Ukufakela ukuxhasa abantwana kufuneka kube yinkqubo elula, ecacileyo. Kodwa kukho okungakumbi kunokuba uzalise iphepha. Funda into ebandakanyekayo, kwaye yintoni omele ulindele ukususela ngexesha ugqiba ukufaka ifayile yokuxhasa umntwana umntwana wakho:
UkuFakela iNkxaso yabantwana
Okokuqala, kuyakufuneka uqhagamshelane ne-Ofisi yakho yoLondolozo lweNkxaso yoMntwana. Baza kusebenza kunye nawe ngomnye ukuseka nokunyanzelisa umyalelo wokuxhasa umntwana.
Izinto zokuQala kuqala
Ukuba awuzange utshate kumntana wakho, kwaye awuzange utshate nomnye umntu ngexesha lokukhulelwa, into yokuqala okufuneka ukuba i-OCSE iyenze ukuyifumanisa. Kwezinye iimeko, oku kungathetha ukulandelela komnye umzali ukuze kwenziwe uvavanyo lwezofuzo. (Kwimeko apho uthe watshata nomnye umntu malunga nexesha elithile umntwana wakho ekhulelwe, ngoko kuxhomekeke kwindawo ohlala kuyo, urhulumente angacinga ukuba umlingane wakho nguyise wezinto eziphilayo. ) U
Ukuba Awazi ukuba Uphi na uYise
Ukuba uyazi ukuba ngubani uyise, kodwa awuqinisekanga ukuba uhlala phi ngoku, urhulumente uya kunceda ukumlandela. I-Ofisi yakho yaseKhaya yokuQinisekisa kweNkxaso yabantwana iza kukucela ukuba unikezele ngolwazi malunga neyona dilesi yakutshanje okanye indawo yomsebenzi. Ukongeza, i-Federal Parent Locator Service (i-FPLS), icandelo le-Office of Child Support Force, liza kusebenzisa ulwazi olunikezwa yiNational Directory of New Hires (NDNH), i-State Directories ze-Hires ezintsha (i-SDNHs), kunye ne-State Employment Security Ii-Agencies (i-SESAs) ukuzama ukumfumana.
Kufanelekile ukukhankanya kwakhona, ukuba akusoloko kuyise; kukho ininzi yamatyala apho urhulumente ufuna ukufumana umama we-biological ukuze akhonze umyalelo wokuxhasa abantwana.
Iindleko kunye neMirhumo ehambelana nokuFakela iNkxaso yeNtwana
Ukuba ngoku ufumana Uncedo lwexeshana lweeNtlupheko eziThathaka (TANF) okanye iMedicaid, awuyi kuhlawulwa intlawulo.
Ukuba awufumani uncedo kula ma-arhente, unokuhlawuliswa umrhumo we-$ 25 ukufaka isicelo ngeenkonzo nge-Office of Child Support Force.
Yilungele ukulinda
Ekuqaleni, uzakusekwa kunye nomntu osesikweni oza kuhamba nawe kwinkqubo yokuseka ubuntwaba, ukufumana umyalelo wokuxhasa umntwana, kwaye ekugqibeleni ufumane iintlawulo zenkxaso yabantwana. Kwamanye amazwe, abazali bafumana ukuhlolwa kweendabuko ngeposi. Kodwa nangaphezulu, sibona amazantsi athatha iintlawulo zokuxhasa abantwana ngeekhadi ezikhethiweyo zemali. Kodwa makuxwayiswe: inkqubo yokufakela inkxaso yenkxaso yabantwana, ukususela ekuqaleni ukuya ekupheleni, ide. Ngeke ufumane iintlawulo ngobusuku obubodwa, kwaye ungeke ubone neentlawulo kule nyanga okanye kulekota. Ngokuqhelekileyo yinkqubo ende, ikhutshwe ngenxa yokuba kukho i-arhente ehlukeneyo echaphazelekayo.
Amalungelo okuNcedisa abantwana kunye noTyelelo
Qaphela: ukufakela inkxaso yenkxaso yomntwana kuvulwa umnyango ekuhambelweni rhoqo ngumzali nomntwana ekubeni uvuma ngokusemthethweni ukuba uyingxenye yenkqubo. Nangona kunjalo, loo nto ayinokuba yinto embi! Nangona u-ex wakho wayengumlingane ompofu, unokukhula abe ngumzali onomdla kwaye ozinikeleyo. Yaye ukhumbule: ukutyelela kunye nokuxhasa abantwana kuyimiba eyahlukileyo emehlweni enkundla.
Ngoko nje ngenxa yokuba ufaka ukuxhaswa kwabantwana, oko akuthethi ukuba u-ex wakho uya kunikwa ukuvakasha.