Iinjongo zokuzama ukuziphatha kunye nokuziphatha abazali abangalindela
Abaninzi abaneminyaka engama-13 bavuyiswa ukuba babe ngabaselula. Nangona kunjalo, uninzi lwawo alukhulile ngokwaneleyo ukujongana noxanduva olucinga ukuba lufanele luhambisane nale ntsha ebalulekileyo ebomini babo. Nazi ezinye izinto onokuzilindela kumntu oneminyaka engama-13 ubudala.
Ukutya kunye Nondlo
Umntwana wakho oneminyaka engama-13 uya kufuna ukuzigqiba isigqibo sokuba ufuna ukutya into okanye ayikho.
Njengokuba kukho izinto ezininzi ezinxulumene nentsha, ukutya kukukhetha okwenziwa ngumntwana, kungekukho ukutya kunye nokuphila kakuhle. Bafuna ukuthetha.
Esi sihlandlo sihlala sisisombululo esidla isidlo esinokudla. Emva kokuba uqale ukunika umntwana wakho oneminyaka engama-13 ithuba lokuba enze ezo zigqibo , unokubona ukuba uzimisele ukuzama ukutya okutsha.
Impembelelo ebalulekileyo yokufumana ukuba abantwana batye kakuhle kukukhetha okwenzayo , kungekhona ekukhethweni kwabo. Gcina ikhitshi yakho inokutya okutya okunokutya okufana ne-saldi yezithelo okanye i-mixes yokulandelela equkethe izityalo kunye ne-grains epheleleyo.
Ukulala
Ininzi eneminyaka engama-13 ubudala ayikhathazeki kakhulu ngokulala njengoko iphathelene nokulawula "ixesha lokulala". Bavakalelwa kukuba ixesha elithile apho baxelelwa ukuba balele kulala, bengabantwana, kwaye abasengumntwana.
Oku kuyaqondakala kwaye mhlawumbi enye yeendlela zokuqala uza kubona umntwana wakho elula izidumbu zakhe zokuzimela. Thetha kwintsapho yakho malunga nentsapho yonke inkqubo uze udibanise ngexesha lokulala elidibene naloo shedyuli.
Ukuzivocavoca nokuPhepha
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umntu oneminyaka engama-13 ubudala abe nomsebenzi wokuzilolonga nokuzilolonga. Ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuba abantwana abaselula bayayisebenzisa, mhlawumbi baya kuthwala loo mkhwa omhle ukuba babe ngabantu abadala.
Abazali bavame ukuvakalelwa ukuba ukuba abantwana babo bezemidlalo esikolweni, bafumana umsebenzi abawufunayo.
Kodwa imidlalo ehlelekile iphela yonyaka nje kwaye ayincede ngokwenene umntwana wakho ahlale emzimbeni wempilo. Urhulumente wesigqeba kunye ne-American Academy ye-Pediatrics batusa ukuba abantwana abaselula bafumane imizuzu engama-60 yokulinganisela ukuba benze umsebenzi onamandla kwiintsuku ezininzi.
Abashumi elineminyaka elishumi elinesithathu ubudala bancinci ngenxa yemizimba yabo ekhulayo. Oku kunokukhokelela kwiingozi ezilinye okanye ezimbini xa bedlala imidlalo okanye benza ukuzivocavoca.
Gcina ikiti yokuncedisa yokuqala enokuhlala ekhaya nasemotweni. Ungaphinda ufune ukuthwala ikhadi lakho le-inshurensi yezokwelapha kunye nenombolo yabo yoKhuseleko loLuntu xa uye emidlalweni yabo, xa kunjalo.
Ukuxinezeleka
Njengoko behamba ebusheni, uneminyaka engama-13 ubudala unokukhathazeka ngokuthi "uyinto evamile." Bajongana namalungu abo atshintsho. Konke oku kuya kubangela uxinzelelo. Eli nqanaba linika ithuba lokufundisa: Unokukunceda umntwana wakho afunde indlela yokuphumula ngokusebenzisa imisebenzi enempilo efana nokuzivocavoca, ukuphulaphula umculo ophakamisayo okanye ukuphunyuka kwincwadi enhle.
Ukuthintela, uxanduva, kunye nokuLawula
Ngenxa yokuba wakho oneminyaka engama-13 ubudala uye wahlakulela ngokukhawuleza uxanduva oluzimeleyo kwiminyaka embalwa kwaye ufuna ezinye iilungelo, ngoku lixesha elifanelekileyo lokunikezela inkululeko encinane. Tshela wakho umntwana ukuba azuze amanye amalungelo ngokubonakalisa ukuba unokunyanzela.
Ukuba unako ukwenza imisebenzi yakhe ngaphandle kokukhumbuza kwaye unokufumana umsebenzi wakhe wesikolo okwenziwe ngexesha elingenamntu omdala emagxeni akhe, unokulungela uxanduva olutsha. Ukuba kunjalo, usenzima ukuphuma ebhedeni ekuseni kwaye akakwazi ukugcina igumbi lakhe licocekile, unokukubonisa ukuba ufuna ukuqhuba ngaphezulu ngaphambi kokuba athembeke ukwenza izigqibo ngokwakhe.