Izizathu Zenene Abantwana Abayithobeli Imithetho
Abantwana basebenzise ukuziphatha kwabo ukubonisa indlela abavakalelwa ngayo kunye nokucinga kwabo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, bathetha into ethile ngeendlela zabo zokuziphatha abangenako ukukwazi ukuthetha.
Xa uqikelele ukuba yeyiphi isicwangciso sokuqeqesha, qwalasela isizathu esinokubangela ingxaki yokuziphatha.
1. Bafuna Ukunyamekela
Xa abazali bathetha kwifowuni, batyelela kunye nabahlobo okanye intsapho, okanye mhlawumbi bahlala kuyo, abantwana baziva beshiya.
Kwaye ukuphoxeka, ukugcoba, okanye ukubetha umntakwabo kuyindlela enhle yokukhangela umdla.
Nangona kungakhathaliseki ukuba kukunyamekela, abantwana bayasifisa. Ukunyamekela ukuziphatha kakubi nokudumisa ukuziphatha okulungileyo ngenye yezona ndlela ezifanelekileyo zokujongana nokuziphatha okufuna ingqalelo.
2. Bakhuphela abanye
Abantwana bafunda ukuziphatha ngokujonga abanye. Ingaba babona oontanga esikolweni bengenzi kakuhle okanye bekopisha into abayibonile kwiTV, abantwana bayakuphinda.
Nciphisa indlela abantwana bakho abakwazi ngayo ukuziphatha kakubi kwiTV, kwimidlalo yevidiyo nakubomi boqobo. Imodeli yokuziphatha yokuziphatha ukufundisa umntwana wakho indlela efanelekileyo yokuziphatha kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo.
3. Ziyimiqathango yokuvavanya
Xa usuqalile imithetho kwaye uxelele abantwana oko akuvunyelwe ukuba benze, bahlala befuna ukubona ukuba unobungakanani. Bavavanya imida nje ukuze bafumane ukuba zeziphi iimiphumo xa ziphula imithetho.
Misela imida ecacileyo kwaye unikele ngemiphumo ngokuqhubekayo.
Ukuba abantwana bacinga ukuba banethuba elincinci lokuba bakwazi ukuhamba kunye nento ethile, bahlala behendelwa ukuzama. Ukuba ubabonisa ukuba baya kufumana impembelelo engalunganga ngexesha ngalinye bephula umthetho, baya kuqala ukuthobela.
4. Abangenazo izakhono
Ngamanye amaxesha iingxaki zokuziphatha zibangelwa ukungabikho kwezakhono.
Umntwana ongenalo izakhono zentlalo unokubetha omnye umntwana ngenxa yokuba ufuna ukudlala ngeethayi. Umntwana ongenakho ukulungisa isisombululo angakwazi ukuhlambulula igumbi lakhe ngenxa yokuba akaqinisekanga ukuba wenzeni xa amathoyizi akhe engafanelanga kwibhokisi yokudlala.
Xa umntwana wakho engenzi kakuhle, endaweni yokumnika nje umphumo, mfundise into enokuyenza endaweni yoko. Mbonise ezinye iindlela zokuziphatha kakubi ukuze afunde kwiimpazamo zakhe.
5. Bafuna Ukuzimela
Njengoko abantwana abafunda esikolweni bafunda ukwenza izinto ezininzi ngokwabo, bahlala befuna ukubonisa izakhono zabo ezintsha. I-Tweens nayo iyaziwa ngokuzama kwabo ukuzimela. Basenokuba neengxabano kwaye banokungahloneli ngamanye amaxesha.
Abaselula banokuba ngabavukeli kwizame zokubonisa abadala abakwazi ukuzicingela. Basenokuphulaphula imithetho ngenjongo kwaye bazama ukubonisa abadala ukuba abanako ukunyanzeliswa ukwenza izinto abangafuni ukuzenza.
Nika umntwana wakho ukhetho olufanelekileyo. Buza wakho umntwana ongasesikolweni, "Ngaba ufuna amanzi okanye i-ice amanzi ukusela?" Tshela wakho umntwana ukuba, "Kufuneka wenze isigqibo xa usenza imisebenzi yakho. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba imisebenzi yakho yenziwe, ungasebenzisa i-electronics yakho." Ukunika inkululeko efanelekileyo yobudala kuya kuhlangabezana neemfuno zomntwana wakho ukuba azimelele.
6. Abakwazi Ukulawula Imizwa Yabo
Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana abakwaziyo ukuba benze ntoni ngeemvakalelo zabo.
Basenokukhawuleza xa beziva bexhalabile, kwaye ngenxa yoko, babe nobudlova. Basenokukwenza xa beziva bevuya, bexinezelekile okanye baxakeke.
