Ukufumanisa ukuba i-kati okanye intombazana yakho ibanjwe neziyobisi esikolweni kunokushiya uzive ngathi uphakathi kwentlekele enkulu.
Oku kunokukunceda ukwazi ukuba umntwana wakho akayedwa. Nangona urhulumente waseUnited States echaza ingxelo yokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi phakathi kwentsha kubonisa ukwehla kokusetyenziswa, iirhafu zokusetyenziswa kwezidakamizwa ezingekho mthethweni ngexesha lonyaka odlulileyo-kungabandakanywa inambuzane-isuka kwi-5.4 ekhulwini kwi-graders ukuya ku-14.3 ekhulwini phakathi kwabadala abakhulileyo esikolweni.
Ukusetyenziswa kwentsuku yamanqwanqwa kwimihla ephantsi kakhulu kwiminyaka emashumi, nangona i-marijuana isebenzisa phakathi kwentsha ibonakala iphakamileyo kumazwe ngemithetho yonyango, kunye nama-6 ekhulwini asebekhulile asebenzisa i-marijuana imihla ngemihla.
Ukubanjiswa neziyobisi esikolweni, kubandakanya inambuzane kunye notywala , kunokuzisa izinto ezininzi ezinzima ukuba abazali bahambe. Kukho imigaqo yesikolo sendawo, nayiphi na imigaqo yomntwana okanye imigaqo-mthetho ephathelele ekuphatheni ixabiso lempahla kwisikolo, kunye nemiphumo yempilo kunye nokuziphatha kokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi okanye umsebenzi.
Isithili ngasinye sendawo kunye nelizwe liya kuba nemithetho yayo nemithetho eya kusebenza kwiimeko nganye. Nangona kungenakho ukuba kubekho isisombululo esisodwa-isisombululo kule ngxaki, kukho izinto ezinokuqwalasela ngokukhawuleza ezinokukunceda ukuba uphathe imiphumo engabangela ukuba umntwana wakho abanjwe neziyobisi.
Cinga Ukuqhagamshelana noMmeli Ngakwesokudla
Ukuba umntwana wakho okanye umfana wakho ubanjwe ukuzisa iziyobisi esikolweni, ngokuqinisekileyo baya kukhankanywa ukuba baphula umthetho wezobugebengu zengingqi okanye olwaphulo mthetho.
Urhulumente ngamnye unesiqokelelo sawo sobugebengu obuhlukehlukeneyo. Imithetho malunga nokubuza, ukukhangela kunye nokuthathwa kwepropati konke kuyahluka phakathi kwamazwe.
Ukuqhagamshelana nommeli kusenokwenzeka kunokunceda ukukhusela amalungelo omntwana wakho. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ugqwetha lincinci liye laqhagamshelana ngakumbi nommeli angakwazi ukukucebisa wena nomntwana wakho amalungelo abo kunye nezindlela.
Ingcamango emva kokuba udibanise negqwetha ngokukhawuleza ukuba unako ukukhusela umntwana wakho ukuba angabikho kwimiphumo yezenzo zakhe, kodwa ukukunceda ukuqinisekisa isiphumo esona siphumelele ukuba umntwana wakho okanye umfana wakho anikwe iimeko.
Amatyala olwaphulo-mthetho kunye nabantwana abanobugqwetha banokuba nemiphumela engapheliyo ebomini bomntu oselula. Kukhona inokwenzeka yokuba nerekhodi yenkundla ebenokuyilandela yabadala, ezinokuchaphazela ukufakwa kwamakholeji kunye nokukhetha kwamakhondo. Ngethamsanqa, amaninzi amazwe aneentlobo ezikhethekileyo zentsapho okanye iinketho zokuqala zokubangela izigwenxa ezingagcina isenzo sokuqala sobungozi bokuthintela ngokusisigxina ikusasa lomntu omtsha. Ummeli owaziyo uya kukwazi ukukukhokela kunye nomntwana wakho kwinkqubo yendawo.
Igosa elinobuchule becala okanye ulwaphulo-mthetho luya kuqhelaniswa nendlela iimeko zendawo ezisingathwa ngayo. Ezinye iinkalo zineenkundla zentsha yoluntu, okanye ziyakwazi ukugxotha iindleko ukuba umntwana usebanjeni unyango olufanelekileyo okanye ukucebisa. Qinisekisa ukufumana igqwetha elijongene nolutsha, ulwaphulo-mthetho olunxulumene neziyobisi.
Ugqwetha kufuneka likwazi ukunikela ngeengcebiso eziqala ngexesha lokuphanda, kwaye ngoko naziphi na iziganeko ukuba iintlawulo zifakwe kwi-middle or teen.
Gcina ukhumbule ukuba kukho imigaqo ye sikolo kunye nemithetho yendawo apho i-middle or teen yakho inokuphulwa.
Ukuba unqwenela ukuba igqwetha likucebise malunga nemiba yesikolo, qiniseka ukuba wenze ukuba kucace phambili.
