Uninzi loomama oqeqeshwe ngamanzi ajongene nale ngxaki. Kukho abanye abacinga ukuba akukho nto enkulu - abantwana abakwazi ukuzilawula, baya kucinga kwabo. Olunye udidi lwabazali lugxininisa ukuba aluvumelekanga ukuvota kuluntu. Emva koko kukho imbono phakathi-mhlawumbi epakini, efihliweyo ngemithi ... kodwa bangayenza umgca kwizinto omele uyenze kwindawo yokuthengisa.
Izizathu zokuPhephelwa kwePublic Peeing
Nangona ndibona amacandelo enziwe kumacala onke kumbango, kukho izizathu eziqinileyo zokuba ufanele ugweme ukukhulelwa komntwana kwindawo evulekileyo yoluntu. Ukuya kwi-au naturale ngelixa iinkampu okanye ukukhwela emva kweentlanzi epakini kunye nokuchukumisa kwindawo yokungcola ziimeko zabo. Ngomnye, unakho ukukhokela umntwana wakho ngalezi zimo ngelixa ufundisa enye into yobumfihlo. Ukongezelela, ukuma emanqeni okanye ukungcola kwindlela evumela umchamo ukuba ungene emhlabeni. Qhathanisa ezo ziganeko ngeemeko apho umntwana ehamba khona endleleni kunye nombono womntu. Kukho imiba emibini ephambili ekujoliswe kuyo kwimiba yoluntu:
- Ngelo xesha uqhubeka ufundisa umntwana apho kwaye xa kulungile ukwenza u-pee kunye ne-poop, ubabonisa ngokukhetha "ukuya kuphi". Oku kunokudibanisa nokukhungathekisa umntwana okanye umntwana ongasesikolweni kwaye kunokukhokelela kwiingxaki eziqhelekileyo zamathambo ezifana nezingozi eziqhelekileyo.
- Ukuyeka umchamo okanye isitulo kwindawo kawonkewonke kunokudala izimo ezingekho mthethweni. Nangona wenza okusemandleni akho ukuba uhlambulule indawo, usuka ushiya iintsholongwane kunye nezivumba. Umncinci omncinci womchamo ungabonakala ungenakubungozi, kodwa qwa lasela umntwana ozayo ozayo kunye nokuthatha isigqibo sokungena kuloo mbhobho.
Indlela yokujongana noxinzelelo
Kakade ke, ngelixa ubona ukuba kulungile ukuba ugweme ukuba umntwana wakho ahlale ephakamileyo, loo nto ingenakukunceda kwiimeko ezinzima.
Inyaniso kukuba, akukho sisombululo esipheleleyo xa ubanjwe ne-gotta-go ukuya kumntwana okanye umntwana oselula. Ukwazi ukuba unokuphelela kwimeko apho kungekho indlu yangasese ekhona kuyo, into kuphela ongayenzayo ilungiselela. Indlela ozilungiselelayo incike kwisiteji somntwana wakho wokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi kunye neemeko ezithile oza kuzifumana kuzo. Ezinye iindlela onokuziqwalasela ziquka:
- Ukuthatha isetyenti seempahla rhoqo kwixesha. Oku kuthetha ukungayeki kuloo ngxowa enkulu yemama nje kuphela kuba kuya kufuneka ukuba ube neengubo zangaphantsi, ibhulukwe, iikhati, iisokisi kunye nezicathulo ezandleni kuphela xa umntwana wakho engakwazi ukuwubamba.
- Ukusebenzisa i-Pull-Ups yeziphumo. Abanye abazali bajonga iincwadana zokuqeqeshwa ezilahlayo ezifana ne-Pull-Ups i-crutch elibazisa ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi. Inyaniso kukuba, banako. Ziyakulungeleka abanye abantwana kunye neemeko ezithile ezifana nokuhamba kweemoto ezininzi okanye uhambo lweedolophu xa kunzima ukufika kuzo.
- Ukutshala imali kwi-potty potable. Ukuba uphuma ngosuku ngemoto yakho, ibhodlo eliphathekayo elifana neKhuseleko lokuqala eliya kuhamba ngoku Ukuhamba ngePotty & Trainer ingaba yinto efanelekileyo ukuba uhambe nayo. Kuyinto elula kakhulu, kwaye unakho ukuqonda ngokusesikweni umntwana esebenzise emotweni phakathi kokuma malunga needolophu.
Ingxabano kwiPeeing Public
Umba wokuvumela abantwana ukuba bavuthwe kuye kwaba yiphuzu lempikiswano ixesha elide. Kwafika ingqungquthela enomlilo ngo-2010 emva kokuba i-blogger uK. Emily Bond ithumele iqela elagxeka abazali ngokuvumela abantwana ukuba bavote ngokukhululekile kuluntu. Wabiza abazali ukuba bayeke ukunyanga abantwana njengezinja baze bathi ukukhawuleza ukuqeqesha abantwana ngexesha elide njengento eyona nto ibonakala ngathi unyuke kubantwana abahamba emanzini.
Kwakukho ukuphazamiseka okuphawulekayo kwiBond ngenxa yokugweba abanye abazali. Kwakhona wathatha umbono ogqithiseleyo ngalo mbandela, esithi, "Ingozi emhle inokuhamba ixesha elide ekufundiseni i-dos efanelekileyo yokuphelisa kwaye ungenzi kwaye uvavanye ukulungela komntwana wakho uxanduva lwemfanelo yokuphila-ntliziyo." Oko kucinga - ukuba unokuyihlazisa umntwana ukulungela emanzini - alahlekanga ngokupheleleyo.
Indlela efanelekileyo yokukhuthaza uqeqesho lwangasese ngukunika umntwana wakho ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo kwaye enze inkqubo engafanele azive eneentloni ngaye. Ukuba kukho izingozi (kwaye uthembele kum, kuya kuba neengozi), kufuneka ubathetheze ngomonde kwaye uqinisekise umntwana wakho ukuba kwenzeka kwaye ngelixa akuyona into ebaluleke kakhulu ngeli xesha, uyazi ukuba uya kufika kwindawo apho A kwenzeka.