na ekufuneka abafundi bafumane ngayo amava abaneemfuno ezizodwa-zibiza iiofisi zale nkqubo kwaye zibone ukuba zikhona abafundi abasondeleyo ukugqweswa, kunye nezinye izakhono ekujonganeni nabantwana abakhethekileyo, abaya kuvuyela ithuba lokusebenza ngokungaqhelekanga kunye nawe.

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Iqela leNkxaso

Abamama kwiqela lakho lokuxhasa banomatasa kakhulu ukunyamekela abantwana babo abacelomngeni ukuba bajonge nabo, nabo. Kodwa mhlawumbi baye bafumanisa izixhobo ezifanelekileyo zokufumana abantwana kwindawo yokuhlala ukuba bangabelana nawe. Ayikwazi ukulimaza ukubuza.

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Iinkonzo zikaRhulumente okanye iiNdawo zokuHlala kwiNgingqi

Iinkonzo zokuhlala zibonelela ootitshala ukuba babukele umntwana wakho xa ufumana ubusuku okanye iveki. I-ARCH National Respond Network ingakunceda ufumane iinkonzo kwindawo yakho. Yiya kwi-National Respond Locator ukuze ufumane iinkonzo kwindawo yakho.

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Umlingani wakho Okhulelweyo

Ichitha ubu busuku ngokuqinisekileyo, kodwa ukuba ukufumana umntu ngaphandle kwentsapho yentsapho kubonakala kungenakwenzeka, khangela ukuba unokwenza okungenani enye ukuze ufumane ixesha elifanelekileyo - kunye nexesha, ekubeni ngumgcini-nxaxheba kunye nomdlali odlala naye. Ikhofi nganye ngeveki kunye nomhlobo okanye isigxina-iyure kwindawo yokuzivocavoca unokwenza okuninzi ukuze uhlaziywe kwaye uphumule. Thatha oko unokufumana.