Abantwana kufuneka bafunde iindlela eziphilileyo zokujongana neemvakalelo ezifana nokudakumba, ukudana, ukukhungatheka nokuxhalabisa. Fundisa abantwana ngeemvakalelo kwaye ubonise iindlela eziphilileyo zokulawula iimvakalelo zabo ukuze zikhuphe ukungaziphathi kakuhle.
Xa abantwana bephethe kakuhle imizwa yabo, bangasebenzisa izakhono zokuphilisa ukuphilisa iimvakalelo zabo. Esikhundleni sokungaziphathi kakuhle ukuveza iimvakalelo zabo, umntwana unokufunda ukuthatha ixesha lokuphumla .
7. Bafuna iimfuno ezingagqibekanga
Xa umntwana elambile, ediniwe okanye egula, ukuziphatha kakubi kudla ngokuqhubekayo. Abantwana abaselula kunye nabantwana besikolo sokufunda abasesikolweni abakulungele ukuthetha oko bafuna.
Ngenxa yoko, bahlala basebenzisa indlela yabo yokuziphatha ukubonisa ukuba banesidingo esingagqibekanga. Abazali banokukunceda ukukhusela iingxaki zokuziphatha ngokujonga iimfuno ezingagqibekanga.
Ngokomzekelo, thabatha intengiso encinane emva kokuba sele ephule kwaye xa usenokutyhukela. Buza umntwana wakho ukuba uvakalelwa njani kwaye ukhangele iingcamango zokuba unokufumana iimfuno ezingagqibekanga.
8. Bafuna amandla kunye nokuLawula
Amandla kunye nokulawula kudla ngokubangela ukuziphatha kakubi. Ngamanye amaxesha ukuziphatha okungcolileyo kunye neengxabano kubangelwa xa umntwana ezama ukuphinda athole ukulawula.
Xa iingxaki zokuziphatha zibangelwa kumzamo womntwana wokulawula okuthile, umzabalazo wamandla unokuqalwa. Enye indlela yokuphepha umzabalazo wamandla kukunika umntwana ukhetho olubini. Ngokomzekelo, buza "Ngaba ufanele uhlambulule igumbi lakho ngoku okanye emva kokuba umboniso weTV uphelile?"
Ngokunikezela ngokukhetha ezimbini, unika abantwana ithuba lokulawula imeko. Oku kunokunciphisa ezininzi iingxabano kwaye kunokwandisa amathuba okuba umntwana uya kuthobela imiyalelo.
9. Ukuziphatha kakubi kusebenza
Enye yezona zizathu ezilula kuba abantwana abangenzi kakuhle ngenxa yokuba kusebenza. Ukuba ukuphulwa kwemithetho kubafumana oko bafuna, baya kufunda ngokukhawuleza ukuba ukuziphatha kakubi.
Ngokomzekelo, umntwana ohlambela kude kube unina unika kuwo uya kufunda ukuba ukucwina kuyindlela enhle yokufumana nantoni na ayifunayo. Okanye umntwana ophonsa intukuthelo phakathi kwevenkile, yaye uyise uyavuma ukuba amthengele ithoyizi ukuze amye ukukhala, ufunde ukuba umsindo uyasebenza.
Qinisekisa ukuba ukuziphatha kakubi komntwana wakho akumkhonze kakuhle. Nangona ukunika okanye ukusekela phantsi kunokukwenza ubomi bakho bube lula kancinane, ekugqibeleni uza kuqeqesha umntwana wakho ukuba aphule imithetho.
I-Underlying Health Issues Issues
Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana baneengxaki zempilo yengqondo ezibangela iingxaki zokuziphatha. Abantwana abane- ADHD , umzekelo, umzabalazo wokulandela izikhokelo kwaye uziphathe ngokungazenzisiyo.
Ukuxhalabisa okanye ukuxinezeleka kunokubangela neengxaki zokuziphatha. Umntwana oxhalabileyo unokuphepha ukuya kwiiklasi ezenza abe nexhala. Umntwana ogxininisekile unokucatshukiswa kwaye akanakho ukunyanzeliswa ukugqiba imisebenzi yakhe okanye umsebenzi wesikolo.
Ukuba uyakrokrela ukuba umntwana wakho unokufumana inkcaso yempilo yengqondo okanye ingxaki yokuphuhlisa, khuluma nomntwana wengane yakho. Ukuvandlakanywa ngumqeqeshi wezempilo yengqondo kungaqeqeshwa ukuba kuqinisekiswe ukuba kukho nayiphi na imiba yeengxaki ezichaphazela iingxaki zokuziphatha .
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