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Ukuziphatha komntwana wakho ngaphambi kokudala kunokukunika inkcazelo malunga noko umntwana wakho acinga nokuziva. Ekubeni umntwana akanako ukusebenzisa amagama, bathetha ngezinye iindlela. Emva kokuba ufunde ukujonga izinto ezincinci umntwana wakho akwenzayo, uya kuba nokuqonda okungcono oko akufunayo kunye noko anokunyamezela.
Ekuqaleni kunokuba nzima ukufumana iingcamango ezifihlakeleyo, kodwa ngaphambi kokuba wazi, uya kukwazi ukuxelela ukuba ulambile , ulungele ukudlala, okanye unesidingo sokulinda nje ngokumjonga okanye ukuphulaphula isandi coo yakhe okanye ukukhala.
Nazi ezinye ezimbalwa zeendlela zokuziphatha eziqhelekileyo zokuqaphela ukujonga kumntwana wakho. Ngokugcina iliso ngaphandle kwezi zikhombisi, unokufunda okunye malunga nokuziphatha kwakho kwangaphambili kwaye ulindele iintswelo zakho iintsana.
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Ubuthongo obukhulu: Xa umntwana wakho elele ebuthongweni obukhulu, uya kuvula amehlo akhe. Akayi kushukunyisa kakhulu, nangona angashenxisa okanye agxume (i-reflective reflex) ngezinye izihlandlo. Uyakubona ukuba ukuphefumla kwakhe kubonakala kubonakala njalo. Ukuba uzama ukuvusa umntwana wakho ebuthongweni obukhulu, akuyi kuba lula. Kwakhona akusilona xesha elifanelekileyo ukuzama ukudlala okanye uzame ukunyusa umntwana wakho. Ekuqaleni, umntwana wakho osemdala akayi kuchitha ixesha elide ebuthongweni obunzulu, kodwa njengoko umntwana wakho ekhula, uya kuchitha ixesha elide kule ndawo, ephumayo yokulala.
Ubuthongo obunzima : Ukulala okusebenzayo kuluhlu apho iintshaba kunye nosana zichitha ixesha elide. Ngethuba umntwana wakho elele ebuthongweni obunzima, unokuhamba, kwaye iphethini yokuphefumula ayiyi kuba njengesiqhelo.
Unokwazi ukubona amehlo omntwana wakho ehamba phantsi kweentloko zakhe. Oku kubizwa ngokuthi ukuhamba kwamehlo okukhawuleza (REM) isigaba sokulala. Ngeli nqanaba, iintsana ziphupha kwaye ubuncinci babo busebenza. Ngethuba lokulala ukulala, i-preemie yakho ingaphazamiseka lula ngomsindo okanye umsebenzi ojikelezayo. Ukususela kweli nqanaba, umntwana wakho angawela ebuthongweni obunzulu, okanye angavuka.
Ukuxinqa Vuka: Iintsana zilele, kodwa imeko ephaphekile ibonakala ikhathele. Iinkophe zabo zinokubonakala zizinzima, kwaye zinokuvula nokuvala amehlo abo. Iintshaba zinokulalazela xa zisuka ekuphumeni kokulala, okanye emva kokunyuka kwexesha xa zilungele ukulala. Ngethuba ebudeni bovuke, iintsana zinokunya kwaye ngezinye izihlandlo ziya kudla kakuhle. Ngoko, unamncelisa okanye ugqibe ibhodlela umntwana wakho ngeli nqanaba. Ukusuka apha, umntwana wakho angaqhubeka elele, okanye angase avuke kwindawo evulekileyo.
I-Alert Alert: Xa usana lwakho luvukile kwaye luzolile ungabona ukuba amehlo akhe abukeka obubanzi kwaye ubonakala ephulaphule kwaye ekhangelekile kwihlabathi elikujikelezile. Umncinane wakho unokubonakala ezolile kwaye ekhululekile. Unokuba ugxininise ebusweni bakho kwaye akhangele emehlweni. Usenokubamba ukumncoma!
Ngeli nqanaba, umntwana wakho ukuxelela ukuba ulungele ukusebenzisana nokudlala. Umntwana wakho uya kufunda kwakhona xa ezolile kwaye ephapheme. Ukuba uyambona ezisa izandla zakhe emlonyeni wakhe okanye azame ukuncelisa intonga yakhe, ezo ziyimpawu ezilambileyo.
