Iincwadi Ukunceda Abantwana Bakhathazeke Xa Umzali Esetyenzisiweyo

Abantwana baseMelika bangafunda iincwadi ezibonisa amava abo

Ukukhulisa abantwana emkhosini akulula, kodwa iincwadi zinokunceda ulutsha kunye neentsapho zabo zikwazi ukuhlangabezana xa umzali esetyenziswe. Abazali baseMaspala kufuneka bajongane nemiba efanayo naleyo abazali abajongene nayo, kodwa kufuneka bajongane nemingeni ephathelele ngqo kwimpilo yempi.

Ncedisa umntwana wakho ukuba aqonde ubomi bempi kunye nokuthunyelwa ngokubelana ngeencwadi ezilandelayo. Bonke abantwana bafumana uluhlu lweemvakalelo xa umzali esetyenzisiweyo, kodwa abantwana abanomdla bavame ukuba nefuthe kakhulu ngokomzwelo . Ezi ncwadi zinokuba yindlela enhle yokuqalisa incoko kwaye uncede abantwana bajongane nezinye iimvakalelo abanokuba nazo.

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Ndilahlekile !: Incwadi yeMpi yamaGciwane malunga nokuthunyelwa
URoberto Westbrook / i-Blend Images / Getty Izithombe

Le ncwadi ilungile kubo bobabini kunye nabazali beentsapho zempi. Unika ulwazi ukunceda abantwana baqonde ukuthunyelwa komzali wabo kodwa banikezela iingcebiso kubazali ekuncedeni umntwana ukuba aphumelele. Inceda abantwana baqonde ukuba kulungile ukuva uluvo oluninzi lweemvakalelo, ukususela ekudakaleni komsindo, kwaye ubanika amagama okuvakalisa loo mvakalelo. Umbhali uguqula ubulili benkonzo yelungu kuba boomama nootata baqhutyelwa. Iyakushintsha imifanekiso ukwenzela ukuba amasebe ahlukeneyo omkhosi aboniswe. Uneminyaka emi-5 ukuya kwe-10 (kuxhomekeke kumgangatho womntwana wakho wokukhula).

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Ikhonkco elingabonakaliyo

Umtya ongabonakali ngumtya wothando odibanisa nalabo abathandayo nabasithandayo. Akukho nto inokutshabalalisa loo mtya, akukho nto. Yindlela enhle yokunceda abantwana bazive benxulumene nomzali olahlekileyo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni isizathu sokuhlukana. Kuya kunceda xa umntwana elahlekelwa ngumzali osusiweyo. Bangakwazi nje ukunika umtya intambo encinci kwaye bazive bekhwela. Uneminyaka eyi-3 nangaphezulu.

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Ukuthunyelwa kukaTata: Incwadi yokuSebenza kunye neNcwadi yokuSebenza yabantwana abaselula

Abantwana banandipha iintlobo zemisebenzi efunyenweyo kule ncwadi: mazes, dot-to-dot, kunye nokudibanisa, ukubiza ezimbalwa. Njengamanye amabhuku ezenzo, lo uqinisa ulwazi lwezakhono zezingane nokufunda, kodwa nanko umxholo uhlukile. Ugxininiso lokuthunyelwa komkhosi kunye nokuhlangana. Imisebenzi ivumela abantwana ukuba bafunde ngale miba baze baveze iimvakalelo zabo ngelixa bebandakanyeka kwimisebenzi emininzi enokuthi inikwe incwadi. Kukho neenguqu zomama. Uneminyaka engama-4 nangaphezulu.

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Heroes! Imisebenzi yabantwana Ukujongana noTywala

Le ncwadi inikeza imisebenzi yokunceda abantwana bajamelane neemvakalelo zabo ngenxa yokuthunyelwa komzali. Iyabakhuthaza ukuba bachaze iimvakalelo zabo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo: ngokubhala, ukudweba kunye neengoma. Le mi sebenzi inokuvula umnyango kwiingxoxo kunye nomntwana wakho ngalezo zivakalelo. Incwadi ibandakanya idilesi apho abantwana bangathumela amabali abo, imibongo, imidwebo kunye neengoma. Ezi zinto ziza kufakwa kwiwebhusayithi ye-Rainbow Reach. Le ncwadi inokuba neengcamango malunga nendlela abantwana abangakwazi ngayo ukuhlala bechanekile kwaye banokuphelisa ezinye zeengxaki abazifumanayo. Uneminyaka emine ukuya ku-14.

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Night Night

Ukuba unomntwana othanda iinkwenkwezi, le ncwadi iphelele. Ubaba osemkhosini olungele ukuthutha uvela ngendlela yokuba yena kunye nendodana yakhe badlale xa ehamba. Ubusuku bonke umntwana kufuneka afumane i-Polaris, iNkwenkwezi yaseNyakatho, emva koko athathe umoya ophefumulayo aze aqhubelele inkwenkwezi kwihlabathi kwiyise. Xa sifika, utata uya kuwubuyisela kumntwana wakhe kwaye ngaloo busuku, unyana uya kuwuphinda abuyele kwakhona. Le ncwadi ibandakanya umfanekiso weenkwenkwezi ezenza kube lula ukufumana i-Polaris. Kukho indawo ekuqaleni kwencwadi ngomfanekiso womzali osetyenzisiweyo. Kubeminyaka engama-4 ukuya kwe-8, nangona abanye abantwana abaselula banokuyonwabela.

