Izikhokelo malunga nokuvalelwa kwabazali ngokuxhasa abantwana abangenayo intlawulo
Ukuvalelwa komngcipheko ngumngcipheko wangempela kubazali abangaphumeleli ukuhlawula abantwana. Ukuba ufumene kule meko, sebenzisa izicwangciso ezingezantsi ukuze ufunde kabanzi malunga neenkundla ezicinga ngayo, kunye nento oyenzayo xa usebenza ngexesha lokubanjwa kwexesha lokungabikho kwentlawulo yenkxaso yabantwana.
Kubazali abangabikho phantsi kwabo banomdla wokuxhasa abantwana, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ingozi.
Ngelixa unako ukuhamba kunye nenkxaso yabantwana engekho intlawulo kwithuba elithile, unokukubethelwa ekugqibeleni uza kubanjwa nawe. Xa kunjalo, inkundla inokugqiba ekubeni ikubambelele umzali. Oku kudla ngokubhekiselele kwiintlawulo (ngaphezulu kwezinto osuke uzibole ngayo). Ukongeza, inkundla inokukhetha ukubopha entolongweni ngenxa yokungahlawulwanga kwenkxaso yabantwana. Oku kuthetha ukuya entolongweni, kwaye kuyona nto isiphumo esiyingozi kakhulu inkundla zisetyenziselwa ukunyanzelisa iintlawulo zokuxhasa abantwana.
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Ukuba inkundla ithola umzali ukuba abe ngasemva kwiintlawulo zenkxaso yabantwana, ijaji ingaba nalo mzali wabanjwa ngenxa yokungahlawulwanga. Ixesha lexesha lokuvalelwa ngokuqhelekileyo liqwalaselwa ngokubanzi:
- Inani elincinci lexesha
- Inani lemali elithathayo ukuqinisekisa ukuba iintlawulo zokuxhasa abantwana ziya kuhlawulwa kwikamva
- Ngokuqhelekanga kungekho ngaphezu kweenyanga ezintandathu
Inkundla ezininzi ziza kugxininiswa kuphela emva kokuzama ukuqokelela iintlawulo zenkxaso zabantwana ngezinye iindlela, njengokulungisa umvuzo womzali.
Inkundla ngokuqhelekileyo ithatha isikhundla sokuba kunomdla wokufumana unyango kunye nenkxaso yezemali kubazali bobabini, yingakho bengaziboni ngokuphindaphindiweyo abaphulaphuli xa kuziwa kwinkxaso yabantwana engekho intlawulo.
Izinto ezicatshangelwe ngaphambi kokuvalelwa
Ngaphambi kokuvalelwa umzali ngenxa yokungabikho kwentlawulo yenkxaso yabantwana, inkundla iya kuqwalasela izinto ezilandelayo:
- Imali yokuxhaswa kwabantwana ihlawulwe (ngamanye amagama, inani eliseleyo, kuquka iintlawulo kunye nezohlwayo)
- Naziphi na izizathu zanikezelwa ukungabikho kwentlawulo; Ngokomzekelo, ukuba utata ubuza umbuzo, inkundla inokugqiba isigqibo sokuba ungabambeli ubaba kuze kube yilapho uvavanyo lobazali lugqityiwe
- Ingaba umzali ongeyena okhuselekileyo uqeshwe ngokufanelekileyo
Izinto Ezingacinga Ngayo Ngethuba Lokungabikho Kokugwetyelwa Komzali
Abazali abanjelwe entolongweni ngenxa yokungahlawulwanga kwenkxaso yabantwana kufuneka benze oku okulandelayo ngexesha lokuvalelwa kwabo:
- Yiya kwiiklasi zabazali
- Gcina uqhagamshelwano nomntwana ngokusebenzisa iileta kunye neefowuni zefowuni
- Ukuzama ukudala nokugcina ishedyuli rhoqo yokuthintana
- Ukuba ayengekasekwa, sebenze ukwakha ubudlelwane obunempilo, obuqhubekayo nomzali wokugcina umntwana
- Ukuba ngaba umzali ongeyena okhuselekileyo akaqeshwanga, zama ukufumana uncedo kwi-arhente karhulumente kwiinkqubo zokukhulula kunye / okanye usebenzise iiprogram zemfundo okanye iinkalo ezikhoyo
- Ukuba ngaba oonyana abangenakusungulwa, ii-arhente zokunyanzelisa abantwana kunye / okanye amagosa entolongweni banokukunceda ekufumaneni uvavanyo lwabazali
- Funa uncedo lwamagosa okunyanzelisa abantwana ekufumaneni ukulungiswa komntwana, ukuba kuyimfuneko
Ukufumana ulwazi oluthe xaxa malunga nokubopha ngenxa yobunzima benkxaso-mboleko yabantwana okanye obalaseleyo, thetha kunye negqwetha elifanelekileyo eliphethe amacala enkxaso yabantwana kwimeko yakho okanye ubhekise kwizikhokelo zenkxaso yomntwana.
Ulungiswe nguJennifer Wolf.