Ulawulo lweengxaki kubazali beemfuno ezizodwa zezingane

Ukulawula uxinzelelo kubaluleke kakhulu kunoma yimuphi umzali, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu kubazali babantwana abanokukhubazeka ukufunda kunye nezinye iintlobo zokukhubazeka. Njengomzali womntwana onokukhubazeka ukufunda, kwaye mhlawumbi abantwana abangabikho abakhubazekileyo, uya kuba noxinzelelo lwabazali kunye neengxaki ezikhethekileyo zokuba ngumzali iimfuno ezizodwa zomntwana. Ezi ngcebiso zinokukunceda ufunde ukulawula uxinzelelo lwakho kwaye uphile ubomi obonwabileyo, obunelisayo ngakumbi. Ngokuphuhlisa izakhono zokulawulwa koxinzelelo, uya kubonisa iimpawu zokuphila ezibalulekileyo kubantwana bakho.

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Uxinzelelo lweengxaki kunye nokucinga okulungileyo

Funda ukucinga okulungileyo. Inventory lwakho uxinzelelo. Hlaziya kwakhona ukungabi nantoni nge:

• Ukucinga izinto ezigqithisileyo, ezilungileyo, kunye neziphumo zeengxaki kunye nokujonga indlela oya kuhlangabezana ngayo nesiphumo.
• Ukuzibandakanya nabantu abanomdla kunye nokunciphisa iimeko ezimbi.
• Ukuphuhlisa ubudlelwane obuhle nesikolo.
• Khangela ithuba kwintlekele. Sebenzisa iingxaki zeemeko ukukhuthaza utshintsho.

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Ukunciphisa uxinezeleko - Gcina iMilinganiselo Engqiqweni

Njengabazali, sijonga kakhulu. Zinike imvume yokukhulula ezinye izibophelelo zakho zokuzithandela. Cing by:

• Ukululaza imisebenzi apho kunokwenzeka khona.
• Ukucela uncedo ngaphambi kokuyidinga oko kuya kufumaneka xa uyayidinga.
• Ukuthi cha. Kungaba nzima kubazali kuba siziva ngathi sinembopheleleko kuyo yonke into. Ukwenza oku kube lula, yithi cha nge:
  • Ukuncoma. "Wenza umsebenzi omhle ngokuthengiswa kwebhake minyaka yonke, kodwa kulo nyaka andinakukunceda."
  • Ndiyabulela. "Ndiyayiqonda ukuba ucinga ngam, kodwa andinakuyifumanisa intlanganiso ye-PTO kule nyanga.
  • Ibinzana lokuzithemba. "Ndiyazi ukuba uya kwenza umsebenzi oqaqambileyo wokumdanisa umdaniso, kodwa andinakukwazi ukunceda eli xesha.

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Ukunciphisa uxinzelelo ngokuvuma iiMilinganiselo zakho

Into engaqondakaliyo malunga neemeko ezixinzelelekileyo kukuba xa sikhathazeka ngakumbi kubo, ukugqithiseka kwethu kukuba nzima. Siyazixhalabisa ngeemeko esizikwazi ukuzilawula, kodwa kubalulekile ukufunda ukuvuma ukulinganiselwa kwethu. Xa sivuma ukuba asinakho ukulawula ingxaki, sikhulula iingqondo zethu ukufumanisa iindlela ezifanelekileyo zokuphucula imeko okanye ukusebenza kwinto ehluke ngokupheleleyo. Umfundi onokukhubazeka okufunda ukufunda, umzekelo, unokuhlangabezana neemfuno zokungena kwiyunivesiti, kodwa iikholeji zasekuhlaleni okanye iinkqubo zengqesho zingaphumelela kangcono kwisitayela sakhe sokufunda. Ngokwamkela ukulinganiselwa kwakhe, abazali bakhe banokumnceda aqhube phambili kwinkqubo apho unokuphumelela khona.