Cinga ukufumana uvavanyo lokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi okanye ukusetyenziswa kotywala
Ngamanye amaxesha abazali baye bakrokra ukuba umntwana wabo unokuzama ukusebenzisa iziyobisi ngaphambi kokuba abanjwe esikolweni nabo. Kodwa-ke, abazali bayothuka. Yintoni enokuza njengengcamango enzima kunomzali obanjwe egciniweyo: Ukuba umntwana wakho ubanjwe, mhlawumbi kwakungekho okokuqala ukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi.
Unokuthetha nomboneleli wonyango oza kubantwana ukuba uhanjiswe ukuhlolwa komgangatho.
Ukuba uthe waxoxisana nommeli, banokukwazi ukubonelela ngeengcebiso malunga nokufumana uvavanyo, nokuba indlela yokuvavanya inokuchaphazela njani ityala lomntwana.
Fumana nayiphi na isaziso sokumiswa okanye ezinye iindlela zokuLawulwa koLuleko
Uninzi lwezikolo ziza kufaka umfundi obanjwe neziyobisi okanye utywala ngoluhlobo oluthile lokumiswa apho umfundi uye walahlekelwa okwesikhashana amalungelo akhe ukuba ahlale kwigumbi lokufundela. Ezi zenzo zoluleko zihlala zilawulwa yinkqutyana yemigaqo-nkqubo ebhaliwe kwincwadi yamalungelo omfundi. Qinisekisa ukuba ufumane, kwaye ugcine, ikopi ebhaliweyo yoluphi na ulwalathiso oluthatyathwa sisikolo kumntwana wakho.
Le fom ebhaliweyo kufuneka ikuxelele kakuhle into yokuba umntwana wakho uqeqeshwa ngayo, kwaye ucacise imilinganiselo yoluleko njengokuba kuboniswe ngumgaqo wesikolo. Le fomu ifanele idibanise ukuba ixesha lokumiswa kufuneka lihlale ixesha elide, kwaye yintoni umntwana wakho kufuneka ayenze ukuze abuyele esikolweni.
Kufuneka ufumene kwakhona ulwazi malunga nendlela yokubhena ukunqunyulwa. Ukuba umntwana wakho unesicwangciso se- IEP (iSicwangciso seMfundo esiMntu ngamnye), banakho ukukhuselwa okongezelelweyo ngeli xesha. Izidingo zomfundi njengoko zidweliswe kwi-IEP ziya kufuneka ziqwalaselwe kwinkqubo yoqeqesho. Oku akuthethi ukuba umntwana onesi-IEP akanakunqunyulwa, kodwa kunokuba imeko zokumiswa kufuneka ziqwalaselwe kunye nokukhubazeka.
Umntwana wakho unokugxothwa ngaphandle kokumiswa. Kwakhona, uya kufuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba ugcine kwaye ugcine naziphi iirekhodi okanye amaxwebhu. Ukuba umntwana wakho ukhutshwa, qiniseka ukuba ufumanisa ukuba ngaba kusele unyaka wesikolo okanye ngaphezulu. Buza ukuba kukho iimeko eziza kwenza umntwana wakho abuyele esikolweni. Khangela ukuba zeziphi ezinye iindlela ongakhetha kuzo umntwana wakho, nokuba ungadlulela kwesinye isikolo okanye uya kwiprogram yabafundi abaye baxoshwa.
Fumana oko okufunwa ngumntwana wakho ukuba abuyele esikolweni
Imiqulu yokumiswa ingabhala nawaphi na amanyathelo okufuneka umntwana wakho awalandele ngaphambi kokuba avunyelwe esikolweni, kodwa mhlawumbi ayifaki konke okufunekayo umntwana wakho okumele akwenze ukubuyela emsebenzini wesikolo rhoqo kwaye uphumelele.
Ukongeza kwizenzo ezidweliswe kwifom yoqeqesho, umntwana wakho okanye umfana wakho ungaphuthelwa umsebenzi wesikolo ngethuba lokumiswa. Fumana esikolweni ukuba yeyiphi umsebenzi oya kuwufuna umntwana ukuba azalise, kwaye baya kukwazi ukuwugqiba njani ngeli xesha belisiwe.
Ukulungelelaniswa kwemisebenzi yecandelo elongezelelweyo kunokuchaphazeleka. Qiniseka ukuba ubuze malunga nokuba nayiphi imisebenzi yesikolo ingane yakho ithatha inxaxheba kuyo iya kuthinteka, kwaye ukuba kukho amanyathelo angayithatha ukubuyela ekubandakanyekeni.
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Nangona ukuwa kwakho kwintsholongwane yakho ebanjwe neziyobisi esikolweni kunokuxininisa kakhulu, ngexesha izinto kufuneka zihlaziye kwakhona. Nangona iziphumo zokubanjiswa neziyobisi okanye utswala kotywala esikolweni zinokubaluleka, ezi ziganeko zihlala zikhokelela ekufumaneni ingxaki efuna ukuba ingqalelo, ingaba yokuziphatha, imvakalelo okanye inxulumene nokuxhomekeka kweekhemikhali.
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