Kuyakhathazeka xa umntwana wakho ubonakala ngathi unako ukukhathalela kangako malunga nokuhamba okanye ukulahlekelwa yi-electronics yelo suku. Kwaye yimbi na xa ehleka xa uthi kuye uyahlwaywa.
Kodwa ngenxa yokuba umntwana wakho wenza njengokuba engacingi ngemiphumo, akuthethi ukuba uqeqesho lwakho alusebenzi. Ukuba umntwana wakho engacingi ukuba unenkathazo, yile mibuzo emine kufuneka uzibuze yona.
1. Ngaba Akayikhathaleli Ngempela?
Umntwana unokuthi, "Andikhathalele," xa umzali ethatha umnxeba wakhe ngenxa yokuba engafuni abazali bakhe bazi ukuba kuyamkhathaza. Enyanisweni, nangona kunjalo, ukulahlekelwa yimisebenzi yakhe yefowuni kunokumkhathaza kakhulu.
Ngenxa yokuba umntwana wakho uthi akasakhathaleli, akuthethi ukuba yinyaniso. Unokukhathazeka kakhulu ngenxa yendlela okhethileyo kwaye kufuneka uqhubeke usebenzisa ngaphandle kwezimvo zakhe ezingakhathaliyo.
Ukuhlawula ingqalelo kwiingcamango zakhe kwaye ubeke ingqwalasela ekuziphatheni kwakhe. Ukuba uyaqhubeka ephula imithetho efanayo, unokufuna ukufumana umphumo omtsha.
Kodwa, unokufumanisa ukuba imiphumo yakho iyimvimbela ekwenzeni iphutha elifanayo kwakhona, nangona utsho ukuba izigwebo zakho azichaphazeli.
2. Ngaba Usebenzisa uhlobo olulungileyo lweziphumo?
Cinga uhlobo lwemiphumo oyisebenzisayo ukujongana nokungalunganga. Nangona ukuthatha amalungelo omnxeba kungaba ngumphumo ophumelelayo wokuphulwa komnxeba, kungenakusebenza kakuhle ngenxa yenkinga yokulwa nomntakwabo.
Njengokuba kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuqeqeshwa , kukho iindidi ezahlukeneyo zeziphumo. Nangona ixesha lokuphuma likwazi ukusebenza ngokusemgangathweni nomntwana omnye, ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo kungaba yindlela efanelekileyo yokukhusela iingxaki zokuziphatha komnye umntwana. Yenza umyalelo wakho kwiimfuno zomntwana wakho.
3. Ngaba ikhefu lexesha lifanelekileyo?
Imiphumo emihle kakhulu inikwa ngokukhawuleza emva kweengxaki zokuziphatha.
Ngoko ukuba iiveki ezimbini ngaphambi kokuba uqaphele umbala wakho oneminyaka emi-5 ubudala eendongeni kwigumbi lokulala, ukumnika umphumo akunakwenzeka ukuba ube ngempumelelo njengokungathi uyamnika yona ngokukhawuleza.
Isixa sinikezela umphumo sinye into ekufuneka uyiqwalasele. Ukuba ubeka uneminyaka engama-12 ubudala ngexesha lokuphuma kwimaminithi emi-2, mhlawumbi akayi kucinga. Enyanisweni, kule minyaka, unokucinga ukuba uye kwigumbi lakhe lilungelo.
Ukuthabatha i-elektroniki kwiinyanga ezintandathu akusiyo ingcamango enhle. Iziphumo ezithatha ixesha elide kakhulu abantwana balahlekelwa yimpembelelo yokuziphatha.
Abantwana abafumana iziphumo ezinzima kakhulu abanandaba malunga nokufumana amalungelo abo. Kodwa iziphumo ezilula kakhulu aziyi kufundisa umntwana wakho isifundo somntu. Yenza imiphumo enokubaluleka kwexesha kunye nokucacileyo kwinqanaba lokukhula komntwana wakho.
4. Ziziphi iziphumo ezinokusebenza kangcono?
Ingcinga efanelekileyo yokuba nemiphumo emininzi engqondweni xa ubahambisa. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha, kuthatha ityala lephene.
Ukuba ukuziphatha komntwana wakho kungatshintshi xa uthatha i-electronics, unokufumana ukuba uphumelele ukumnika imisebenzi eyongezelelweyo. Ngoko cinga ngenyameko malunga noko kukuchaphazela umntwana wakho.
Khawukhumbule, ukuba ngamanye amaxesha, iingxaki zokuziphatha ziba zibi ngakumbi ngaphambi kokuba ziphucule. Ukuba uqala ukungawunaki ukuvutha komsindo , umzekelo, umntwana wakho unokumemeza kakhulu. Kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba akusebenzi. Enyanisweni, oko kuthetha ukuba imizamo iyasebenza.
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