Emva kokuba abazali behluke, akuqhelekanga ukuba amanqanaba abo ngeniso ayitshintshe. Oku kuyinyani ngakumbi ukuba omnye umzali wayexhomekeke kwimali kwenye. Ukuba unesimo apho ufuna uncedo loluntu emva kokuqhawulwa kwemali yakho inkokhelo yokuxhasa umntwana iya kuvela. Ngaphambi kokuba unike izibonelelo, nayiphi na iofisi karhulumente iya kubuza malunga nokuba ufumana inkxaso yenkxaso evela kumama okanye uyise.
Ukuba akunjalo, baya kwenza yonke imizamo yokuqokelela inkxaso yabantwana esuka kumzali, ukuze bafumane ezinye iindleko eziza kuhlawulwa ngurhulumente. Ukongezelela, urhulumente uya kuphinda afune ukuhlawulwa ngokuthe ngqo kumzali ogama lakhe kwisitifiketi sokuzalwa, okanye kumntu ochongwe njengomnye umzali ngumntu ofuna uncedo lukaRhulumente.
Inzala kaRhulumente kwieNkxaso zoLuntu kwiNkxaso yoLuntu
Isizathu sokuba urhulumente uthatha indima ebalulekileyo ekuqinisekiseni ukuba iintlawulo zokuxhasa abantwana zenziwa ukukhusela umntwana kunye nomhlawuli werhafu. Ukuba umzali akanamsekeli umntwana, uxanduva luwela kurhulumente. Ngenxa yokuba inkxaso karhulumente isiseko esisekelwe kwingeniso, abazali abaninzi banokuba nexesha elinzima lokufaka uncedo loluntu xa umyalelo wokuxhasa umntwana usele. Oku akuthethi ukuba awukwazi ukufumana uncedo loluntu ukuba unemboleko yokuxhasa abantwana kodwa kuya kuqwalaselwa xa usebenza.
Izibonelelo zoluntu zibandakanya uncedo nge:
- Ukunyamekela
- Izitampu zokutya
- Uncedo lwe zemali
- Uncedo lwezindlu
Ukwahlula, iNkxaso yabantwana kunye noNcedo lwaBantu
Ukuba ngaba omnye umzali uxhomekeka ngokwemali komnye kodwa uzimisele ukuhlukana, banokuzama ukuzama ukufumana uncedo loluntu. Nangona kunjalo, ngaphandle komyalelo wokuhlukanisa ngokwenene, i-ofisi kaRhulumente ayiyi kugunyazisa inzuzo karhulumente.
Endaweni yoko, abazali baya kuqhubeka bejongwa njengabantu abaxhomekeke kuyo. Umzali, efuna uncedo lukaRhulumente, ongasayi kuqhawula umtshato, kufuneka afune isivumelwano sokuhlukanisa ngokwasemthethweni, afakwe enkundleni. Uya kufuneka isivumelwano sokuhlukana kunye nokubonelelwa ngenkxaso. Ungathatha oko kwi-ofisi yoncedo likarhulumente, kwaye banokukhupha imali yabo yenkxaso ngesivumelwano sokuxhasa abantwana. Kwisizwe ezininzi, isivumelwano sokuhlukanisa siya kudibanisa umyalelo womtshato emva konyaka omnye.
Abalingani abaSetyini kunye noXhaswa kwabantwana
Ngokuqhelekileyo, iinkundla ziyanqabela ukunyanzelisa uxanduva lomntwana kumzali ongenakho uxhumano lwezinto eziphilayo kumntwana. Nangona kunjalo, inyanzelekile ihlala iqabane lomntu oyedwa ukuba axhasane nomntwana, ngokuhlukana, ukuba ngabazali bavunyelwene ngokusemthethweni ukuba babe ngabazali-ntsebenziswano. Kule meko, inkundla iya kunyanzelisa iimbopheleleko zenkxaso yabantwana ngaphambi kokubonelela ngezibonelelo zikaRhulumente, okanye inkundla iya kufuna ukuhlawulwa kweenzuzo karhulumente okwenziwe okwenzela egameni lomntwana.
Ngaphambi kokufaka isicelo sonyango karhulumente, qiniseka ukuba kukho umyalelo ofanelekileyo wokuncedisa umntwana endaweni. Ukuba akukho, urhulumente uya kulindela ukuba ufake isicelo sokuxhasa abantwana okanye uza kuzama ukufumana ukuhlawulwa komnye umzali kwezinye iintlawulo zoncedo oluntu ezihlawulwe kuwe nomntwana wakho.