Abazali abanomzabalazo wokuhlawula ukuxhasa abantwana-okanye abo bahlawulwa ngokukodwa imali yokuxhasa abantwana-ngokuqhelekileyo banemibuzo efanelekileyo malunga neenkqubo zokuguqula abantwana. Umzekelo, unokuzibuza: Ingaba inkxaso yezingane ingaguqulwa? Ukuba kunjalo, njani? Yaye phantsi kweemeko zini? Ingaba umbuzo umzali oyifunayo? Ukuba uhlaselwa yile mibuzo yemibuzo, nantsi ingcaciso yokuguqulwa kolwazi olufunekayo kumntwana oyifunayo.
Nini ukucela Ulungiso lweNkxaso yoMntwana
Ngokuqhelekileyo, inkundla iza kuthathela ingqalelo ukuguqulwa kwenkxaso yabantwana xa kukho utshintsho olunzulu kwiholo okanye umfuno womntwana. Ukuba ungumzali omele uxhaswe ngumntwana, unokuthi uthathwa njengelungele ukulungiswa komntwana emva kokulahleka komsebenzi okanye utshintsho kwingeniso. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuba ungumzali ofumana ukuxhaswa kwabantwana egameni lomntwana wakho, unokufanelekela ukulungiswa komntwana xa iindleko zemfundo yengane okanye iindleko zonyango eziqhelekileyo zenyuka kakhulu kwiinyanga ezinje.
Cetyiswa, nangona kunjalo, abanye bathi babeka umda malunga nokuba baya kuphinda baqwalasele njani iimbasa zokuxhasa abantwana. Ngokomzekelo, banokuphinda bahlolisise izicelo zokuguqulwa kwimeko nganye kwiinyanga ezingama-24. Ngoko ukuba zilungelelanise inkxaso yakho yenkxaso-mali yabantwana kwinyanga ezili-18 edlulileyo, oko kuya kuthetha ukuba kufuneka ulinde ezinye iinyanga ezintandathu ngaphambi kokuhambisa isicelo sakho sokuguqula.
Iingcebiso zoKhusela abazali
Ukuba ungumzali okhuselekileyo, kufuneka ucele ukulungiswa kwenkxaso yomntwana kuphela xa ukholelwa ukuba iholo lakho lemali liye landa kakhulu njengoko umyalelo wawusungulwe okanye kukho ukwanda okukhulu kwiimfuno zezemali zomntwana (umzekelo, ngenxa imeko yonyango okanye ezinye iimeko ezingalindelekanga).
Qaphela ukuba ungaceli ukuguqulwa kwenkxaso yabantwana ngezizathu ezinokuthi inkundla inokuyithatha ingabalulekanga, ngakumbi ukuba ulawulo lwakho lunqanda ukuvavanya kovavanyo lokuguqulwa. Awufuni ukuvuthela isicelo sokuguqulwa kweminyaka emithathu-yesithathu kwimali yakho yokuchitha imali yokuhlala iphakamisa kuphela ukufumana iinyanga ezilishumi elinesibini phantsi kweendlela zemfundo yomntwana okanye iindleko zonyango ezingenakulindeleka.
Iingcebiso zokungabikho koNcedo lwabazali
Ukuba ungumzali ongekho-mboleko ohlawula inkxaso yenkxaso yabantwana, kufuneka ucele kuphela ukuguqulwa kwenkxaso yabantwana xa ufumana ukuhla okubonakalayo kwimali engenayo. Kufuneka uqonde ukususela ekuqaleni ukuba iinkundla ziza kuphanda isicelo sakho ngokugqibeleleyo, kwaye ziya kuqhathanisa ingeniso yakho yangoku kwimali owayifumanayo xa umyalelo wokuxhasa umntwana wasungulwa. Ukuba umahluko phakathi kwezi zimbini akuyiyo inkundla ibona 'inkulu,' isicelo sakho siya kukhishwa.
Unokucela njani Ulungiso lweNkxaso yoMntwana
Xa usulungele ukufakela isicelo sakho, kufuneka ufikelele kwi-Ofisi yokuQinisekisa iNkxaso yabantwana kwimeko apho umyalelo wokuqala wokuxhasa umntwana wanikezelwa. Emva kokuqhagamshelana ne-arhente, uya kufuneka ufake ifowuni eyimfuneko ecela ukuguqulwa ngenxa yenguqu kwiimeko.