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H Ngaba Inhlonipho: I-Alphabet Family Family Alphabet

Le ncwadi ifanelekileyo ngokuthetha ngabantwana abanesiphiwo kwiintsapho zemikhosi (okanye iintsapho ezisithanda impi!). Njengezinye iincwadi ze-alfabhethi, lo uquka imifanekiso nganye kwileta ye-alfabhethi, kodwa ugxininiso luhlala lusemkhosini. Kwakhona neengcamango ezijoliswe emkhosini kwileta nganye.

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Ubusuku Bamajoni Ngaphambi kweKrisimesi

Ukuba umzali wezempi usetyenziswe kwaye ngaphandle kweKrisimesi, le ncwadi enhle kakhulu. Kuthatha inkondlo kaClement Moore kwaye uyitshintshe ukuba ifanelane nemeko yempi. Nantsi indlela eqala ngayo:

Twas ubusuku ngaphambi kweKrismesi, kwaye yonke indawo
Abathumeli kuphela babethintela - balinda indawo.
Amajoni ayelele aze ahluthe
Njengoko bephupha 'ekhaya' ngosuku lweKrisimesi ...

Ukuba ilungu lakho lezempi lingekho kwiKrisimesi kwaye uyakwazi ukwenza i-Skype, le nto yayiyincwadi enhle ukuba afunde ngokumemeza kumntwana wakho. Uya kufuneka iincwadi ezimbini, ngokuqinisekileyo, enye yengane yakho kunye nelinye ilungu lakho lomkhosi ukulifunda. Ages 2 kunye phezulu.

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Uthando lwamabala

Abantu abadala bayazi isizathu sokuba "amabala" kwilungu lelungu leenkonzo. Kuxhamla. Yenza nzima amalungu ethu omkhosi ukuba abone. Abantwana abazi ukuba zeziphi iindawo, nangona kunjalo, kwaye le ncwadi ibanika enye indlela yokucinga ngayo. Ngamnye umele umcamango okanye inkumbulo ilungu leenkonzo elinalo malunga nomntwana: zizenza ngathi zifuduze, zitshintshwe kwi-swing kwaye zitsho! Ages 3 ukuya ku-9.

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Umama Wathwala Ukulwa Neebhoti

Zininzi zeencwadi ezikhoyo ukunceda abantwana bajongane nokuthunyelwa kukabawo, kodwa kuphela bambalwa kakhulu abagxininise ekuthunyelweni komama. Le ngenye yezo ncwadi ezimbalwa. USharon G. McBride, umbhali, wabhala le ncwadi ukubanceda abantwana bajamelane neemvakalelo ezininzi abanako xa unina uchitha. UMcBride uyazi ukuba uthetha ntoni, naye. Wayekhonza ezintathu iindwendwe zomsebenzi kwaye kwafuneka amshiye umntwana wakhe emva. UMcBride wayengumama ongatshatanga, ngoko umntwana wakhe wayengekho ekhaya noyise. Oko kungenza ukwahlukana kumama kunzima nakakhulu. Incwadi inceda abantwana baqonde ukuba iimvakalelo zabo zilungile, nangona akufanele zisetyenziswe njengesizathu sokuziphatha okubi.

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Boots of Daddy

Le ncwadi enemifanekiso ibonisa ukuba abantwana bayayiqonda ukuba kutheni umzali wempi kufuneka ahambe ixesha elide. I-Little Bean iyayazi ukuba uTata uvale iinqabhoko zakhe zempi xa ehamba ngoko ke ukuba izibhuthi zingekho, mhlawumbi uTata uya kuhlala ekhaya. Ngelixa abazali abaninzi baqhutyelwa kwimimandla yemfazwe, abanye baqhutyelwa ngezizathu zomntu ngokunjalo. Le ncwadi inceda ukucacisa kubantwana isizathu sokuba umzali aqhutywe kwaye unceda ukukhulula ezinye zezoyiko abanokuba nazo.

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Ingxelo Yokuthunyelwa kwabantwana

Eli phephancwadi alikho enye yokubhala kuyo yonke imihla: akuyidayari. Kodwa ikhuthaza abantwana ukuba baveze iimvakalelo zabo malunga nokuthunyelwa komzali wabo kwaye bafunde malunga nomzali wabo ehlabathini. Ukubhala ngenye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokuhlola iimvakalelo. Ijenethi ingabelana nomzali xa ebuyela ekhaya okanye egcinwa ngasese. Inokugcinwa ngonaphakade ukukhumbuza umntwana oko wayecinga nokuvakalelwa ngexesha lokuthunyelwa komzali.

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