Xa umntwana engenzi kakubi, nokuba ukuphosa umsindo , ukulimaza enye intsana okanye ukungawuthobeli imiyalelo , ngokuqhelekileyo wayefumana uhlobo lwesigwebo. Kodwa, xa umntwana engumgca we-autism, mhlawumbi ufuna indlela eyahlukileyo yokuqeqeshwa.
Kungaba nzima ukuphumeza iindlela zobugcisa zendabuko xa usebenzisana nomntwana nge-autism.
Ngokuxhomekeke apho awela khona kwibala, unokuba nzima ukuqonda imiphumo yezenzo zakhe.
Kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba akufanele usebenzise naluphi na uqeqesho. Esikhundleni saloo ndlela, izicwangciso ezinokuthi zenzeke ngokufanelekileyo zingabakhokelela ekumfundiseni indlela yokuziphatha ngayo.
Zifundise Ngezinto Zomntwana Wakho
Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde kakuhle ukuxilongwa komntwana wakho. Izimpawu ze-autism ziyahlukahluka kakhulu. Ukuqonda okucacileyo iimfuno kunye nekhono lomntwana kuya kunceda ukuqinisekisa ukuba udala izinto ezilindelekileyo.
Umntwana one-autism akanako ukulawula ukuziphatha okuthile. Isandla sokutshiza, umzekelo, ukuziphatha okuzivuselelayo okuqhelekileyo kunceda abantu abane-autism ukulawula iimvakalelo zabo. Iyakwazi ukuqwalaselwa ngokuhlalutya kokuziphatha okanye ukusebenza kwonyango, kodwa akufanele ubeke umntwana wakho ekuphumeni ngenxa yokuba ukuphambanisa isandla kwakhe kukuphazamisa umsebenzi.
Soloko ubeka ukhuseleko kuqala
Xa kuyimfuneko, susa umntwana wakho kwimeko - ingakumbi ukuba ingakhuselekanga (emoyeni okanye ngokomzimba) kuye okanye enye incinane. Nangona kunjalo, qaphela indlela umntwana wakho asabela ngayo xa umthabatha kwimeko. Ukuba ngokukhawuleza uyancipha aze aqale ukuziphatha, unokuzibandakanya ukungaziphathi kakuhle ngokukwazi ukushiya imeko engayithandiyo.
Sebenzisa isiluleko esihle
Abantwana abane-autism baphendule bhetele kwiindlela zobuchule ezijolise kwizinto ezintle . Zama ithuluzi elibonakalayo elinceda umntwana wakho adibanise nokuziphatha okulungileyo ngokufumana into ayifunayo, njengetshati yetikiti .
Khetha iimboti zomntu wakho ozithandayo, nokuba nguMickey Mouse okanye iqhawe lomsebenzi, kwaye umnike isitikithi esisodwa kwimihla ngemihla aziphatha ngayo kakuhle (unokunika izaziso kwiimisebenzi okanye ezinye izenzo). Xa efika kwinani elithile lamanqaku, ufumana into ayifunayo. Xa umntwana wakho enza ngendlela efanelekileyo, qiniseka ukumnika indumiso emininzi .
Ukuba uqala ukwenza izinto, mqondise kulokho ukhetha ukuba akwenze kunokuba akufanele akwenze. Umzekelo, ukuba uyadonsa umsila wenja, musa ukuthi "Yeka ukulimaza inja," kodwa kunoko "Yeka umsila wenja."
Fundisa Iindlela Zokuzikhukhumeza
Bonke abantwana bancibilike, kodwa kunokuba nzima ukuzinzisa umntwana nge-autism. Fundisa ubuchule bakhe bokuzikhusela obuya kuphunyezwa kwezi meko (oku kungase kusebenze ngcono kumntwana omdala kunomncinci ongenakukwazi ukulawula iimvakalelo zakhe okwamanje).
Mfundise ukuphefumula ngaphakathi nangaphandle ngempumlo, vala amehlo akhe uze ucinge into enomdla, njengekiti yakhe okanye ipaki eyithandayo, kwaye, ukuba wena okanye omnye umntu omdala othembekileyo ujikeleze, ukumbumbulula umntu omdala ade ahlale.
Hlangani
Ukuhlala ngokuqhubekayo kwezobugcisa kubalulekile kuzo zonke iintsapho, iimfuno ezizodwa okanye ezingekho. Nangona kunjalo, abo banenkathazo yokufunda, njengaleyo abane-autism, baphendule ngokufanelekileyo ukulungiswa koqeqesho. Kungenzeka kube yindlela ende yokufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba ungayilindela ntoni, kodwa baya kwenza ngcono kangako xa bekwazi ukuqikelela isiphumo seemeko.
Ukuba unabanye abantwana abangabikho kwibala le-autism, abanakho ukuqonda ukuba kutheni baqeqeshwa ngokwahlukileyo kunomzalwana okanye udade wabo. Ukucacisa ngokucacileyo kumntwana ukuba umntakwabo akafumani i-pass free to punish.
Kodwa qaphela ukuba uyamphatha ngendlela eyahlukileyo kodwa ngokufanelekileyo kuba abantu abahlukileyo.
Funa UluNcedo lwezakhono
Akunzima ukukhulisa umntwana nge-autism (okanye nayiphi na umntwana, ngenxa yolu hlobo!) Kodwa ukuziphatha kwabo kungaphathwa kakuhle ngeendlela ezilungileyo, ezintle. Gwema ukuqeqeshwa ngokomzimba , njengoko kufundisa umntwana ukuba ahlasele impendulo efanelekileyo kwiimeko ezimbi. Kunoko, mdumise umntwana wakho, mncedise ukuzola kwaye umthumelele kwiimeko ezingcono ukuze umgcine endleleni efanelekileyo yokuziphatha.
Funa uncedo lwezakhono xa kunokwenzeka. Zininzi iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zonyango kunye neenkonzo ezahlukeneyo ezikhoyo. Khangela abantu abaneengcali ekuncediseni abantwana abane-autism kwaye bafunde ngokubanzi njengoko unako malunga nezicwangciso eziza kuxhasa uphuhliso lwabantwana bakho.