Ukufumana into efanelekileyo yokuthetha emva kokulahleka kokukhulelwa kunzima
Ukuba umntu oyithandayo uye wafumana ukulahleka kokukhulelwa okanye ukuphuphuma kwesisu, kunokuba nzima ukucinga into efanelekileyo yokuthetha. Umntu omnye kwiintsapho ezintsapho ezihlanu uzakufumana ukuphuphuma kwesisu ekuhambeni kwabo ukuqala intsapho. Nangona ukulahleka kwamathambo kuqhelekileyo, abantu abaninzi abafumana ukulahlekelwa kokukhulelwa bakuthola kunzima ukuqhuba ilahleko yabo kunye nokuvuleleka kwintsapho kunye nabahlobo.
Ukuba ufumene ukuphuphuma kwesisu, unokuba uzive uninzi lweemvakalelo ezenza kube nzima ukuchaza ukulahlekelwa kwakho kulabo obathandayo. Ukuba usondelene nomntu osandul 'ukutshabalalisa, kukho iindlela ezininzi ongabonisa ngayo inkxaso yakho engadingi ukuthetha ngokukhulelwa kwabo. Ezinye iindlela onokumxhasa umhlobo wakho ziquka:
- Ukuphulaphula: Ukunikezela ukuboleka indlebe xa bekulungele ukuthetha.
- Ukuncedisa ngemisebenzi ebuhlungu: Ukuba umhlobo wakho okanye ilungu lentsapho linokuphuphuma kwesisu ngokukhawuleza, banokuba nobuninzi bempahla yabantwana abangenakufuna. Unokunikela ukuba ubambelele kulezi zinto uze ulungele, babuyisele, okanye ubakele kwiintsapho ezidinga.
- Ukuhambelana nabo ngaphandle kwendlu: Xa usizi, kunzima ukushiya indlu. Ukunikela ukuba uthathe umthandi wakho kwaye ubaxelele ukuba uya kuba khona ukuba badinga isandla okanye ihlombe ukukhala.
Ukuba ufuna amagama angakunceda ukuba ube nengqiqo yokulahleka kwakho, okanye unethemba lokufumana into elungileyo ukuba uthethe kumntu osithandayo olahlekelwe ukukhulelwa , nantsi ezinye iingcaphuno malunga nokulahlekelwa okunokukunceda ukuba uchaze indlela Uziva okanye ufuna ukuthetha ntoni.
Iingcaphuno ezihlobene nokulahleka
"Kwaye xa ubusuku bufufayo, kusekhona ukukhanya okukhanyayo kum. Khanyisa kude kube ngomso, makube njalo."
-Ayinabhithi
Umntu wonke kufuneka ashiye into emva xa efa, utata wam uthi: Umntwana okanye incwadi okanye umzobo okanye indlu okanye udonga olwakhiwe okanye iindidi zezicathulo ezenziwe. ufa, kwaye xa abantu bebukela kuloo mthi okanye ukuba intyatyambo oyinyakileyo, ukhona.
Akunandaba nento oyenzayo, ngokude utshintshe into esuka kwindlela eyayiyilungileyo ngaphambi kokuba uyichukumise into into efana nawe emva kokuba uthathe izandla zakho kude. "
-Ray Bradbury, Fahrenheit 451
"Ndiyithwala intliziyo yakho kunye nam (ndiyithwale entliziyweni yam) andiyikho."
-izicatshulwa
"Ukunyanga nantoni na ityuwa ngamanzi: isithukuthezi, iinyembezi okanye ulwandle."
-Isak Dinesen
"Ukuba ndilahlekelwe ngumlenze, ndiya kubaxelela, endaweni yenkwenkwe, akukho mntu wange wandibuza ukuba ngaba ndidlule." Bandibuza ukuba ndifunda njani ukuhamba ngaphandle komlenze wam. ukuhamba nokuphefumula nokuhlala ngaphandle kweWade. Kwaye oko ndandifunda kukuba kwakungeze kube yinto ebomini ebengaphambili. "
- Elizabeth Edwards
"Thina siyamthanda umntu, nangona baya kufa." Siyaqhubeka sibathanda, nangona bengekho ukuba bathande. "
- Anne Enright
"Ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukubona u-rainbow xa kukho iintsuku ezingapheliyo zemvula."
-Kristina Greer
"Izinto ezintle kunye nezona zinto zintle kwihlabathi azikwazi ukubonwa, zingachukumisi, kodwa zivakalelwa entliziyweni."