Isimo sokuziphatha esilumkileyo silona ixesha elifanelekileyo lokutya okanye ukuncelisa i-preemie yakho. Iintshaba zingenakuchitha ixesha elininzi kweli gama okokuqala, ngoko uzama ukuyiqonda kwaye uyisebenzise xa uyibona.
Emva koko, njengoko umntwana wakho ekhula kwaye ekhula ngokugqithiseleyo, uya kuphawula kwaye ujongene namaxesha amaninzi okulumkisa.
Isaziso esisebenzayo: Xa umntwana wakho ephaphekile kwaye esebenzayo unokuthi ahambise umzimba wakhe aze enze ubuso. Angase aqale ukwenza izinto ezintle kwaye angenasiphelo. Kwakhona unokuba neengxaki ngakumbi kuyo yonke ingxolo okanye umsebenzi oqhubekayo kuye ukuze abe nomsindo.
Ukuba uqaphela ukuba umntwana wakho uyamnqambela okanye abuyeke kuwe, unokufumana uxinzelelo. Ukondla umntwana osisigxina okanye okhuselekileyo kunokuba nzima, ngoko ukuba ixesha lokutya, uzakuzama ukuzama ukuqalisa ngokukhawuleza.
Ukususela kwiintsana eziqaphileyo zokuqala ziqala ukukhala, okanye ukuba ziyakuthuthuzelwa kwaye zinyanzeliswe zingabuyela kwisilumkiso esithule.
Ukukhala: Iintsana zikhala ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi. Umntwana wakho unakho ulambile okanye ufuna ukutshintsha kwe-diaper. Unokuba ngumntu ogqithiseleyo okanye intlungu. Ezinye iintsana zikhala ngenxa yokuba zifuna ukubanjwa kwaye zithuthuzele. Xa umntwana ekhala, amehlo akhe angavuleka okanye avaliwe ngokuqinile, kwaye unokushukunyiswa ngokukhawuleza.
Ezinye iintsana ziyazinqabisa, kodwa abanye badinga uncedo. Ukuba awukwazi ukuhlalisa umntwana wakho okhalayo ngokunikela ngesondlo, zama ukwenza umntwana alukhulule ngokutshintsha i-diaper , i-swaddling, ukubamba okanye ukuyigubungela, okanye ukunika i-pacifier .
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Ukuba ne-preemie ihluke kakhulu kunokuba usana ozalwe kwiiveki ezingama-40. Kungathatha ingqwalasela engakumbi kwingxenye yakho ukuba uqaphele kwaye ufunde iipatheni zokuziphatha ezikhethekileyo zomntwana.
Ixesha elitsha eliphilileyo elingaphelweyo lilala ixesha elininzi kwiiyure ezingama-18 ngosuku, kodwa i-preemie ilala ngaphantsi okanye ngaphezulu. Nangona kunjalo, nangona i-preemie yakho ilala ngaphezulu, uya kuphawula ukuba akalala ixesha elide ngenxa yokuba iintshaba zithandana kwaye zivusa ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Kwaye, apho iintsana ezizalwe ngokutsha zilala ngubusuku ngexesha elinesithathu okanye ezine ezinyangeni ubudala, i-preemie yakho ayikwazi ukulala ubusuku ngeenyanga ezintandathu okanye ngaphezulu.
Kwakhona kulula ukuqonda ukuziphatha okuhlukeneyo kokulala okubhekisele kwiintsana ezizeleyo zexesha elipheleleyo. Iintshaba zibonisa ezi zenzo zomsebenzi kunye nokulala, kodwa ekubeni azingakhulileyo njengezithuba ezizalisekileyo ezizalisekileyo, abanako ukuchitha ixesha elifanayo kwimeko nganye kwiintsana ezizeleyo. Abafuduki ukusuka kwilizwe ukuya kutsho ngokulula, nokuba njalo. I-preemie yakho ingenakulinganiswa kwaye ixhamle ukusuka kwelinye ilizwe ukuya kwelinye ngokukhawuleza okanye liyeke ihlabathi ngokubanzi.
Ukuziphatha komntwana wakho kusengaphambili kunokutshintsha imihla ngemihla, naye. Ngelinye ilanga angadla kwaye alale kakuhle, ngengomso angase ahlale ecasulwa kwaye abe nobunzima bokulala nokutya. Kodwa, njengoko umntwana wakho ekhula kwaye ekhula, indlela yokuziphatha iya kubonakala ngakumbi, kwaye utshintsho oluvela kwelinye ilizwe ukuya kwelinye luya kulula kwaye lulula. Ngeentshaba, kuthatha ixesha elincinane.
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