Ubude bexesha kuthatha abancinci ukuya kwisitimela samanzi
Abazali bavame ukuzibuza ukuba kufuneka bathathe ixesha elide ukuba baqeqesha abancinci babo, kodwa akukho myalelo onzima. Abanye abantwana bafunda kwimiba yeentsuku, ngelixa abanye abantwana badinga iiveki, iinyanga okanye ixesha elide ukuba baqaphele umkhuba.
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Kuthatha ixesha lam unyana ukuba afunde ukukhawuleza. Waqala ukwenza oku xa wayeneminyaka emi-2 ubudala, kodwa kwakungekho ude wayeza kuba ngu-4 ukuba uya kuhamba ngokukhawuleza.
Wakha umkhwa wokubamba ukunyakaza kwakhe, okwathatha ixesha elininzi kunye nomonde ukuphula. Ngokuphathelele ubusuku boqeqesho, akazange abe nobusuku obumanzi okanye obushushu emva kweminyaka eyi-3.
Ukusebenza nabantwana ekunyangweni , ndibone i-gamut epheleleyo. Ndiyazi ababetsha ababethatha ukuqeqeshwa ngamanzi ngaphakathi kweentsuku zokubeka zangaphantsi zangasese kunye nabanye abantwana abaselula abangaqeqeshwanga ngokupheleleyo xa beshiya ukunakekelwa kwam unyaka kamva.
Abazali abanomdla ekude kwenkqubo kufuneka bakhulume nabanye abazali abangenanto inomdla okanye ukukhuphisana nabo. Baya kufumana iindululo ezininzi. Nazi izinto abazali ababelane ngazo ngamacandelo okuqeqesha.
Abantwana abathathu be-Liza baqeqeshwa kwiMinyaka eyahlukeneyo kunye neZiphumo
Umzali ogama linguLiza wathetha ukuba abantwana bakhe bonke bafunde ukusebenzisa ibhodlo kwiminyaka eyahlukeneyo. Abafundi bakhe abakhulu bebafundi abaneminyaka emi-2 ubudala, kodwa oku akuzange kube yimeko yeLisana omncinci.
"Uneminyaka engama-3 ubudala, kwaye akayena mzuzu oqeqeshwe ngokufanelekileyo kwaye ungoyolomngeni onzima. Wenza izinto ngaphambi kweshedyuli: ukuqhekeka, ukumazi ii-ABC, ukubala, ukuqonda imilo, ukuthetha ngezivakalisi ezipheleleyo, usebenzisa imilinganiselo, kodwa akaqhubekanga xa uqeqesho lobumbanyo lufika emfanekisweni.
Usenalo ukundixelela ukuba kufuneka ahambe kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kukudabuka . "
Isimo sika-Liza sibonisa ukuba umntwana obonakala ephakamileyo kakhulu kwezinye iindawo akahlali esheshayo ukuqeqesha okokuqala okanye ngokukhawuleza. Zama ukubeka ingcinezelo eninzi kumntwana wakho ophezulu.
Unyana weBheti Ubuthathaka obunokuQeqesha ngexesha elizayo kodwa wagqiba ngokukhawuleza
UBhete walinda de unyana wakhe ebonakala emzimbeni kwaye ekhuselekileyo ukulungiselela ukuqeqeshwa ngamanzi.
"Kwakhona, omnye wabantwana bethu babecacile ukuba kwinkwenkwe kufuneka ndijonge ukuzalwa kwakhe," watsho. "Nangona kunjalo, malunga neenyanga ezimbini ngaphambi kwaloo mini [unyana wam] wafumanisa iigesi eziseleyo ebomini bezakhono zokuphumeza ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi. Ndicinga ukuba wayengenakunqwenela ukuba wayefuna ukulahla i-diapers.
"Ngelinye ilanga wayese-diapers nangomso olandelayo wayenama-100 ekhulwini kwizigulane. Wayekulungele. Singaba sekwephuzile kodwa sasilungile."
Ibali likaBhete libonisa ukuba ngamanye amaxesha abazali kufuneka bathathe isinyathelo emva koko bavumele abantwana ukuba bahole indlela.
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Ingcali yePediatrics uDkt. Vincent Iannelli uthe amawele akhe athabatha iiveki ezimbini ukuya kwethathu ukuba abe ngamaqanda aqeqeshiwe.
Kodwa wathi, "Ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi okukhawuleza akubangakho nawuphi na umgaqo wamatshini okanye ngaphakathi kwengcaciso yokuba oogqirha besifo sezingane . Silinde de bavele babonisa iimpawu zokulungela ukuba baqeqeshwe ngamanzi, apho kwimeko yabo bekude babeneminyaka engama-3 ubudala. Ndiyakholwa ngokwenene ukuba ukuba sasiqalise naluphi na ngaphambili, ngoko bebengayi kuba baqeqeshwa ngamanzi baze bafikelele kwiminyaka emithathu ubudala okanye mhlawumbi emva koko. "
Ugqirha unomuva wokuba wayesebenzisa ixesha elide kakhulu ukuqeqesha amawele akhe, kodwa ngokulinda de kube sele elungile, ubude bexesha bufutshane. Musa ukuqalisa kakhulu kusasa kwaye ugqibe ukukhupha izinto ngaphandle.
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Unyana kaLiz waba nguvoti oqeqeshwe kwiinyanga ezingama-30 ubudala. Yena nomyeni wakhe bagcine iveki ukugxila ekuqeqesheni kwamanzi.
"Le yimizamo yethu yokuqala yokuqeqesha u-Oliver," watsho. "Sasihamba ngokubanda kubomvu, sasingabikho masilayi kwaye sasinamathela kuyo, sasingenazo ezinye iziphazamiso kwaye sasizigxile kuye." Sambuza ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuba wayesomile, kwaye uya kufuneka ahlole ukuze aqiniseke. Wathukuthela xa wayenobungozi, kodwa sazichaza ukuba yucky kangakanani. Akazange aphinde agqoke i-diaper emva komhla wokuqala weveki.
Nangona le ndlela ingenakusebenza kubo bonke abantwana, indlela enzulu yokubandakanyeka enjengale nto ingaba yintoni umntwana wakho ayifunayo. Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho ubonakalise iimpawu zokulungela xa uqala. Ukuba uvakalelwa ukuba uye wafumana ukuqeqeshwa kwamathambo ngexesha elidlulileyo, khangela ukuba ukunciphisa imizamo yakho kunceda.
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Ndinqwenela ukuba ndinokunika abazali inombolo ecacileyo malunga nokuba ixesha elide lokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi. Kwiintsuku ezimbini. Iiveki ezimbini. Iinyanga ezimbini. Kuya kuba mnandi, kodwa ezininzi izinto zichaphazela ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi. Uphuhliso lomntwana kunye nomoya, isitayela somzali, indlela yokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi kunye nexesha lexesha lidlala inxaxheba kwithuba elide kuthatha ukuqeqesha umntwanana.