Ngokuqhelekileyo, xa umntwana efikelela kwiminyaka yobudala - abaneminyaka eyi-18, okanye i-21 kwezinye iimeko-umntwana uthathwa njengomkhululo, oku kuthetha ukuba umzali akasenaso uxanduva lokubonelela ngenkxaso yomntwana. Nangona kunjalo, kukho amaxesha apho umntwana ekhululwa ngaphambi kokuba uninzi lwexesha. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, abazali banokuzibuza ukuba ukukhululwa komntwana kuchaphazela njani iintlawulo zokuxhasa abantwana.
Nazi ezinye iinkcukacha malunga nento eyenzeka kwiintlawulo zenkxaso yabantwana xa umntwana ekhululwa:
Izizathu Zokuba Umntwana Wayeza Kuba Emancipated
Ukunyuka komntwana kumntwana kwenzeka xa umntwana ekhululiwe ekunyamekelweni komzali. Okubalulekileyo, umzali akasenalo uxanduva lomntwana. Umntwana unakho ukuzikhulula kuye nayiphi na yezi zizathu zilandelayo:
- Umtshato
- Inkonzo yezelizwe
- Ukugqitywa ngokupheleleyo kwekhaya
- Ukuzimela kwezoqoqosho
Ngethuba nje umntwana esele egcinwe kwaye egcinwe ngumzali, kulungile ukuthetha ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba umntwana akhululwe. Ngoko ke, abazali banembopheleleko yokuqhubeka nokuxhasa umntwana kude kube ngumntwana ofikelela kwinani labaninzi. Imbopheleleko yomzali yokuqhubeka nokubonelela ngeentlawulo zokuxhasa abantwana iya kuqhubeka ide umntwana afikelele kwinani labaninzi.
Iintlawulo Zenkxaso Yomntwana Ngaphandle Kwemimandla
Kungenzeka ukuba abazali banyanzelekile ukuba baqhubeke neentlawulo zenkxaso zabantwana ngaphaya kweminyaka yobudala.
INkundla inokuyala umzali ukuba aqhube iintlawulo zokuxhasa abantwana ngaphandle kokukhululwa kwezi zizathu zilandelayo:
- Izidingo ezizodwa zomntwana: INkundla inokuyalela umzali ukuba aqhube iintlawulo zokuxhasa umntwana omdala eneemfuno ezizodwa.
- Umtshato womntwana omncinci: Nangona umntwana angatshata, ezinye iinkundla zifumene ukuba ukuba umtshato uqhawule kwaye ufuna ukunakekelwa nokugcinwa, umntwana usenokuba nelungelo lokuncedisa umntwana.
Ukupheliswa kweNtlawulo yeNtlawulo yabantwana
Iintlawulo zokuxhasa abantwana azipheli ngokuzenzekelayo emva kokuba umntwana ekhululwe. Umxhasi wexhaswa ngumntwana uya kufuneka acele iintlawulo zokuxhasa abantwana ukuba zipheliswe emva kokuba umntwana afinyelele kwiminyaka yesininzi okanye umntwana omncinci uyakhululwa. Ukufumana ulwazi oluthe xaxa malunga neentlawulo zokuxhasa abantwana xa umntwana ekhululwa, thetha nommeli oqeqeshiweyo kwimeko yakho.