Izibonakaliso zengcinezelo yobazali ngabafundi abakhubazekileyo abafundi

Ukujamelana nokuBala umntwana okhubazekileyo wokuFunda

Ngaba ungumzali umfundi okhubazekileyo kwaye unenkxwaleko yomphefumlo kunye noxinzelelo? Ukuba kunjalo, awuyedwa. Abazali abaninzi banamaxesha okuqikelela okuxinzelelekileyo njengoko bevumelanisa neemfuno zokuba ngumzali umfundi okhubazekile. Le miva idla ngokufana nalabo bantu abavame ukuba namava emva kokulahleka okukhulu njengokwahlukana, ukulahlekelwa ngumsebenzi okanye ukufa komntu othandekayo. Funda kabanzi malunga nezigaba ezifanayo zomngeni kunye nabazali abawamkelekileyo bokufunda abantwana abakhubazekile amava.

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Ukukhanyela ukukhubazeka kwabantwana

Abanye abazali bayakuphika ukukhubazeka kwengqondo yomntwana. Umzali ekuphikeleni uya kuphepha ukuthetha ngokukhubazeka kwaye uya kwenza izizathu kunye neengcaciso ezithile zengxaki. Umzali unokuziphatheka njengokungathi yonke into ilungile kwaye ayikunyaniseki umntwana okanye iingxaki zokufunda.

Ngenye indlela, umzali unokumangalela umntwana ngenxa yokusebenza kwakhe esikolweni kakubi kwaye ukholelwe ukuba ingxaki yindoda yobunzima okanye ukungabi namandla. Umntwana onokuthi abazali bakhe banqatshelwe ukufumana ukuphika kusemngciphekweni wokuhlawuliswa ngenxa yokusebenza kwakhe esikolweni, okungafanelekanga kwaye kunokudala umonakalo wengqondo kumntwana. Eli nqanaba kunzima kakhulu ukujongana xa abatshatileyo bengavumelani nokukhubazeka komntwana kunye nendlela iingxaki zezemfundo ezifanele ziphathwe ngayo.

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Intukuthelo malunga neNtlungu yoMntwana

Intukwano yindlela enye evame ukusabela ngayo kubazali babantwana abanokukhubazeka ukufunda. Abazali abajamelana nomsindo bangaba ngxabano, bafune, baze bathethe ngokungathandabuzekiyo xa bejongene nomntwana ongaphantsi. Bangayenza ingqumbo yabo ngutitshala, iqabane labo okanye umntwana wabo. Abanye banokuzingca ngokwabo ngenxa yokukhubazeka komntwana kunye nokungakwazi kwabo "ukulungisa" ingxaki.

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Ukugxeka abanye ngokukhubazeka kokufunda Abanye abazali bezingane abaneziphene zokufunda bazama ukujamelana nokugxeka abanye ngesifo sokufunda. Umzali kwisigaba sokugxeka angakholelwa okanye athi:

• umntwana akafundanga kuba utitshala engenzi umsebenzi wakhe;
• iqabane lenza izizathu zomntwana, umzali okholelwa ukuba akayi kwenza umgudu ayenayo esikolweni; okanye
• ootitshala abangaqeqeshiyo kunye nabasebenzi besikolo ngokubanzi baye babangela ingxaki.

Eli nqanaba lincomeke ngakumbi kwaye lucinezeleke xa abatshatileyo bengavumelani nokukhubazeka komntwana. Ukongezelela, ummangalelwa angakwazi ukuhamba egxeka ukugxeka ekujonganeni neengxaki zokufunda zabafundi.

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Usizi kunye nabazali beZifundo abakhubazekileyo Abantwana Abanye abazali bokufunda abakhubazekileyo abantwana bahamba kwinkqubo yokulila eqalayo xa befunda ngokukhubazeka. Abazali abakhathazekayo ngenxa yokukhubazeka kwabantwana basoloko bexhalabele ukuba abantwana babo banokuzabalazela bonke ubomi babo. Bangakhathazeka ukuba umntwana akayi kuphumelela ebomini ngenxa yokukhubazeka. Abazali banokuvakalelwa intlungu ngenxa yeminyaka xa abantwana babo bebunzima kwiindlela ezahlukahlukeneyo xa abanye abantwana bephumelela. Ukudlulisa uvavanyo lomqhubi, iimviwo zokungena kwikholeji, kunye neziganeko ezifanayo zingabangela ukuba lusizi.

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Abazali be-LD Abantwana kunye nexhala

Inkxalabo kunye nentlungu zihlala zihamba ngokulandelana kubazali bokufunda abantwana abakhubazekile. Abazali banokukhathazeka malunga:

• ukuzithoba komntwana ;
• ukufezekiswa kunye nokukwazi ukukwenza esikolweni;
• ingaba umntwana uya kufunda ukufunda, ukwenza izibalo okanye ukwenza ezinye izakhono zobomi ezibalulekileyo;
• ingaba umntwana uya kukwazi ukuya kwikholeji okanye inkqubo yoqeqesho;
• umntwana unomsebenzi ophumelelayo; kwaye
• umntwana ophuhlisa ubomi bokuphila kufuneka ukuba abe nosapho kunye nobomi obudala obuqhelekileyo.

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Indlela yokujongana neengxaki zokubazali ngabazali abakhubazekileyo abantwana abanokukhubazeka

Ukujongana noxinzelelo lomzali umfundi okhubazekileyo unokuba ngumngeni, kodwa kwinto enokufunda nokuqiniswa ngokusebenza. Qalisa ngala macwangciso kunye nezibonelelo:

• Hlola ukunyamezela kwakho ngolu hlobo
• Qala ukuLawula ingcinezelo ngokuVavanya iimpawu zakho
• Iindlela zokunciphisa uxinzelelo kubazali nabafundi
• Iingcebiso zoLawulo lweengxaki
• Ukunciphisa uxinzelelo ngoKomeleza izakhono zakho zokuLawiswa kwiSikolo soLwazi