Kutheni iifowuni zeefowuni kunye neendwendwe zokutyelela izinto
Kunzima ukufumanisa ukuba yimaphi amaxwebhu abalulekile kwaye afanelekileyo okwenzeni ukuvalelwa kwabafundi, kodwa ukwazi ukuhlukanisa iphepha elingabalulekanga kwiimaphepha ezinokuthi uguqule ukuvalelwa kwintetho yakho kwenzeni konke umahluko. Nangona ukubonisana kunye negqwetha kufuneka kukunike iingcamango eziqinileyo, olu luhlu lunokunceda ngokunjalo.
Ukuba udidekile malunga nokuba uthathe ntoni nawe, amaxwebhu amaninzi ahlala angcono kunokuba amancinci. Kungcono ukuba nalo kwaye ungayidingi kunokuba uyidinga kwaye ungenayo.
Amaxwebhu kwiFomu ebhaliweyo
Ngeke ufune ukubonisa nje enkundleni ngamaxwebhu akho. Zonke iinkqubo zokugcina ulondolozo ziqala ngokubhaliweyo okubhaliweyo enkundleni echaza isikhundla sakho kwaye uchaze ngokucacileyo oko ucela inkundla ukuba iyalela. Ukuba uqala ukugcina isondo kunye nokusebenza ngaphandle kwegosa, ngokuqhelekileyo kuluvo oluhle lokufaka iikopi kwanoma yimaphi amaxwebhu obuthela njengobungqina benkxaso yakho xa ubhala ngokubhaliweyo. Ufuna ukuba ijaji libone iphepha ngaphambi kokuba ufike enkundleni. Akayi kuqwalasela ityala lakho okokuqala xa uvela phambi kwakhe - sele esele ahlaziya zonke iziphakamiso ezibhaliweyo ukuze uyazi loo nto.
Ukuba omnye umzali womntwana wakho uqalise ukulandelwa kokugcinwa, unokucinga ukuba uqulethe ubungqina bakhe xa ebhala ngokubhaliweyo.
Kufuneka ufumane ikopi yamaphepha ayinike inkundla-ngumthetho. Yifunde ngokucophelela. Unelungelo lokuphendula kwisicelo sakhe ngokubhaliweyo. Oku kuya kunika isibonelelo esihle kwiimviwo ezongezelelweyo ozifunayo ngaphaya kweliluhlu, nokuba yikuphi ukuqokelela ukuphikisa izimvo zakhe.
Yenza ikopi uze uyihambise ngeempendulo zakho ezibhaliweyo.
Thatha iikopi ezongezelelweyo kunye nawe, ukuze ukhuseleke. Nangona abasebenzi beenkundla ngezinye iinkcukacha balahlekelwa okanye baxakeke emaphepha, ngoko uya kuba kunye nawe kwimeko yongxamiseko.
Ngoku, yiyiphi na into oyifanele ukuyenza?
Ifowuni zoLwazi lweeFowuni
Bobabini abazali kufuneka bagcine idayari yazo zonke iifowuni ezenziwe phakathi komntwana nomzali ongenalo ilungelo lokugcina. I-log kufuneka ifake xa iifowuni zivela, zihlala ixesha elide kunye nexesha labo. Ngaba zenzeka yonke imini okanye emini? Qho ngeveki? Mhlawumbi kabini ngeveki? Ziquka uhlobo lwazo. Ngaba bathetha nje kwifowuni okanye ngaba yi-Skyping?
Ezi ngxelo zibubungqina bokuqhagamshelana okuqhubekayo phakathi kwakho nomntwana wakho ukuba ungenayo imvume, okanye mhlawumbi ukungabikho kokuthintana rhoqo phakathi komntwana wakho kunye nomnye umzali ukuba umntwana wakho uhlala nawe ngoku. Nceda uqaphele oku, nangona kunjalo, kuba kungenzeka ukuba umzali ongekho phantsi unokuthatha isithuba angakhange abize ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngenxa yesenzo esithile osithathileyo, njengokungamvumeli ukuba athethe nomntwana wakhe okanye abe nengxabano naye phambi kokuba uphendule ifowuni. Iinkundla zithatha ukuthatha umbono omncinci kakhulu womzali ozama ukuphazamisa okanye ukuphazamisa ubudlelwane bomntwana wakhe nomnye.
Ngaphandle koko, ukungabikho koqhagamshelwano lwefowuni rhoqo kunokubonakalisa ijaji ukuba lakho ex ubiza umnxeba ngamaxesha ambalwa ngonyaka, mhlawumbi ngemihla yokuzalwa okanye iholide. Oku kungabonisa ukuba akanalo ubuhlobo obusondeleyo naye.
IShedyuli yoTyelelo lwakho
Abazali kufuneka baqhubeke nokugcina indawo yokuvakasha phakathi komntwana kunye nomnye umzali womntwana. Inkqubo yeshedyuli yokutyelela ifanele ifake xa ukuhanjelwa kwenzeka, apho kwenzeka khona, bahlala ixesha elingakanani kunye nexesha labo.
Umzali ongekho phantsi ozama ukufumana ulondolozo angasebenzisa le ngcaciso enkundleni ukubonisa ubungqina obuqhubekayo nolunentsingiselo nomntwana.
Umzali osisigxina angasebenzisa ishedyuli yokutyelela ukuvakalisa ukungabikho kobudlelwane obuqhubekayo phakathi komntwana nomnye umzali womntwana. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umzali ubona umntwana nje ngamaxesha ambalwa nje emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa, kunokubonisa ukuba umzali akanalo umdla omkhulu ekugcineni ubudlelwane obusondeleyo nomntwana, kodwa usoloko exhomekeke kumgca wecala engamboni, akubangelwa into oyenzile ukukhusela.
Iirekhodi Zomntwana Wakho
Cinga ukuquka amakhadi okunika ingxelo yomntwana kunye namanye amaxwebhu abhaliweyo avela kwabanye abonisa indlela ayenzileyo ngayo ngenkqubela-okanye ngokulandelana. Ukuba umntwana wakho wenzakala ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngexesha lokunyamekela komnye umzali, kuquka neengxelo zogqirha kunye neengxelo zonyango. Cinga ukufumana ingxelo ebhaliweyo evela kootitshala, abaqeqeshi, nakubamelwane bakho ukuba ngaba benolwazi lokuqala lolwalamano phakathi kwakho nomntwana wakho, kunye nolwalamano phakathi komntwana wakho kunye nomfundi wakho.
Ungajongani noVavanyo lweMpahla
Ijaji inokuyilungisa ukuhlolwa kokugcinwa kwengxabano kwimpikiswano engqinelanayo yokufikelela kwizinto ezantsi. Uqeqesho oluqeqeshwe luza kudibana nomntwana wakho, ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kwaye unokuvakashela amakhaya omabini omabini. Ingumsebenzi wezobugcisa ukubuyisela enkundleni ngesincomo sokugcina.
Akumele ulinde ijaji ukuba yenze enye, nangona kunjalo. Ukuba ubandakanyeka empini yokulwela, cinga ukucela inkundla ukuba iwise uvavanyo okanye ukuvumela ukuba uqeshwe ingcali.
Ukufumana ulwazi oluninzi malunga namaxwebhu afanelekileyo malunga nokugcinwa kwabantwana, thetha kunye negqwetha elifanelekileyo kwigunya lakho. Ukuba ungaziva ukuba unako ukufumana igqwetha, khangela ukuba uncedo lwezomthetho kwingingqi yakho.