Abazali abanqwenela ukunqoba abantwana kufuneka baqinisekise ukuba banxibe ngokufanelekileyo zonke iintlobo zenkundla. Ingubo efanelekileyo iyahluka ngokusekelwe kwithuba lonyaka okanye indawo, kodwa naphi na apho uhlala khona (kwaye nangona iimozulu ishushu), umgomo wakho kufuneka ube ukubonakala uqokelele kwaye unoxanduva. Nangona udidi lwakho kunye nembali kunye nabantwana bakho kufuneka badlale indima ebaluleke ngakumbi kuneembonakalo zakho, ukubonakala kubonakala.
IiNcwadi eziPhezulu kunye neZingcebiso
E-United States, kulula ukuba 'ugqoke impumelelo' ngokukhetha iingubo, iinwele, iifom, kunye nezixhobo ngokuhlakanipha. Xa ugqoke ityala lokugcinwa kwengane, impumelelo ibambelela ekugcinweni; ukwenza loo nto, kuya kufuneka ukhangeleke njengomntu oqolileyo, onobuchule obunzulu, kwaye ukhuseleko lwezezimali ngokusemandleni. Nangona ungenayo iingubo ezifanelekileyo, kulungele ixesha lakho ukuboleka okanye ufumene ingubo efanelekileyo kwivenkile ehamba phambili. Nazi ezinye izicatshulwa zokucamngca xa ubeka ingubo yakho ndawonye:
- Zibeke kwiidada zejaji, uze ucinge ngendlela asabela ngayo kuwe. Unokwenza oku ngokujonga iimeko zangasese zokugcinwa kwabantwana kwingingqi yakho. Abantu bagqoke njani? Yayiphi indlela umgwebi ebonakala ngayo ukuba, umzekelo, ubaba ebonakalisa i-shirt ye-muscle kunye ne-flip-flops?
- Cinga ngokwakho njengomdlali weza kumgangatho. Udala iingubo kumntu onzulu, oqolileyo kunye onyanisekileyo. Umntu onjalo unokuba wugqoke?
- Cinga nje iingubo zakho kodwa kunye neenwele zakho, ukwakheka, nokuziphatha. Ukuba iinwele zakho zingumbala ongaqhelekanga, qwalasela i-wig okanye uphinde uhlaziye. Ukuba unxiba ukubhoboza ngaphandle kwamacici, cinga ukukrazula iigrafu kunye nokufihla imingxuma nge-makeup. Ukuba unamathambo, qwalasela iingubo ezigubungela ininzi yazo. Ukuba ufuna ukuhlafuna i-gum, musa. Zonke iinguqu ezincinci zinokutshintsha kakhulu ingcinga oyenzayo.
Iingubo ezifanelekileyo eziMadoda
Abantwana abanqwenela ukunqoba ukugcinwa kwengane kufuneka baqinisekise ukuba bembethe kakuhle ngokuvalelwa kwengane. Imizekelo yesambatho esifanelekileyo kumadoda yile:
- Isambatho esimnyama
- Ikhati elidibeneyo
- Gqoka izicathulo
- Umtya
Iingubo ezifanelekileyo eziTyhini
AmaMom angathanda ukufumana ukugcinwa kwengane kufuneka aqinisekise ukuba ayenayo imbonakalo efanelekileyo ngexesha lonke lokuvalelwa kwengane. Eminye imizekelo yeengubo ezifanelekileyo kubafazi:
- Iingubo ezimnyama okanye i-suit skirt
- Gqoka izicathulo / iipompo
- Ingubo emnyama, engeyiyo ephathekayo
- Iigqoko ezinemikhono ende
Izinto zokugqoka zokuPhepha
Abazali abanqwenela ukunqoba umntwana kufuneka baphephe ukugqoka izinto ezithile zokugqoka enkundleni. Imizekelo yesambatho ukuphepha:
- Imiketi emfutshane (ngasentla kwedolo)
- Iikhati ezingenamikhono
- Sneakers
- Izicathulo ezivulekileyo (kuquka i-flip-flops)
- Izambatho eziqinileyo okanye ezifanelekileyo
Ngaphandle kwexesha
Ukuba umzali unomntwana ogcinwe ngexesha lehlobo, kungenangqiqo ukumbatha i-suit epheleleyo yesibini okanye ezintathu. Umzali unokuguqula ukugqoka ukuze ihambelane nexesha. Ngokomzekelo, unokwenza ijacket i-suit ijonge ekutshiseni okukhulu. Nangona kubushushu, nangona kunjalo, amadoda namabhinqa kufuneka baphephe iifutshane, iiflip-flops kunye neentonga ezingenamikhono.