Abazali bakholelwa ukuba abantwana babo abayi kuyenza izidakamizwa
Kukho ezininzi iinkolelo kunye nokungaqondani malunga nokunyuka kwiminyaka yakutshanje yokusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi ezisemthethweni, kwaye akuzona zonke ezigcinwe ngabafana. Enye yeengcamango ezinzulu ezithathwa ngabazali malunga nokusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi yiyo: Akuyi kwenzeka kwintombazana yam.
Abazali abafuni nje ukukholelwa ukuba abantwana babo baya kuthatha inxaxheba ekusebenziseni iziyobisi, imithi okanye imigaqo engekho mthethweni, kodwa inyaniso ngaphezu kwama-43 ekhulwini asebekhulile abakhulileyo bayichaza ukuba basebenzise iziyobisi ubuncinane kanye ngexesha lokuphila kwabo.
Inokuthi Inokwenzeka Ngomntwana Wakho
Ukuba unesishumi elivisayo, unobungozi bokubandakanyeka ekusebenziseni kakubi iziyobisi, kwanona kufikeleleke kakhulu, ininzi intsha ephumelelayo. Unokucinga ukuba abantwana bakho baya kuhlala besenza izigqibo ezinengqiqo, kodwa ubuchopho babo abukaphuhlisi ngokupheleleyo, ngoko ukugweba kwabo kunye nokukwazi ukwenza izigqibo kungekhona oko ucingayo.
Kwabafana "abalungileyo" abavela kumakhaya amahle kwaye baya ezikolweni ezilungileyo banokubandakanywa ekusebenziseni kakubi iziyobisi, ngokukodwa ukusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi, ngokubhekiselele kwiBhunga leSizwe kwiNgcaciso yolwazi kunye neMfundo. Abazali kufuneka baqonde isizathu sokuba abatsha bathethe ukuqala ukusebenzisa iziyobisi.
Kutheni Iintsholongwane Zisebenzisa Iidakamizwa
NgokweBhunga, ukuqonda ukuba kutheni abatsha banokusebenzisa iziyobisi kunokubanceda abazali - kunye nootitshala, abaqeqeshi nabanye - babuze imibuzo efanelekileyo kwaye bangenelele kwangaphambili ukuba kukho ingxaki. Nazi ezinye zezizathu ezenza abatsha banqume ukusebenzisa kakubi iziyobisi:
- Ukuphepha okanye ukuzinyango
- Ukungabi nokuzithemba
- Ukuthabatha ingozi, ukufunwa okuvuyisayo
- Ifuthe labangani
Kutheni iDerms?
Kwiminyaka yakutshanje, ukusetyenziswa kwezonyango ezingekho mthethweni kuye kwagqitywa okanye kwayeka, kodwa kuye kwanda ukwanda kokwethuka kwezilwanyana zemithi. Ngokwecandelo lophando lweBhunga, zezi zizathu zezizathu ezenziwa ngabafana ukuba baye kwizidakamizwa zemithi:
- Kukho ngaphantsi kwehlazo
- Inkolelo yokuba bakhuselekile
- Kulula ukufumana
- Kulula ukufihla
- Abazali abanako ukuvutha
Abazali Bangenza Umehluko
Iindaba ezilungileyo ngabazali banokwenza into ekuthintela ukusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi eziselula. Okokuqala, unokukhusela amayeza akho ekhaya ukwenzela ukuba azukufumaneka lula. Qhubeka kunye neepilisi zakho kwaye ulahla kakuhle amayeza angasetyenziswa.
Okwesibini, thetha nabantwana bakho malunga nobungozi obubandakanyeka ekusebenziseni kakubi iziyobisi. Uphando lubonisa ukuba abatsha abafundiswa ekhaya malunga neengozi zokusetyenziswa kwezidakamizwa bangama-50% amathuba okusebenzisa iziyobisi kunabantwana abangafundiswa ngeengozi ekhaya.
Imithombo:
IBhunga likaZwelonke malunga neNgcaciso yolwazi kunye neMfundo " I-Trending Challenge: Kutheni abantwaba bajika kwiMithi yobisi (PDF) " ngoNovemba 2009.
Ukusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi kunye noLawulo lweeNkonzo zeeNkonzo zeMpilo "Uphando lweSizwe malunga nokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi kunye neMpilo