Izinto Ezi-8 Abazali Bamele Bayazi Ngaphambi Kokucela Umfundisi

Abazali abaninzi banomuvo wokuthi ukwenza isicelo sootitshala abathile kuya kunceda umntwana abe nomnyaka wesikolo esihle. Nangona kunjalo, akubona bonke abazali abayazi ukuba kuninzi ukwenza eso sicelo ngaphandle kokuxelela isikolo apho igumbi lokufundela lifuna ukuba umntwana wakho abekwe khona. Ukwazi indlela imisebenzi ekhethiweyo ngumfundisi inokukunceda wenze isigqibo esifanelekileyo, zombini ngootitshala kunye nendlela yokufikelela kwisicelo sakho.

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Iimfuno zoNcedo zoTitshala zivela kwiSikolo ukuya kwisikolo

Nangona ezinye izikolo zifumana imigaqo-nkqubo yokucela ititshala evulekileyo, evumela abazali ukuba bakhethe nabani na ukuba bafuna, ezinye iinkqubo zezikole zizinzileyo. Izikolo ezininzi ziye zamkela iinkqubo ezingavumeli izicelo zothisha abathile. Kunoko, abazali bacelwa ukuba bachaze ubuntu bomntwana, iimfuno, kunye nesitayela sokufunda kwakunye nokuba luhlobo luni lootitshala kunye nesakhiwo sokufundela. Enyanisweni, ezinye izikolo ziye zavelisa imibuzo yokuba abazali bazalise le njongo.

Qaphela: Iipolisi ziyakwazi ukuhluka ukusuka esikolweni ukuya esikolweni kwisithili, ngoko ukuba isikolo somntwana wakho singakuxeleli ngomgaqo othile, qiniseka ukuba ubuze ngaphambi kokuba wenze isicelo.

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Ukwenza isicelo sakho kubhala senza umcimbi onzima

Indlela efanelekileyo yokwenza okukhethwa kukho okuthandayo kukuba ubhale ileta kwinqununu yesikolo. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuxubusha ukubekwa ngutitshala okwangoku, kodwa ekubeni inqununu isenza isigqibo sokugqibela, ngumntu ohamba naye. Kwileta yakho, qiniseka ukucacisa ukuba uyazi umgaqo-sicelo wesicelo sootitshala kunye nokuba isicelo sakho siwela ngaphakathi (okanye kutheni siwa ngaphandle) kwezi khokelo. Ukuchonga umntwana wakho, ibakala lakhe kunye nomfundisi wangoku kwangaphambili ngaphambi kokuba achaze uhlobo luni lwezemfundo oluza kunceda ekuphumeleleni kwakhe kwimfundo kwaye, ukuba kuvunyelwe, utitshala ocinga ukuba uya kulungela kuye.

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Ukubekwa Kokungabi Ngomncintiswano

Uninzi lwabazali bacela utitshala ngokusekelwe kwinto abaye bakuva malunga nommandla. Kuyavunywa, inokuba yinyaniso ukuba uNksz Smith wayengomfundisi ogqwesileyo intombazana encinane phantsi kwesitrato ewake wayenayo, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba uya kuba ngumfundisi ongcono kumntwana wakho. Xa usebenzisa i-word-of-mouth njenginconywa, abazali abaninzi abakwazi ukucingisisa ukuba bonke abantwana abafundi bafunde ngendlela efanayo kwaye bonke abanobuntu abasebenzisane kakuhle. Ukungaxeli nto kuthatha iminyaka embalwa ukuba idumela lomfundisi (elihle okanye elibi) lenziwe, ngoko ke ootitshala abanokuqala abanetalente banokukhatywa yile ndlela.

