Umntwana wakho unokuthi uqhubele phambili ngokuqeqesha ngobungqina kunye nokuzithemba, ngoko ngokukhawuleza uqala ukuba neengozi kwakhona. Kukho izizathu ezininzi ezenza ukuba oku kwenzeke. Ngamaxesha amaninzi isiganeko esibalulekileyo njengokuzalwa komntakwabo omtsha, ukuqhawula okanye ukwahlukana okanye utshintsho kumagumbi okufundela okanye ootitshala ekunakekelwa kwimihla kunokumisela umntwana wakho amanyathelo ambalwa.
Iyona ndlela ihamba phambili kwiimeko ezi nje ukuzama nokukunceda umntwana wakho aphumle kwaye ahlale ephulaphule kwaye efanelekileyo ekusebenzisaneni kwakho malunga nokuqeqeshwa kwangasese. Ngexesha, kwaye ngoxa uncedo lwakho, umntwana wakho uya kubuya kwindlela. Ukuba uxinzelelo lwemeko lwanele ukuba kubangele nayiphi na ingxaki, awufuni ukongeza uxinzelelo olungakumbi ngokugweba okanye ukuxhalabisa umntwana wakho ngenxa yokuba neengozi.
Ukunyanzeliswa Ngokwemvelo
Enye into eyenzeka ngokuphindaphindiweyo, nangona ngamanye amaxesha ingabonwa ngabantwana abancinci bokuqeqeshwa ngamanzi, kukunyanzeliswa kwemvelo okuvela ekubeni nekhono lobuchule. Usenokuba uqaphele xa umntwana wakho ebengumntwana, uya kuhamba ngokuzimisela ukufunda ukuqhubela phambili, ukukhwela okanye ukuma ungaxhasi. Abantwana abaninzi, emva kokufumana lo lawulo, baqhube phambili ngokuzimisela okufanayo nakwezinye izakhono, beshiye ubuchule obudala.
Le nkqubo inokuthi ivele ngokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi .
Xa umntwana wakho efunda ukusebenzisa i- potty ngokuphumelela rhoqo , lixesha lokuqhubela kwezinye izakhono. Ngoko ke, ukuba ufumana umntwana wakho eneengozi xa naye efunda kwinkqubo yokufunda indlela yokudibanisa iipuzzli eziyinkimbinkimbi okanye ukujika iikona ezibukhali kwi-tricycle, ungamangalisi. Abazali abaninzi bachaza ukuba kubonakala ngathi umntwana wabo ngokukhawuleza "uxakeke kakhulu edlala" kwaye uyalibale ukusebenzisa le potty.
Oku kwenzeka ngokuchanekileyo. Baxakeke kakhulu becinga enye inxalenye ebalulekileyo yehlabathi labo.
Khumbuza Umntwana Wakho Ngokuqhelekileyo Ukusebenzisa Ubumbano
Unokukunceda umntwana wakho ngokuzikhumbuza rhoqo ukusetyenziswa kwamanzi. Yaye ungathathi "cha" ukuba uphendule ukuba uziva ude kakhulu phakathi kwekhefu lokuhlamba. "Hayi" akunakuthetha ukuba "hayi, andifuni ukusebenzisa indlu yokugcina" kodwa endaweni yoko kunokuthi "hayi, andifuni ukuba lo msebenzi uphazamiseke okwangoku."
Bonisa umntwanakho ukuba uyaqonda ukubaluleka komsebenzi ababandakanyeka ngawo ngokusebenzisa amabinzana afana, "Ndiyazi ukuba uxakeke kakhulu ngoku," kwaye "Ndiyakubona ukuba phantse ukuba kwenzeke," kwaye "Wena" sisebenza nzima kolu hlobo (umfanekiso / isakhiwo / iphazili). " Emva koko, khankanya ukubaluleka kokuhlala omile kwaye usebenzisa i-potty kwaye uholele ngobumnene umntwana wakho kwindawo yokuhlambela.
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Qaphela kwakhona, ukuba abantwana banokwesaba ukushiya umsebenzi wabo. Oku kuyinyani ngokukhethekileyo kubantwana kunye nabantwana bakowenu okanye abakwiqela lokudlala okanye esinye isilungiselelo seqela . Basenokungafuni ukushiya umdlalo okanye umsebenzi ukwenzela ukuba uya kuhamba, utshatyalaliswe okanye athathwe omnye umntwana xa ebuya ebumbini. Yenza umntwana wakho azi, kulezi zimo, ukuba uya kusindisa okanye ubukele umdlalo (kwaye qi niqiniseke ukuba ulandele kule thembiso!) Ade abuye aphinde akhuthaze umntwana wakho ukuba akucele ukuba wenze njalo ngexesha elifunekayo lokuhamba .