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ISicwangciso kunye neShedyuli yokunciphisa uxinzelelo lwakho

Ukucwangcisa yindlela enkulu yokunciphisa uxinzelelo. Ucwangciso lunokuba lulula nje ukuthatha imizuzu embalwa kusasa ukubhala phantsi nokubeka phambili izinto ezibalulekileyo omele ukwenze ngosuku. Gxininisa ekufumaneni imisebenzi ebalulekileyo eyenziweyo, kwaye wenze imisebenzi engabalulekanga xa kwaye kwaye ixesha livumelekile. Wena nomntwana wakho unokuzuza ngokuphuhlisa imikhwa emihle yokucwangcisa. Hlukanisa imisebenzi emikhulu kwimisebenzi encinci, ephathekayo. Beka ixesha elifanelekileyo lokugqiba umsebenzi ngamnye.

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Ukunyamekela Izidingo Zakho Zomzimba Kunciphisa uxinzelelo

Abazali bahlala behamba kwaye bayeke ixesha elincinci lokunyamekela zabo iimfuno zomzimba. Landela icebo lokutya okunempilo, funda iindlela zokufumana ubuthongo obunempilo nangona uxinzelelo kwaye wenze ixesha lokuqhuba umsebenzi ovunyiwe ngugqirha wakho.

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Ukwenza ixesha lokuphumla kunganciphisa uxinzelelo

Ukuba unjengam, ufumanisa imbono yokwenza ixesha lokuphumla njengoko uxinzelelekileyo njengokwenza ixesha lenye into. Kodwa yenza ixesha esimele siyenze ukuba sinethemba lokunciphisa uxinzelelo ebomini bakho. Ukwenza ixesha lokuphumla kwakho yindlela enye "yokubuyisa i-saw" njengoko uStephen Covey ecebisa. Ukuba uyayinyamekela iimfuno zakho zokuphumula kuqala, uya kuba namandla amaninzi ukuhlangabezana nezinye iimfuno zobomi.

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Ukuphepha utywala kunye neziyobisi kukuphucula uxinzelelo

Ngokuqhelekileyo utywala kunye neziyobisi zenza iimpawu zoxinzelelo zibi nakakhulu. Zama iindlela eziphilileyo zokunciphisa uxinzelelo olufana nokuzivocavoca okanye ukuzonwabisa.

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Amanqanaba angaphantsi kweengcinezelo ngokuQulunqa

Ukuqhawula ikhaya lakho kunye nendawo yokusebenzela inganciphisa amanqanaba akho oxinzelelo. Ukuba nayo yonke indawo endaweni yayo kwandisa ukusebenza kwakho ekhaya nasemsebenzini. Ukuhlelwa kwendawo yokusebenzela yomntwana yindlela efanelekileyo yokwandisa imveliso yakhe.

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Iingalunganga ezilungileyo - Misela iimpazamo - Mkele ukungaphumeleli

Sonke sikhona. Ngamanye amaxesha iinjongo zethu ezintle ziba mfutshane, zisishiye siziva sizixhalabile, singenelisekile, sihlazekile kwaye sizithukuthele. Sinokunciphisa kakhulu ingcinezelo yethu ngokumane sivume ukungaphumeleli kwethu, silungise naziphi na iimpazamo esizenzayo, nokulungisa iimpazamo zethu. Ukwamkela iimpazamo zethu nokwenza umzamo onyanisekileyo wokuzilungisa kukuvumela ukuba sigxininise kwizisombululo kunokuba sigxininisekise kwisicala sokuvelisa okanye ukugxeka.

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Ukunciphisa uxinzelelo - Yenza ixesha lokuhleka - Ukunciphisa iziphumo ezintle

Ukwenza ixesha lokuhlaziya kubalulekile ekhaya nasemsebenzini. Ukungcola kakubi kulungele ukukhanyisa imizwa kunye nokwakha ukudibanisa emsebenzini. Ukuhleka kweentlanzi ekhaya kungakomeleza ulwalamano lwakho kunye neqabane lakho nabantwana. Ukuzihlaziya kunokukunceda ukuncedisa uxinzelelo kwiimeko ezinzima. [p] Indlela elula yokuqala kukuphepha ukufunda iphephandaba okanye ukubukela iindaba zeendaba. Endaweni yoko, jonga ama-comedies kunye neekhathuni. Intsapho yam ithanda uSponge Bob, kwaye sihlala siyicaphula ubomi bethu bemihla ngemihla. Ukuqeshisa iifilimu zamafilimu, kwaye ujonge iintandokazi ngaphezu kweyodwa. Sisahleka ngokukhawuleza xa kukho into ekhumbuza ukuhlangabezana nabazali.