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Uya kufuneka uyenze uphando lwakho ngaphambi kokucela uMfundisi

Kukulungele ukuphulaphula abanye abazali, kodwa kubalulekile ukubuza imibuzo kwakhona, kungekhona kuphela kubazali kodwa ngabalawuli. Awukwazi ukufumana zonke iimpendulo ozifunayo, kodwa ubuncinane uzakuzama. Fumana ngootitshala kunye nesitayela sakhe sokufundisa. Ingaba unika izandla okanye wenza izinto ezininzi zephepha? Uhlobo luni loqeqesho okanye isicwangciso sokuziphatha esisisebenzisayo eklasini yakhe? Ngaba abafundi bakhe baphumelela kangakanani kwimfundo xa kuthelekiswa nezinye iiklasi? Uhlobo luni loqeqesho olusebenzayo nabantwana abaneentlobo ezithile zokukhubazeka? Ngaba ufundisa abafana kunye namantombazana ngokwahlukileyo?

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Ukungcola kakubi yiyona ngcamango embi

Umntwana wakho unokufumana unyaka owonakalisayo ngutitshala onzima, kodwa ukusebenzisa oko njengelungelo lokucela isicelo sonyaka ozayo akuyi kukufumana kude kakhulu. Ngokufanelekileyo, ootitshala kwisikolo somsebenzi njengeqela kunye nokuhlambalaza ilungu leqela akuyi kukuthanda kwabanye abadlali. Ukubeka nje, ukuhlala kwizinto ezimbi kwenza abantu bakubhekise ekukhanyeni okubi. Endaweni yoko, zama ukuthetha ngeenkxalabo zakho ngokubhekiselele kwimingcipheko umntwana ekufuneka anqobe kulo nyaka kunye nendlela ocinga ukuba utitshala oceliwe uya kumnceda ukuba agweme okanye ahambe nezithintelo ezifanayo ngonyaka ozayo.

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Ukunyaniseka Ngeemfuno Zomntanakho kunye Nobuntu

Ewe, sonke sifuna ukubonakalisa abantwana bethu ekukhanyeni okusemandleni, kodwa xa uzama ukufumana utitshala onokukunceda enze unyaka wakhe wemfundo uphumelele, akusikho ixesha lokugubungela kwiindawo ezibuhlungu. Ukuba umntwana wakho unenkathazo kunye negunya okanye uhamba kunye nabanye abantwana, ngoku lixesha lokuthetha njalo. Phakathi kwezinye izinto omele ukuthetha ngazo ukuba ingaba umntwana wakho unokukhubazeka, uyaluphi uhlobo loqeqesho aphendule kakuhle, indlela aphendulela ngayo ukutshintsha ngokuqhelekileyo kunye nokuba amandla akhe okufunda kunye nobuthathaka.

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Kungenxa yokuba Umntwana Wakho Unalo i-IEP ayithethi ukuba Unokukhetha uMfundisi wakhe

Abanye abazali bangaphantsi kwengcamango ephosakeleyo yokuba i- IDEA (Abantu abanezeMpilo yoKhubazeka) ibenza banike ilungelo lokukhetha utitshala wabo womntwana. Oku akunjalo nje. Unelungelo lokubandakanyeka ekubekeni umntwana wakho, oko kuthetha ukuba unokukunceda ukufumana uhlobo olulungileyo lweklasi kunye nenkqubo kuye, kodwa oko akufani nokukhetha utitshala. Nangona kunjalo, emva konyaka uqala, ukuba utitshala engayisebenzisi i-IEP yomntwana wakho, unelungelo lokucela intlanganiso ukuxoxa ngokutshintsha utitshala wakhe.

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Umsebenzi Wabafundisi Unzima Ukudala Amaklasi Alinganisiweyo

Ngamanye amaxesha, nangona umzamo wakho ongcono, umntwana wakho akanako ukufakwa kunye notitshala ocelile. Ngaphambi kokuthukuthela, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba bonke abantwana banelungelo lokufumana ithuba elihle lokufundisa. Kule nto, ootitshala kunye neenqununu zisebenza kanzima ukuqinisekisa ukuba nganye iklasi ine-balance of different types of learners, personalities and needs. Ngamaxesha amaninzi uthisha unedumela lokuthi usebenza njani nabantwana abanokukhubazeka ukufunda okanye ezinye iintlobo zabafundi kunye nabazali abaninzi bamcela eklasini. Ukuba bonke abo bantwana bafakwa kwiklasi elifanayo, utitshala uya kukhulula, ngoko umlawuli angakhetha ukubuyisela kwakhona inani labantu ngokulinganayo.