Ndiyakuvuyela, isikolo sakho sokufundela esikolweni siqeqeshiwe ngamanzi ! Ininzi yexesha nanini. Ngethuba losuku agijimela ngaphandle kwentaka njengentaka, engahlanjululwa yi-diapers kunye neentsuku zokuqeqesha. Kuvakalelwa ngathi ukuphakanyiswa kwesisindo (okanye ukusuka ngaphantsi ubuncinane) bobabini. Ubusuku, nangona kunjalo, ibali elihlukile. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ufuna ukumbeka kwindawo yokuqeqesha , okanye, ukumbeka ngaphantsi kweengubo, nje ukuvusa phakathi kobusuku kumntwana omanzi kunye nombhede.
Kulungile, nangona kunjalo.
Nangona kunxunguphalo, ukulala ngamabhobho kukuziphatha okuqhelekileyo kubantwana abaneminyaka engama-11 ubudala abaqeqeshelwa ngamanzi-nokuba kaninzi kangangezihlandlo ezintathu okanye ezine ngeveki. Kwaye nangona afika phezu kwesi sigaba sokuqala sokulala, abantwana abaninzi - abantwana abasesikolweni kunye nabadala - ngamanye amaxesha baxhamla umbhede wabo ngenxa yokuxinezeleka okanye enye imbambano.
Amanyathelo okufumana i-Bedwetting yangaphambili
Ukuze uncede umntwana wakho adlule kwisigaba sokulala, kukho amanyathelo anokuthatha:
- Beka umda kwinani leziphuzo umntwana wakho emva kwephuzu elithile. Yithi, emva kokutya, mciphise esinye isiselo esiphuze kunye neyure ngaphambi kokulala, akukho.
- Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana uya kwindawo yokuhlambela ngaphambi kokulala.
- Ukuba umntwana wakho elele ngokulala ngokwaneleyo, umvuse ukuba abuyele ngaphambi kokuba ulale.
- Ngaphandle kokubeka uxinzelelo kumntwana wakho, ngaphambi kokuba alele, thetha malunga nokuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukuba ahlale elomileyo kwaye ukuba kufuneka avuke ukuya kwindawo yokuhlambela, kulungile ukuba enze njalo.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuyibuyisela kumntwana wakho kukuba ukubheja akusiyo iphoso labo. Abantwana abasebancinci abangaphantsi kweminyaka engama-7 abangeke babe nekhono lokwenza isisindo sokuhlala bomekile ubusuku bonke, nokuba bangazi ukuba iimpawu ezithunyelwa ngumzimba wakhe zixelela ukuba kufuneka ahambe kwindawo yokuhlambela. Enye yeendima endithanda ngayo kukuba, "Yingakho siyibiza ngengozi kwaye ayiyiyo injongo," kwaye ihambelana ngokupheleleyo neli bhili.
Musa ukwenza umntwana wakho azive enetyala ngenxa yokulala-sele sele eziva ebi ngokwaneleyo njengoko kunjalo. Kunoko, vumela umntwana wakho azi ukuba ukhona ukuxhasa kunye nokubanceda kunye kunye uya kuza nesisombululo.
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Izindlela zokusebenzisa ozisebenzisayo ukuqeqeshelwa umthambo wakho wokufundela usesebenza nokuncedisa ukunqanda i-bedwetting. Ukusebenzisa isatidi isitifiketi yindlela enhle yokuqinisa ngokuqinisekileyo ubusuku obomileyo. Ukuba umntwana wakho uqokelele inombolo enomxholo - uthe wahlala owomileyo isonto lonke-uthembisa uhambo oluya kwivenkile yeli dola okanye i-ice cream shop njengomvuzo.
Ukuxinezeleka kunokubangela ukuba umntwana ahlambe umbhede. Ukuba umntwana wakho omile ebusuku ngeenyanga ezintandathu okanye ngaphezulu kwaye uqala ukulala, cinga ukuba kwenzekani ebomini bakhe. Ngaba kukho umntwana omtsha endlwini? Ngaba uphakathi komtshato? Ngaba umntwana ulahlekelwe ilungu losapho? Ezi ziganeko ezitshintsha ubomi zingabangela ukuba umanzi abe ngumanzi. Kule meko, kwakhona, mqinisekise umntwana wakho ukuba yonke into iya kulungile kwaye uza kusebenza kuyo kunye, usebenzisa iindlela ezibalwe ngentla.
Ukuba umntwana wakho uphendukela kwiminyaka emithandathu ubudala aze ahlalise umbhede wakhe kabini ngeveki okanye ngaphezulu kweveki okanye ezimbini, lixesha lokuthetha nodokotela wezingane. Kukho umcimbi wezokwelapha obangela umntwana wakho ukuba anxilise umbhede.