Indlela Abazali Abakwaziyo
Utywala yiyilona elisetyenziswa kakhulu yintsholongwane kunye nenxaki enkulu yeziyobisi eselula abaselula namhlanje. Ngelishwa, abazali abaninzi bancipha ingozi yokusela utywala kubantwana.
I-Surgeon General yase-US igqitha malunga ne-5,000 abantwana abangaphantsi kwe-21 abangaphantsi kweminyaka engama-21 bafa minyaka yonke ngenxa yokuphuza kwangaphantsi. Utywala obumetyhefu, ukuphazamiseka kweemoto, ukubulala abantu kunye nokuzibulala ziphakathi kweengozi ezongeziweyo eziselula xa zisela.
Nangona abazali abaninzi bengacingi ukuba abantwana babo baya kusela, inyaniso kukuba, abaninzi abaselula bazama utywala. Kubalulekile ukwazi izibonakaliso ezilumkileyo umntwana wakho oselayo.
Imiqondiso Abazali Bafumane Ngaphambi kokusela
Iintsholongwane eziceba iphathi okanye ukuqokelela apho ziza kusela khona zibonisa impawu ezininzi ze-telltale. Khangela:
- Ingane yakho ithwele i-duffel, iteksi yesikhwama sohlobo okanye i-backpack yesikolo . Unokuthutha utywala ukusuka kwikhaya lakho kwiqela.
- Iimvumi ezixhaphakileyo kwaye zixubungela phezu kwefowuni. Ewe, kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje, abaninzi abaselula bayathetha ngeetekisi okanye kumajelo asekuhlaleni kunye nokujonga iakhawunti yengane yakho.
- Imibuzo ephazamisayo ngemisebenzi yakhe . Ukuba umntwana wakho uyaxeka xa ucela into enokwenzayo, kunokuba ngumqondiso ozama ukucinga ngebali elifanelekileyo.
- Ucela ukuchitha ubusuku . Ukuba wakho umntwana usemncinci ufuna ukuhlala endlwini yomhlobo wakhe, kusenokuthetha ukuba akafuni ukuya ekhaya phantsi kwefuthe.
Naliphi na le miqondiso ibangela ukuba uhlolisise ngokuthetha nentombazana yakho malunga nokusola kwakho. Unako ukuhlola rhoqo nabanye abazali.
Ubonakaliso Umntwana Wakho Usele Ukusela
Ukuba umntwana wakho okhulayo uvela ekhaya evela kwiphathi kwaye uphefumla utywala ekuphefumuleni kwakhe okanye kwambatho, kuyimpawu eqinisekileyo ukuba uphuze. Unokuzama ukukugxotha okanye ukuxoka ngeso sizathu sokuba kutheni utywala.
Ukuba umntwana wakho uyakhubeka, udibanisa intetho yakhe okanye usebenze ngaphandle komlinganiso unokucinga ukuba kukho utswala okanye mhlawumbi nokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi.
Qaphela ukuba ukhangele imimango yomsango ekuseni. Ukuba umntwana wakho othe wuleza ufumana 'umkhuhlane' emva kokuphuma kunye nabahlobo, unokuzama ukuguqula isango. Nazi ezinye iimpawu zakho ezisenokwenzeka ukuba zidliwayo:
- Ukunciphisa imiqobo
- Ukungabikho kwengxaki
- Iingcamango ezincinci
- Ixesha eliphantsi lokuphendula
- Ukunciphisa ukulungelelaniswa
- Umsebenzi ophantsi weengqondo
- Ukujonga kunye nemibono engacacile
- Intetho edibeneyo
- Ukulala
- Imvakalelo eguqukileyo
- Umbono ombi
- Ukulala nokuphazanyiswa kwamaphethini okulala
- Ukwandiswa kwemveliso yomchamo
- Ukuphuma kwegazi ngaphezulu kwesikhumba
- Ubushushu bomzimba obuphantsi
Iimpawu ezixakekileyo zokusela ukusela:
Ngokutsho kweGqirha Jikelele, xa abantwana besela, banxila kakhulu ngexesha elinye. Iqela lentsha kunye nabanye kunye nokuphuza uluntu ukuze baphuze kaninzi kunabantu abadala. Kodwa xa ulutsha lisela, badla utywala obuninzi kunabantu abadala.
Ngokomyinge, abantu abatsha banamanzi angama-5 kwixesha elinye. Oku kuthiwa ukusela utywala, indlela eyingozi kakhulu yokusela oku kunokukhokelela kwiingxaki ezinzulu kunye nokufa. Ukuba umntwana wakho ubonisa le miqondiso, fowuni 911 okanye uqhubekele ekamelweni eliphuthumayo elisondeleyo:
- Ukuvutha
- Ukuchama okungalawulwayo
- Ukuchaswa okungalawulwayo
- Ubunzima bokuphefumula
- Ukuphuma
Ubonakaliso Umntwana Wakho Unenkinga Yokuphuza okanye Umlutha
Kungenzeka ukuba intsha ivelise iingxaki ezinzulu kotywala. Kungenzeka ngaphandle kwakho nokuba wazi. Nangona le miqondiso ingabhekisela kwenye ingxaki, ingaba yinkcazo yokukhutshwa kakubi kweziyobisi:
Iinguqu zokuziphatha
- Ukufumana iingxaki zesikolo, ukuhamba ngokungahambi kakuhle, amanani aphantsi, kunye / okanye isenzo soluleko
- Ukuvukela imithetho yasekhaya
- Ukukhohlisa, ukuphula ikhefu okanye ukuba
- Ukutshintsha abahlobo, kunye nokungafuni ukukuvumela ukuba wazi abahlobo abatsha
- Ukuba nembonakalo embi
- Ukungabi nxaxheba kwiminqweno yangaphambili
Iinguqulelo zengqondo
- Ukutshintsha kwemizwelo yokuguquguquka, ukuphazamiseka, ukukhubeka, nokukhuseleka
- Ukuba nesimo sengqondo "esingenanto."
Iinguqu Zengqondo
- Ukuba imemori iphela
- Ukunqongophala
Ukuba ubona le miqondiso ibandakanyeka ekubambeni ukusela kwakho umntwana, funa uncedo lwabafundi ngokukhawuleza. Ingane yakho ingasidinga ukululekwa ngamaxesha angaphandle okanye mhlawumbi, nangona unyango lwendawo .