Uqaphele ukunyaniseka kwePaternity kunye neMiphumo
I-misattributed paternity iyingozi kubantu abaye bachitha iminyaka bekholelwa ukuba baxhomekeke kwi-biological child, kuphela emva koko bafunde ukuba bahlulelani no-DNA. Eyaziwa nangokuthi ubuqhetseba obusenyongweni, amaxhoba angabonakaliyo abaxhamlileyo badla ngokuzibuza, "Ngaba ndiyakwazi ukuhlawulelwa ngenxa yokuncedisa abantwana?" Makhe sihlolisise ngakumbi malunga nale nto: yintoni, yintoni eyenzekayo, kwaye yintoni na amaxhoba obuqhetseba obunokwenza.
Ziyintoni i-Paternity Fraud?
Ubuqhetseba obunobuntwini buba khona xa umama engenzi kakuhle umntu njengoyise we-biological yomntwana wakhe. Kwezinye iimeko, unina uyazi kakuhle ukuba le ndoda ayixhomekeke kwi-biologically kumntwana; Kwezinye iimeko, ucinga nje ukuba umntwana wakhe akaxhomekanga ngokoqobo kumzali ogama lakhe kwisitifiketi sokuzalwa.
Ukukhwabanisa Kwimiba Yenzani?
Ngokuqhelekileyo ukukhwabanisa kwenzeni xa umntu eceliwe ukuba asayine i-afidavithi yentsapho yomntwana engabelane naye noxhumano lwe-biological. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kwiimeko ezinjalo, ngumama obongoza umntu ukuba asayine ifomethi okanye ifomu yesitifiketi sokuzalwa. Umbandela uba nzima xa uhulumeni esebenzisa i-afidavithi okanye isatifikethi sokuzalwa njengobungqina bentombi kwimeko yokuxhasa abantwana, endaweni yokumisela ukuhlolwa kwe-DNA yangempela ngaphambi kokunika inkxaso inkxaso yabantwana.
Kwamanye amazwe, ubuqhetseba obusondelene nabo buyenzeka ngenkqubo eyaziwa ngokuthi "ukunyanzelwa kobuntwaba." Oku kwenzeka xa umntu etyunjwe nguRhulumente njengoyise womntwana wobomi ngenxa yokuba yena kunye nonina babetshatile ngexesha lokuzalwa komntwana okanye ukuzala.
Umthetho wangempela kwezinye iindawo, ukunyanzelwa kobunikazi kubangela ukuba amadoda athile ahlawule inkxaso yabantwana egameni labantwana abangaxhomekeke kuwo-ngamanye amaxesha, nangona ixesha elide emva kokuba kubonakale i-paternity.
Ubuqhetseba obusenyameni buveziwe
Ubuqhetseba obuninzi buhlala bengafunyanwa iminyaka. Ngamanye amaxesha kuvela ekukhanyeni emva kokuba iirekhodi zezokwelapha zibonisa ukuba umntwana akanakunxulumana nendoda ebizwa ngokuba nguyise oyimvelo.
Kwiimeko apho ubuqhetseba obusondelene nabo bubangele ukuhlawulwa kwentlawulo yabantwana, inkundla ishiywe ukugqiba ukuba ngaba ezo ntlawulo zifanele ziqhubeke. Nangona kubonakala, emkhatsini, ukuba impendulo ecacileyo "ayikho," ugxininiso lwentendelezo luhlala lubaluleke kakhulu kumntwana. Ngaloo ndlela, banakho:
- Ukuyeka ukuhlawulwa kwentlawulo yabantwana, okanye
- Myalelo wokuqhubekeka kweentlawulo zokuxhasa abantwana
Ukuqhubeka kweNkxaso yabantwana kwiiNkundla zoBuqhetseba
INkundla inokuyala umba ongekho umzali we-biological womntwana ukuqhubeka nentlawulo yokuxhasa abantwana ngenxa yokuba:
- Utata uxhasa umntwana ixesha elide kwaye wenza njengoyise womntwana, kunye / okanye
- Umntwana usafuna ukuxhaswa-kwaye inkundla ikholelwa ukuba umntwana unokufuna uncedo luka rhu lumente ukuba iintlawulo zokuxhasa abantwana ziphelile, kunye / okanye
- Iintlawulo zokuxhasa abantwana eziqhubekayo zenza izinto ezinomdla kumntwana
Uncedo lwabaxhoba beNkohlakalo yokuPhatha
Oobawo abamaxhoba obuqhetseba basemakhaya kufuneka bazame ukufumana inyathelo kwinkundla yomphakathi ukuqokelela imali yokuxhasa abantwana evela kumama wengane. Nangona kunjalo, ukubuyiselwa imali ngokuqhelekileyo kuthathwa njengesibheno eside.
Iziphumo zomntu otyholwa ngumzali weNkohlakalo yokuThwala
Ngelishwa, akukho miphumo kubomama abenza ubuqhetseba obusenyongweni.
Ubuqhetseba obusenyongweni abubhekiweyo njengolwaphulo-mthetho olujeziswayo, kwaye kunzima kakhulu ukuqokelela okanye ukukhumbula imali evela kumama osolwa ngokukhwabanisa.
Iingcebiso ezongezelelweyo
Naliphi na umzali osola ukuba umzali wakhe oyintsebenziswano wenza ubuqhetseba obusenyongweni kufuneka afune ukuhlolwa kweDNA ngokukhawuleza. Abazali befuna ulwazi oluthe xaxa malunga nenkxaso yabantwana kufuneka babhekiselele kwizikhokelo zenkxaso-mali yabantwana kwilizwe labo. Okubaluleke kakhulu, abazali bafanele bathethe nommeli oqeqeshelwe ukulungisa ukukhwabanisa kwabantwana kunye nokufumana ukubuyisela ukuxhaswa kwabantwana abadlulileyo.
Ulungiswe nguJennifer Wolf.