Ingaba ihamba ngeposi, i-imeyile, okanye i-media media, nakhu iziphakamiso zesibhengezo
I-Etiquette mhlawumbi yinto yezinto zokugqibela engqondweni yakho ukuba ufumene ukukhulelwa kwesisu , ukuzalwa komntwana okanye ukulahlekelwa ngumntwana . Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuzikhathalela ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwemvakalelo kufuneka kube yinto ephambili kakhulu ngoku ngoku. Kodwa kunokufika ixesha ogqibayo ukuthumela isimemezelo malunga nokulahlekelwa kwakho kubahlobo kunye nosapho.
Apha uya kufumana amagama athile acetywayo malunga nokulahlekelwa kwezivakalisi ezininzi.
Ukumemezela Ukutshatyalaliswa Kokutshatyalaliswa Kwangaphandle okanye i-Stillbirth nge-Imeyile okanye i-imeyile
Ukuba usuxelele abantu abakhulelweyo, kunokulula ukuthumela isimemezelo , mhlawumbi ngeposi okanye nge-imeyile ukuze wonke umntu azi ngokukhawuleza ukuba ulahlekile.
Ngezantsi uzakufumana iziphakamiso zokushumayela ilahleko yakho. Nangona ngalinye lilungelelanisa uhlobo oluthile lokulahleka, ngamnye unokulungelelanisa iimfuno zeentsapho zakho.
- Sibonisa imbeko inkumbulo yonyana / ntombi yethu, (igama)
Uzalwe: umhla kunye nexesha
Wafa: usuku kunye nexesha - Ngentliziyo enzima sichaza ukuba asisalindele umntwana. Indodana / intombi yethu yalahlekelwa ukutshatyalaliswa komzimba (ngomhla). Ndiyabonga ngokunyamekela nenkxaso yakho ngeli xesha elinzima.
- Ndiyabulela yonke into enqwenela ngayo ngokukhulelwa kwam. Ndiyabuhlungu gqitha kukuxelela ukuba ndilahlekile. Kuya kuba nenkonzo encinci yesikhumbuzo ngomhla (kwindawo) kwindawo (kwindawo). Sithanda ukuthatha wena kunye nathi njengoko sihlonipha inkumbulo yethu.
- Sasifune umntwana, kodwa uThixo wasinika isithunywa endaweni. Igama lethu eliyigugu (igama) labizelwa ezulwini (umhla). Siyabonga ngemithandazo yakho kunye nenkxaso.
Sithanda ukuvakalisa ukuzalwa nokufa kwendodana / intombi yethu emnandi (igama), ngomhla (ngomhla). Wayengumntwana omhle, opheleleyo oza kuhlala ehlala ezintliziyweni zethu. Siyathuthuzela ukwazi (igama) ngoku usijongayo ukusuka ngaphaya.
Nceda ukhululeke ukuthetha nathi malunga (negama), ngubani esifuna ukumkhumbula njengomntwana esiyithandayo, kungekhona imfihlo yokugcinwa cwaka. Siyazi ukuba iintliziyo zethu ziza kuthatha ixesha lokuphilisa kwaye siyawuxabisa ukunyamekela nenkxaso yakho entlungu.
Ukwenza iSaziso kwiMidiya yeNtlalo
Ukuba ungumhlobo womntu onobomi obanzi bentlalo kwiintanethi zentlalo ezifana ne-Facebook, Twitter, okanye nakwibloki yakho, unokuthi uye wavakalisa ukukhulelwa kwakho kumakhulu abantu. Ukuze ugweme ngenjongo enomdla, kodwa imibuzo enokulimaza malunga nokukhulelwa kwakho kwiiveki kunye neenyanga ezizayo, ungafuna ukuthumela isimemezelo malunga nokulahleka kwakho kwiintanethi ezifanayo. Nawaphi na amacebiso angentla angasebenza. Kwaye akukho mfuneko yokuba uphendule kunoma ubani ukuba ungazivakalelwa, ngokwenene, kungcono ukuba uthumele isimemezelo sakho uze uthathe iintsuku ezimbalwa kwi-Facebook ukuze ungadangali.
Indlela Yokusingatha Ukubulela Amakhadi Eziphoso Zokuhlawula
Kwimeko yokulahleka kwexesha elide, ngokukodwa ixesha elide okanye ixesha lokuzalwa, mhlawumbi usenokuba nesisana somntwana. Unokumisela i-nursery ngezipho ozifumanayo. Mhlawumbi awunalo ithuba lokuthumela amakhadi enkosi ngaphambi kokuba uhlaselwe yintlekele. Ngaba ufanele uyithumele ngoku? Abantu ngokuqinisekileyo baya kuba nokuqonda ukuba awukwazi. Nangona kunjalo, kusenokuba nethuba lokuxelela iindaba malunga nosana lwakho kwaye uvakalise izizathu zakho ngezipho zakho zokugeza.
Nantsi isampula inqaku lokubulela:
- Usenokuba uvile ukuba unyana / intombi yethu, (igama) idlule. Siyanibulela ngesipho sakho esivulekileyo sokutshiza umntwana wakhe. Sifuna ukuba wazi ukuba sizimisele ukugcina izipho kulindele umntwana wethu ozayo. Siyayixabisa uthando lwakho nenkxaso ngeli xesha elibuhlungu.
- Sifuna ukukubulela ngesipho sakho esivulekile kumntwana wethu, (igama), owadlula ngomhla (umhla). Kuthetha kakhulu ukuba sikhumbule uthando kunye nenkxaso yabahlobo kunye nosapho lwethu ngeli xesha lokudabuka. Siya kuvuyela ukubuyisela isipho sakho kuwe ukuba unqwenela okanye uyinikela kwimemori yakhe kuye (igama) inceba.
Ezinye iziphakamiso zokukwabelana ngokulahlekelwa kwakho
- Ukuquka ifoto okanye isinyawo ukusuka kwintsana yakho inokunceda abathandekayo bakho badibanise nomntwana wakho njengomntu.
- Ungazivumi ukunyanzelwa yiyiphi na iphakamiso kule khasi. Ukuba ukhetha into engavamile, kholosa izilwanyana zakho.
- Ukuba ukhangele isaziso esandulela ngaphambili, ungadumala ngokukhetha okwenzelwe izivakalisi zokuzalwa. Ikhadi lokubhala elingenanto okanye nokuba limile ukusuka kwisebe lomtshato linokujonga kakuhle indlela ozifunayo.
Ukukwabelana ngelahleko yakho kunokunceda abanye abafazi ebomini bakho bazive bekhululekile ukuthetha malunga nokulahlekelwa kwabo, kwaye akukho nto ithatha indawo yenkxaso yomntu oye wafumana intlekele efanayo. Kodwa ekugqibeleni, kukuya kuwe ukunquma indlela yokusingatha ukulila kwakho. Akukho ndlela yokuyisebenzisa, kwaye akukho mntu unokukuxelela ukuba kukho na imigaqo omele uyilandele. Yenza into evakalelwa kuwe.