ImiSebenzi emihle yokuBantwana

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Imisebenzi emihle yesidima

Akusoloko kulula ukubona izinto ezintle ebomini, ingakumbi kubantwana, kodwa ukuba nesimo sengqondo esilungileyo kunye nemibono ebomini ilungisa iingxaki zobomi lula. Ukubonisa abantwana bakho indlela yokuguqula isimo sengqondo esichaphazelekayo kunceda ekufundiseni ezinye izakhono zokubaluleka ezifunekayo ebomini bakhe.

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Yenza i-Attitude Acrostics

I-acrostic yindlela efanelekileyo yokunceda umntwana wakho abone ukuba zeziphi iimpawu eziqhelekileyo kubantu abaneempembelelo ezintle. Nantsi indlela yokusebenzisa enye:

1. Qala ngokunika umntwana wakho icwecwe lephepha uze umcele ukuba abhale igama elithi "isimo sengqondo" ngokubhekiselele kwicala lasekhohlo lephepha ngeencwadi ezinkulu.
2. Beka i-timer malunga nemizuzu emihlanu uze ucacise nomntwana wakho malunga nazo zonke iimpawu kunye neempawu ozibonayo kubantu abaneembono ezilungileyo ebomini. Kule nkalo, ungakhathazeki malunga nokuba ngaba iimpawu ziqala ngeencwadi ezifunyenwe kwigama elithi "Isimo sengqondo."
3. Emva koko, cela umntwana wakho ukuba akhumbule ezinye zezo mpawu aze azithethi ukuze zilungele kwi-acrostic. Umzekelo, iphepha lomntwana wakho lingathi:

Iindlela zokubona ezilungileyo kwimeko.

I- ries ukufumana izisombululo kwiingxaki.

Ixesha lokuziqonda izinto ezincinci.

Ndiyonwabile oko anakho.

Uxanduva lwezenzo zakhe.

Ujonganisa isidingo sokuphulaphula izimvo kunye neengcamango zabanye abantu.

Musa ukukhalaza kaninzi.

E njoys ubomi.

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Umsebenzi woMsebenzi wokuBala

Ukuthatha "i-inventory attitude" kufana nokuthatha inqolobane yevenkile okanye i-closet yomntwana wakho. Injongo kukubona oko kwaye akukho. Ukwahlukana kukuba "neengcinga zengqondo," ucela umntwana wakho ukuba athathe isitifiketi siphi impawu kwaye engekhoyo kubantu abaneentlobo ezithile zesimo sengqondo.

Nika umntwana wakho isiqephu sephepha kunye nepensela uze umbuze le mibuzo elandelayo, enye ngexesha. (Ukuba umntwana wakho akakwazi ukubhalela kakuhle, unokunyanzela iimpendulo zakho.)

1. Bhala igama lomntu ocinga ukuba unesimo esihle sengqondo. Ziziphi izikhokelo ezikuxelela ukuba lo mntu unesimo sengqondo esihle kwaye kutheni ucinga ukuba unjalo?
2. Bhala phantsi igama lomntu ocinga ukuba unesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo. Ziziphi iimpawu ezibonisa ukuba lo mntu unesimo sengqondo esibi?
3. Xa ucinga ngomntu onesimo sengqondo esingalunganga, zeziphi izinto okanye umntu ocinga ukuba ubeka umntu onjani?
4. Ngaba ucinga ukuba unokuba nesimo sengqondo esibi ngelinye ilanga kunye nelungileyo elilandelayo? Kutheni okanye kutheni? Ziziphi iimpembelelo?
5. Ngaba kufuneka ube nesimo sengqondo esibi ukuba izinto azihambi ngendlela okanye ucinga ukuba unokuba nesimo esihle sengqondo nangona kwenzeka izinto ezimbi? Cacisa ukuba kutheni ucinga yimpazamo.
6. Ngaba kukho izinto ebomini bakho ongathanda ukutshintsha ukukunceda ukuba ube nesimo sengqondo esiphezulu?
7. Ukuba izinto ezimbi zenzeke kuwe, ngaba zikhona izinto onokuzenza ukuze uhlale uncomekile? Ndixelele ngamanye ambalwa.

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I-Turn-It Around Around Attitude Activity

Njengoko umntwana wakho afunyanwe njengoko ephendule imibuzo kwi-Attitude Inventory, indlela ejonga ngayo okanye ephendulela kwizinto ingenza umehluko omkhulu kwisimo sakhe sengqondo.

Ukuba uthetha abanye abantu ngeengxaki zakhe, kuya kuba nzima ukuba nesimo esihle sengqondo ngezinto. Lo msebenzi wenzelwe ukumnceda afunde ezinye izakhono zokuzithethelela ukuze amncede abuyele izinto ukuze ancede ukuguqula isimo sakhe sengqondo.

1. Nika umntwana wakho esinye isiqendu sephepha uze umcele ukuba ayiphinde ibe sesithathu. Mcele ukuba abhale ezi zihloko zilandelayo zilandelayo kwiphepha eliphambili lephepha kunye neyesithathu kwiphepha elingemuva kwephepha: Isikolo, Abahlobo, Usapho, ikhaya, Ukuzimela, kunye neMisebenzi.

2. Khawubuze ukuba acinge ngeengxaki ezinokuba nazo kule ndawo. Xa sele enengcamango, makhe uluhlu kwikholomu efanelekileyo njengombuzo onokuthinteka. (Ngokomzekelo, "Ndingayifana njani ngakumbi nomzalwana wam?" Ngokuchasene no "Umntakwethu uyaqhubeka ethengisa.")

3. Emva kokuba ebhale iingxaki ezichaphazela isimo sakhe sengqondo, cela ukuba abuyele kwakhona (okanye aguqule isimo sakhe sengqondo ngokubanzi) ngokuzibuza:

• Ndivakalelwa njani ngale nto?
• Ngaba ndiyakonwabela ukuba nale ngxaki okanye ngaba ndifuna ukuyisombulula?
• Ngaba ndibekwa abanye abantu ngenxa yale ngxaki?
• Yintoni eya kwenzeka ngexesha elifutshane ukuba andisombululi le ngxaki? Kuthekani malunga nexesha elide?
• Ziziphi izinto ezincinane endizenzayo ukuze ndizame ukuxazulula le ngxaki?
• Ndifanele ndiyitshintshe njani isimo sam sengqondo sokusombulula ingxaki?
• Yintoni eya kwenzeka xa le ngxaki isisombululo?