- uHelen Keller
Ukutshatyalaliswa kwesisu kungumcimbi wendalo kunye oqhelekileyo.Konke oku xelelwe, mhlawumbi abaninzi abafazi baye balahlekelwa ngumntwana kweli hlabathi kunokuba bengenalo. Abaninzi abakuthethayo, kwaye bayaqhubeka imihla ngemihla ngokungathi kwakungenzekanga , ngoko abantu bacinga ukuba umfazi kule meko wayengazange azi okanye ayithande oko wayenayo.
Kodwa umcele ngexesha elithile: umntwana wakho ubudala kangakanani? Yaye uyazi. "
-Barbara Kingsolver
"Akukho nto ihleliyo, kodwa zonke izinto zihamba.
Isiqhekeko kwiingxube-zixhobo-ezi zinto zikhula
Kuze sisazi kwaye sibize. Ngamazinga
Ziyancibilika kwaye azikho izinto esaziyo. "
-Lucretius
"Ngamanye amaxesha izinto ezincinci zithatha igumbi elincinane entliziyweni yakho."
-AA Milne
"Ngesinye isikhathi ebomini, umntu kufuneka avunyelwe ukuba nobumnandi obufana nokufunwa nokubamba."
-Judith Olney
"Hlehlisa, buyisele, wenze imihla yonke yangaphambili, ndide ndibuyele kumhla ngaphambi kokuba ndihambe.
Okanye undibeke kwindiza ehamba ngasentshonalanga, uwela idilesi yedatha, ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ukulahlekelwa ngolo suku, ngoko ke, de kube usuku lokulahleka luza kusasa, kwaye ulapha, endaweni yokudabuka. "
-Nessa Rapaport
"Njengokuba udansa ngokukhanya ngovuyo, uthando lukuphakamisa.
-Comp Ring
"Ngenye yeenkwenkwezi, ndiza kuphila. + Ngomnye wabo, ndiya kuhleka. + Ngoko kuya kuba ngathi zonke iinkwenkwezi zihleka xa ukhangela isibhakabhaka ebusuku. kuya kuba neenkwenkwezi ezihlekayo! "
- Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
"Endaweni owawuhlala kuyo, kukho umgodi ehlabathini, endikufumana ndihamba rhoqo emini, ndize ndihambe ebusuku.
- Edna St. Vincent Millay
Kuphela, uhambo alupheli apha .. Ukufa kungomnye umzila ... omnye sonke simele sithathe. .Ummandla omhlophe ... nangaphezulu, ilizwe eliluhlaza kakhulu phantsi kwelanga elikhawulezayo. "
- JRR Tolkien
"Ukuba ukukhanya okwenziwe ngokukhanya kukhanya
kuphethwe ngonaphakade phambi kwam
akukho nto inokubuyisela iyure
ubuqaqawuli ebusini, ubuqaqawuli enentyantyambo
Andiyi kuba lusizi kodwa ndifumana amandla kwizinto eziseleyo emva "
- William Wordsworth
IBhayibhile yeBhayibhile malunga nokulahleka
"Banoyolo abo balilayo, kuba baya kududuza."
Mateyu 5: 4
"Ngoko akuyikuthanda kukaYihlo osezulwini ukuba omnye walaba bantwana alahleke."
Mateyu 18:14
"Kuba iphi na ubuncwane bakho, intliziyo yakho iya kuba nayo."
Luka 12:13
"... uyigugu emehlweni am, kwaye uyamhlonela, kwaye ndikuthanda."
Isaya 43: 4
Uthando lubeke zonke izinto, lukholelwa zonke izinto, luthemba zonke izinto, lukhuthazelela zonke izinto. Uthando alupheli. "
1 kwabaseKorinte 13: 7-8
"Ndiya kuthumela ingelosi phambi kwakho, kukulondoloza endleleni kwaye ndikuzise kwindawo endilungisile."
Eksodus 23:20
"Masize kubantwana bam, ningabamiseli, kuba abo banjengobani ubukumkani bamazulu."
Mateyu 19:14
"Uya kusula zonke iinyembezi emehlweni abo. Ukufa akusayi kuphinda kubakho ukulila nokukhala kunye nentlungu."
ISityhilelo 21: 4
Ngethuba elincinane, anizange nindibone; nanjalo, nifutshane, nibone, ngokuba ndiya kuBawo.
Yohane 16:16
"Ngokuba uthando luqine njengokufa."
Ingoma kaSolomon 8: 6