Fumana Uncedo kuRhulumente Wakho
Inkqubo yokuxhasa abantwana iklanyelwe ukubonelela abantwana ngenkxaso-mali abayidingayo ukuze baphumelele. Nangona kunjalo inkqubo iphosakele yaye ihlala ibeka ijehliso kubazali ukuba, ngokwenene, bayakwazi ukuhlawula. Nakhu okumele ukwenze xa wena uyamemeza "Uncedo! Andikwazi ukufumana iintlawulo zenkxaso zabantwana. Yintoni endiyenzayo?"
Uncedo lwabazali abangenakuphazamisa intlawulo yeNtlawulo yabantwana
Amajelo aseburhulumenteni anika ingqwalasela eninzi 'kubazali bokubulala.' Nangona kunjalo, akusiyo wonke umntu ongenako ukuhlawula ukuxhasa inkxaso yabantwana kukunqanda ukuxhasa abantwana ngaphandle kokungakhathaliseki okanye ukungahoywa .
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abazali abahluleki ukuhlawula abantwana ngenxa yokuba abanakho ukufumana iiprayimari. Ngokomzekelo, i-imeyile elandelayo ithunyelwe ngumama ongenakho ukuhlawula iintlawulo zenkxaso yabantwana ngexesha kwaye akaqinisekanga ukuba ungaphila.
Ndingumzali ohlawula umntwana ngomntwana omnye kunye nabantwana abathathu ekhaya ukuxhasa kunye nekholeji. Ngenxa yokuba ndihlala ngaphandle kwimeko, inkundla inqume ukuba ndihlawule kwaye ayizange ndiyicinge ngabanye abantwana bam.
Ngoku ndikhubazekile kwaye akukho mvuzo. Okwangoku, iintlawulo zenkxaso yabantwana zisele zilungele, nangona ndingenako ukusebenza. Ndingayenza njani ngeemali ezincinci okanye ezingekho nanye?
Angela W.
Ngelishwa, imeko yomama ayiqhelekanga. Ngokutsho kwe-US Census Bureau, abazali abangama-7,256,000 abaxhomekeke ekuxhaseni abantwana babenelungelo lokuxhasa abantwana. Nangona kunjalo, ama-3,290,000 kuphela (okanye i-45.3%) afumana imali epheleleyo. Oko kuthetha ukuba baninzi, abazali abangabikho-cala abangakwazi ukuhlawula inkxaso yabo yokuxhasa abantwana ngokupheleleyo.
Kwiimeko ezifana neyakho, kunesizathu esivumelekileyo esicacisayo sokufuna ukuhlaziywa kwakhona komyalelo wokuxhasa umntwana.
Yintoni Okufanele Uyenze?
Okokuqala, qha ga mshelana neHhovisi lokuQinisekisa iNkxaso yabantwana kwimeko apho umyalelo wokuncedisa umntwana ukhishwe. Into oya kuyidinga ukuyifaka ifayile yesicelo esisesikweni sokucela ukuguqulwa ngenxa yeemeko eziguqukileyo.
Ngoba?
Isixa sokuxhaswa kwabantwana ohlawulwayo sasimiselwe ngokusemthethweni usebenzisa ingeniso yakho kunye neengxelo zezemali ezinikezelwe ngelo xesha. Nangona kunjalo, njengoko siyazi, iimeko zitshintsha. Enyanisweni, oku kuya kwenzeka ezininzi kwiiminyaka ohlawula ngayo inkxaso yenkxaso yabantwana.
Gcina ukhumbule ukuba kungcono ukucela ukuguqulwa ngenxa yeemeko ezitshintshileyo kunokungaphumeleli ukuhlawula ukuxhasa abantwana.
Ziziphi Iimeko Ezingatshintshiyo?
Umzali angacela ukuguqulwa ngenxa yeemeko eziguqukileyo. Imizekelo yeemeko ezinokubangela ukuba utshintsho kumyalelo wokuxhasa umntwana luquka:
- Utshintsho kwi ngeniso
- Ukungasebenzi
- Iindleko zonyango
- Iindleko ezongezelelweyo ezinxulumene nokukhulisa umntwana njengoko ekhula
Yintoni Enye Okufuneka Uyazi?
Nceda uqaphele ukuba kubalulekile, ukukhusela kwakho, ukuba umyalelo uguqule ngokusesikweni inkundla. Gwema ukungena kwesivumelwano somlomo esingabophayo, esingaze sakwazi ukubonwa yizinkundla ngexesha lempikiswano ezayo malunga nemali efunekayo.