Uqhawule umtshato iminyaka emininzi edlulileyo waza wavuma ukuhlawulwa kwemali yokuxhasa abantwana. Ngoku, ubuya kutshata kwakhona. Unokugqiba ekubeni nezingane ezininzi kunye neqabane lakho elitsha - okanye unokuba uthatha uxanduva lwemali kubantwana bakho abatsha. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ucinga nokufumana abantwana bakho abatsha bomtshato kwiminyaka engaphambili.
Ngaphantsi kwezo naziphi iimeko, kubalulekile ukwazi ngezibophelelo zakho zomthetho kunye nokukhetha.
Ezi zilandelayo ze-FAQ, ezihlelwe zizihloko, ziya kukunika indawo yokuqala. Uya kufuna ukulandelelana kweli nqaku ngokuphonononga imithetho yelizwe lakho, kwaye ke, ukuxubusha iinketho kunye neengcamango zakho kunye neqabane lakho elitsha.
Ukukhusela Imibuzo yabazali malunga nenkxaso yoMntwana kunye nokutshata kwakhona
Ukuba ndikhetha ukutshata kwakhona, ngaba abantwana bam bayafumana inkxaso engaphantsi kwabantwana?
Ukubonelela ngenkxaso yabantwana kukuxanduva lwabazali bokuzalwa kwabantwana. Ngoko ke, kwiinkoliso ezininzi, inkundla ayiyi kunciphisa iintlawulo zenkxaso-mali yabantwana ngenxa yesigqibo somzali sokugweba sokutshata kwakhona.
Umlingane wam omtsha ufuna ukumkela ngokomthetho abantwana bam. Ukuba ukutholwa komntwana kuhamba, ngaba abantwana bam bayaqhubeka befumana inkxaso yenkxaso evela kumntwana?
Uninzi lwamazwe aluyi kuvunyelwa ukuthotyelwa komzali ngaphandle kokuba umzali ongekho mthethweni uye walahla amalungelo akhe omzali, okungafanekiyo kwiimeko apho abazali abangabikho-nxaxheba babandakanyeka ngokunyanisekileyo kwimpilo yabantwana babo kwaye bahlawula inkxaso yabantwana.
Emva kokuba ndiphinde ndatshata, ngaba ndingakhetha ngokusemthethweni ukuba ndingamkeli inkxaso yabantwana egameni labantwana bam, ekubeni imali yethu engenayo iya kubanelisa?
Oku akucetyiswayo, ngenxa yakho okanye yakho yangaphambili. Kunoko, kufuneka uqikelele ukugcina imali kwisiCwangciso seCandelo 529 semfundo yabantwana bakho ukuba awuyidingi iindleko zemihla ngemihla.
Ukongeza, i-ex yakho kufuneka iqhubeke nokugcina iirekhodi ezicacileyo, ezichanekileyo zentlawulo nganye yenkxaso yomntwana eyenziwa kwimeko apho kukho nawuphi na umbuzo malunga nokuba uhlale ekhoyo kulezo ntlawulo.
Imibuzo engekho yoLondolozo lwemibuzo yabazali malunga nokuxhasa abantwana kunye nokutshata kwakhona
Umtsha wam esandula kutshata, kwaye yena nomlingane wakhe banemali eyaneleyo. Kutheni ndifanele ndiqhubeke nokuhlawula inkxaso yabantwana, xa benandipha ubomi obuphezulu kakhulu kunokuba mna?
Kufuneka uqhubeke nokuhlawula inkxaso yabantwana ngexesha kwaye ngokupheleleyo kuba ukwenza njalo kuyimbopheleleko yakho yomthetho. Ukuba usweleka ekuncedeni abantwana, urhulumente unakho ukuhlawulisa inzala kwimali engakhokhelwa kwaye unokukhetha ukuhlawula umvuzo wakho, wenqabe ukukhupha ipasipoti, uthinte umvuzo wokungahlawulwa kwemisebenzi kunye nokubuyiselwa kwemali yerhafu, kwaye unyanzelise ixesha lokubanjwa.
Ngoku ndihlawula ukuxhasa abantwana. Ukuba ndiya kukhetha ukutshata kwakhona, ngaba iinkundla zikulindele ukuba ndihlawule inkxaso engakumbi yabantwana kuba imali yethu engenayo iya kubakho ngaphezu kwemali endiyenzayo xa kusekwa inkxaso yabantwana?
Iikho. Iinkundla aziqwalasela ukubonelela ngenkxaso-mali yabantwana abasengaphambili ukuba babe ngumthwalo wamalungelo omtshato weqabane elitsha.
Ukuba ndiphinde ndatshata kwaye sinabantwana kunye, ngaba ndinokucela ukuguqulwa kwenkxaso yabantwana endiya kuhlawula ngoku?
Izizathu zokuguqulwa kweenkxaso zabantwana, kunye nefuthe labantwana abalandelayo emva kweentlawulo zokuxhasa abantwana, ziyahluka ngobuso.
Ukufumana ulwazi oluthe vetshe, bhekisa kwiikhokelo zenkxaso-mntwana yakho.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, iinkundla ziyanqika ukunciphisa inkxaso yabantwana kubantwana abakhona ngenxa yokuzalwa kwabantwana abalandelayo. Ukuba umzali angabonisa ukuba iindleko zekhaya jikelele zandile kakhulu, nangona kunjalo, okanye ukuba iholo lombopheli liye lahla kakhulu, inkundla inokuqwalasela ukuguqulwa kwengxaso yabantwana.
Ukulandela ukutshata kwakhona komzali, iilawutsha zokugcina abantwana aziguquki. Abazali abaye bacinga ukutshata kwakhona kufuneka badibane negalqwerensi malunga nemigqaliselo yezomthetho neyezimali yokudala intsapho edibeneyo, ngakumbi xa kukho iikhowudi zokuxhasa abantwana ngoku.