Ingqwalasela Yokutya Umntwana Wakho

Ukuba uyamkela umntwana omtsha kwintsapho yakho, uza kuba nezigqibo ezithile malunga nokutya. Kwaye nangona uvakalelwa kukuba unobunzima okanye usongelo ekuqaleni, into yokuba kukho iindlela ezininzi xa ukondla umntwana wakho kuyinto enhle. Kuyonwabile ukwazi ukuba unako ukunondla umntwana wakho, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ukhetho oluthile lusebenza kakuhle kwintsapho yakho.

Ukondla umntwana kunokubonakala ngathi ngumsebenzi olula kwaye uqonde, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha uvakalelwa njengento elula kodwa elula. Xa kuziwa kokusondeza umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa, umzekelo, kukho ukhetho oluninzi olunokuthi lube nalo, ukususela ekunceliseni ukuxilisa ukuxuba okuxubekileyo ekusebenziseni ubisi obunikiweyo kwondlo lwefomula. Nantsi ingqwalasela yezinto ozikhethayo zokuncedisa umntwana wakho.

Ukuncelisa

Ukuncelisa isisombululo esinzima. Nangona uphando lubonisile ukuba ukuncelisa kunamalungelo amaninzi ezempilo kubantwana, akusoloko isigqibo esilula ukwenza. Ukuxiliswa, nangona kunenzuzo kakhulu kwiintsana kunye nesixhobo esinamandla esinxulumene phakathi konina nomntwana, kufuna ixesha, izixhobo kunye nenkxaso.

Ukuncwina kukukhetha kakuhle kwiintsapho ezininzi, ukuba kunokwenzeka. Uya kufuneka uzifundise ngeenzuzo zokuncelisa, ukuqaliswa kokuncelisa, kunye nendlela yokusingatha nayiphi na imeko ekhethekileyo ongayifumana nayo.

Ukutya kweFomula

Ukuba uceba ucwangciso lwakho lokusondeza umntwana wakho, nantsi ezinye izibonelelo zokukunceda ukuba uqalise:

Ukuxiliswa okuxutywayo

Abanye abantu abanokuthi baqaphele ukuba ukutya okuxubekileyo kukukhetha , kodwa kukhethwe ngokufanelekileyo okusebenza kwiintsapho ezininzi. Ukutya okuxubileyo kunokusebenza ngokuhlukileyo kwintsapho nganye kwaye yintoni eyenza kube lula kakhulu.

Unokudibanisa nayiphi na intlobo yokondla, njengokuncelisa umntwana wakho kunye nokuxhaswa kunye nefomula okanye usebenzisa umxube lobisi lobisi lomnini kunye nefomula okanye ubisi obumfuyo kunye nefomula. Ukuncelisa isisu kulungelelanise kwaye umzimba wakho uya kulungelelanisa kwishedyuli oyikhethayo. Unokuncelisa umntwana wakho kusasa, kodwa sebenzisa ifomula kamva kwiminikelo yokuxutywa ngemini kuthetha ukudibanisa imithetho esebenzela wena.

Kwiimeko ezizodwa

Kukho iimeko ezikhethekileyo ezahlukahlukeneyo onokuhlangabezana nazo xa usondeza umntwana wakho, ukusuka kwintlungu ukuya kwiimfuno zempilo umntwana wakho onako.

I ziqhamo

Emva kokuba umntwana wakho ekulungele ukufaka iziqulatho kunye nezinye izidakamizwa ekudleni kwakhe, isondlo sesana siba liphela liphela hlabathi. Kodwa kuyinto enomdla! Ungahlola zonke iindlela zokuzisa ukutya kunye neziphuzo ezintsha ekudleni komntwana wakho, njenge:

Ukwenza isigqibo esifanelekileyo

Ukondla umntwana wakho akufanele kube nzima, kodwa kusenokuba yithuba apho kufuneka ufunde ukwenza izigqibo ezilungele wena, umntwana wakho kunye nentsapho yakho yonke. Kwakhona kungathi ukufunda kwimimandla yasemasimini okanye izigwebo ezivela kwabanye ngaphandle kwimeko yentsapho yakho enokuba neengcamango malunga noko ufanele uyenze. Kodwa kubalulekile ukugcina engqondweni ukuba akukho nto "efanelekileyo" yokunyusa umntwana-kuphela yindlela ekhethekileyo yokukhetha umntwana wakho .

Kungakhathaliseki ukuba uyazi okanye akunjalo, ukhetho lokutya lunokuchaphazela intsapho yonke, ngoko kuyakunceda ukuthatha zonke iintsapho zakho kwiimfuno zokwenza izigqibo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ukhetha ukuncelisa, kuya kuthinta njani ikhefu lentsapho yakho? Ingaba umsebenzi wokuncedisa iifom zibe kwisabelomali seentsapho? Ingaba unayo inkxaso efunekayo ukwenza ukhetho lokutya ocinga ukuba lungcono?

Ungesabi ukujonga umfanekiso omkhulu xa wenza isigqibo sakho esiphezulu. Kwaye nangona usenza isigqibo, kulungile ukukhumbula ukuba akukho nto ihlala isetye. Unokuhlala uguqula ingqondo yakho okanye uphinde ubuyekelele imeko ukuba into itshintsha.

Igama elivela kwi-Verywell

Uhambo lwakho lokutya kunye nosana lwakho lixesha elonwabisayo. Ngubani ongathandi ukudla, akunjalo? Khangela oku njengethuba lokufumana isisombululo sokusondeza esilungele wena, umntwana wakho kunye nosapho lwakho.