Ungazi njani ukuba izakhono zomntwana wakho zilibazisekile
Siphila kwihlabathi elithanda ukulinganisa impumelelo kumatshati kunye namanqaku. Kuyo yonke yobomi bomntwana wakho, kuya kuba nemininzi yamathuba okubona ukuba uya kujolisa, ngaphaya komyinge okanye ushiye emva. Ngokuqhelekileyo, iminyaka emncinci akusiyo ixesha lokukhathazeka kakhulu ngokumalinganisa nomntwana wakho kwabanye. Nangona kukho izinto ezinzima ongalindela ukuba umntwana wakho afinyelele kwiminyaka yakhe yesibini nowesithathu, kukho uluhlu oluninzi "oluqhelekileyo" kule nqanaba ukuze ungakhathazeki xa umntakane omntwana ehamba ngaphambi kweenyanga ngaphambi kokuba umntwana wakho okanye intombazana ekunakekeleni kwakhe kwenzelwe ukuba yenze iimboli zesikhumba xa iqabane lakho litshatyalaliswa.
Uninzi lweziganeko zithintela ngokukhawuleza nendlela yokuphucula izakhono zomntwana. Ngokubanzi, xa nje umntwana wakho efumana amandla kunye nokugqithisa okuqhubekayo; mhlawumbi akudingeki ukuba uxhalabele.
Lo ngumgaqo jikelele. Nangona kunjalo, uphuhliso lwabantwana luyenzeka ngezinga elingaba lide kuneloluhlu oluqhelekileyo oluqhelekileyo. Ngaphandle kokuba ukhubazeka kakhulu, ukuhlukahluka ngokuqhelekileyo kuthathwa nje kukulibaziseka. Ngaloo ndlela, nabantwana abancinci abonakala ngathi iinyanga emva koontanga babo baya kugqiba kwaye bajolise ekujoliseni kwabo.
Ukuba uqaphele ukuba umntwana wakho ubonakala ephuculwa ngokuphuhliswayo kwaye uqhubela phambili ngezinga elincinci kunabanye abaselula, kufuneka uthethe kwinqanaba lakho lesibini kwisesheke elilandelayo. Ngokuxhomekeka kohlobo lokulibaziseka oye laphawula, udokotela wakho wezingane unokufuna ukuvavanya umntwana wakho kwaye ucinge ukuba kufuneka aqalise iinkonzo zokungenelela kwangethuba ukumnceda ukuphucula izakhono ezithile zezithuthi.
Qinisekisa ukunika imizekelo ethile yendlela oye waphawula ngayo ukuba imoto yakho encinci okanye izakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi zilibazisekile. Nantsi uluhlu olusisiseko lokutshekisha ukugcina engqondweni ngaphambi kokuba kuqeshwe ugqirha.
Iinyanga ezili-12 ukuya kwezi-18
- Awuyikukhwela okanye ukuma
- Andiyi kuhamba kunye nenkxaso
- Awunomdla wokuhamba malunga negumbi okanye ikhaya lihlola "elitsha" okanye umdla
- Abafakeli isandla esithile okanye umlenze, besisebenzisa ngaphezu kwesinye
- Kubonakala ukuba kunamathanga anzima okanye imilenze ibonakala ibe nzima
- Ayikwazi ukubamba into elula njengendebe ye-sippy
- Unenkxwaleko yokubetha okanye ukufuna ukutya
Iinyanga ezili-18 ukuya kwezi-24
- Akahambi ngokuzimela
- Ngaba ngokungaqhelekanga uyathintela izandi kunye nezandi
- Amaninzi amaninzi
- Unenkathazo yokugwinya
- Ayikwazi ukubhalwa ngekrayoni
Kwiinyanga ezingama-24
- Uhamba rhoqo kwiiyunithi zontonga
- Ayikuhamba ngesithende
- Ayikwazi ukutshiza amathoyizi evili
- Unenkathazo yokuzitshintsha
- Uqala ukulungiswa kwakhona kwaye unqume ukusebenzisa izakhono zeemoto ezizilungeleyo ezifana nokugada okanye ukubala
Iminyaka engama-3 ubudala
- Ukulinganisela xa uhamba ngokulula
- Ayikwazi ukuphosa ibhola
- Ayikwazi ukuqaqa
- Ihla okanye ilahlekelwa ibhalansi xa isebenza
Unyango lwezakhono zokulibaziseka kwezakhono
Emva kokuba uqaphele ugqirha wakho wezilwanyana kwiinkxalabo zakho malunga nokulibaziseka kwezakhono, unokuvavanya ukuba ngaba umntwana wakho ufuna iimfuno. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abancinci abanezakhono zabo zokwenyama ziza kuqala ukubonisa ukuphuculwa kunye neyeza lokusebenza okanye unyango lomzimba.
Ukuba ugqirha wakho ubonisa inkathazo enzima njenge-cerebral palsy, umntwana wakho unokufuna ukuqala ukhathalelo olude kunye nexesha elide. Ngombulelo, kukho inketho ezininzi kubantwana abanokubambezeleka kweemoto ongayincokola nodokotela wakho.